General headcanons for Alfred as a boyfriend (SFW)
Here's my first actual post on this blog, hehe... I can't find the ask but someone requested some Alfred headcanons, so here are my rambles about what I think he's like as a boyfriend!
Heās honestly not the most traditionally romantic person. Your relationship is more like friends who make out sometimes. But he does have his own little ways of showing you he loves you!
Heāll put together playlists of songs that remind him of you. Theyāre mostly loose connections, like maybe a song mentions your eye color, or the lyrics remind him of a date you went on together, or it just sounds romantic and makes him wanna kiss you. He likes to sit with you while you listen (to every single song), and he interrupts the songs a bit to explain why he chose them.
āThis one had me thinking what if we were dancing in a ballroom together, and out of nowhere, bam! Zombies bust in. The door crashes to the ground! Our dance turns into one of those cool fighting scenes with theāoh, this part reminded me of the time I woke up early and you were about to fall off the bed. You had a cute bedhead.ā
(You have no idea what the lyrics are at this point.)
Dates with him are pretty casual, more like āhanging outā than anything fancy. Maybe you stay at home and watch movies/play games, or you go out for dinner at a local diner, or you go do awful karaoke together, or you go and prank a friend together.
Heās happy as long as heās with you. Bonus if thereās food and/or drink.
He occasionally takes you out to a more traditional restaurant and dresses for the occasion. Theyāre usually expensive, too. The food isnāt his preference (too complicated for his palate), but if it makes you happy, heās all for dealing with it for just one night.
His primary love languages are acts of service and quality time. Heās always doing what he can to help you out (and feel proud of himself in the process). Whether he helps you run errands, runs a bath for you ahead of time, or fluffs your pillow before you get in bed, itās all because he wants to make your life easier!
He gets a little jealous if you ever spend time with your shared friends without him, or if you spend more time with others than him.
Heās so excited if you take interest in any of his hobbies. Movies? Heāll ask if you want to co-write a script with him. (Heās very relaxed about what exactly ends up in the script.) Archaeology? He has so many random facts to dump on you, and heāll be super impressed by any knowledge you have on it. Conspiracy theories? Time to watch a bunch of documentaries! He enjoys them despite their flaws, but lets you know exactly when something is false and what actually happened.
He tries to take interest in your hobbies, too, even if he doesnāt understand what youāre talking about. It could be the most boring thing and heād still listen and ask you questions about it. If it makes you happy, he wants to know all about it.
Pet names from him consist of things like babe, dude (š), honey, occasionally sweetie, (jokinglyā¦ mostly) prince or princess. Itās all over the place. Heāll call you honey and dude back-to-back sometimes.
He loves debating if youāre comfortable with it! But be warned, he gets very heated about certain topics. His sense of justice is important to him. Otherwise, heās usually not serious about these debates and doesnāt care who wins.
He tries to keep things light and doesnāt usually let people see his more serious side. Heāll open up to you more over time, however. Itās really him letting a wall down and allowing himself to get closer to you.
Every now and then, he has days where heās a lot quieter and calmer than usual. He just wants to relax, stay on the couch with you and watch movies or simply chat. Maybe a movie chattering in the background as he tells you about his childhood. He doesnāt try so hard to keep up this energetic, heroic persona.
Heās right back to normal the next day like nothing happened.
Likes to annoy you for fun. Not in a mean-spirited way. He just thinks your responses are cute and has poor impulse control. Poking your cheeks or ruffling your hair or playing an obnoxious song loudly on the stereo while he dances. But heāll back off if youāre genuinely upset with him. He means no harm.
He loves if youāre willing to play along with whatever he gets up to. Maybe heās decided heās going to try and vacuum the whole house while doing a handstand on the vacuum. You can hold onto his legs to help him stay balanced.
This man is very impulsive and has a tendency to get himself hurt. Random bruises all over his body or a cut along his forearm. He bounces back easily, and doesnāt want to fuss over it, but he lowkey likes if you baby him about it. Heāll always say how itās not a big deal and he can take it, but his heart does this little flutter when you show concern, and even more if you force him to take better care of himself.
He burns himself in the kitchen and you force him to run it under cold water. Heās swooning inside.
He likes to gossip about others, especially over breakfast. He canāt help it; heās just nosy, and he always has an idea of whatās going on and how he can help out. Huge bonus if you gossip with him!
He loves to feed you, but the majority of the food he brings for you is burgers or tubs of ice cream. He likes to experiment with the burgersā toppings and seasonings, but theyāre all burgers nonetheless.
Every now and then, he does plan some big romantic endeavor. Itās like a surprise. You never know when itās comingā¦ You wake up one morning and find out heās booked a week long cruise, your bedroom is filled with balloons, and thereās enough breakfast food on the table to feed an army.
He does this thing sometimes (often) where he swoops in and has to save you. A puddle on the ground? No need to fear! He picks you up and swiftly carries you over it. The safest place for you is in his arms. Heāll even lay down and let you use him as a bridge if you want.
A suspicious penny on the sidewalk? LOOK OUT, IT MIGHT BE A BOMB! Let HIM step on it before you get blown up!
He steps on it. Nothing happens. Better safe than sorry!
If youāre the more independent type, that wonāt stop him from trying. He just wants to keep you safe and have you appreciate his efforts. Being disinterested or resistant will just make him try harder.
Says cheesy stuff like āhappy wife, happy lifeā unironically. Heās also the type to use terrible pickup lines to flirt with you. Totally unaware of how bad they are until you start laughing.
He also doesnāt care that theyāre bad. Heās just having fun.
Loves to give you his clothes to wear. Seriously. You want one of his hoodies? Try six of them.
You complain when one stops smelling like him so he puts it on, works out, then gives it back to you like :D! Fixed the problem!
He takes so many pictures of you guys. Videos, too. His phone storage is eaten up by it. His favorite thing is to take selfies together. Usually with some silly filter. Or an even sillier caption.
āme and the babe out shoppingā and itās a picture of you, holding a piece of fruit with the dog ears filter
Heās not the most physically affectionate, but he always gives you morning kisses and especially kisses before leaving the house. He also loves carrying you around (mostly bridal style) in his arms for no reason other than he can. A hand on your back, another on your thighs, your head pressed against his chest. He loves it.
He loves knowing you find him physically attractive! He worries sometimes about being too overweight, so any reassurance that you like his body helps. If you think heās hot, and youāre hot yourself, that must mean he definitely is.
Has a tendency to call you hot, but heāll call you other things if it makes you uncomfortable.
Occasionally brags about you and how lucky he is. Not as often as you might think. Though he gets oddly competitive if anyone acts like their partner is better than you and starts spouting whatever he can so everyone knows youāre the absolute best. No competition.
