Hi, everyone!
I wanted to start this by saying thank you to everyone who understood my need to take a break from here. Thank you so much.
Second of all, I would like to talk a little about what was making me so uncomfortable that I decided I wasn’t able to be my kindest self when answering or talking about it, even though at the biggest point of hate during January and early February, I was okay.
I made some difficult decisions during these months, to bring some happiness and silly banter to some very stressful moments. This included talking about topics I am not completely comfortable about talking, including talking about Percy’s dating life. And I talked about it, as long as it wasn’t disrespectful, and people weren’t trying to either pass judgment or try and control his life.
However, over the past 15 days, I have received more and more asks just plain disregarding any respect about him as a person (with feelings and the right to privacy), trying to pass judgment over his SUPPOSED choices in life, or trying to control his life.
It’s not our place as FANS to pass judgment. To try and control his life. Or to pry on his private life.
I had a lot of people trying to justify it. Saying “oh everyone already knows”, “haters shared it first”. And honestly, I think we should always aim to be better than haters. To behave in a way that wouldn’t make Percy (or anyone you’re a fan of) angry, or afraid, or uncomfortable.
So many people complained about how Jenna fans always tried to control her life. Let me tell you, some of the asks I got here… weren’t any better. It was the same story, in a different font. So take a few moments to think over everything, and ask yourself: am I trying to put Percy in a tiny little box where I am only happy with him and support him if he doesn’t deviates from these parameters? Because if the answer is yes, my blog isn’t the place for you.
The last thing I would like to talk about, is how I have been chastised by some anons for “worrying too much” about Percy.
How much I do or do not worry, honestly, it’s my problem. Not no one else’s.
This is my blog. I always spoke my mind and my opinions, and I won’t be cowed into not speaking what I believe or feel due to an audience’s wishes.
If you don’t like it, don’t read it. It’s MY blog. I opened it up for you all because of Percy.
No one else could have made me come back into fandom life. Exactly because of this kind of behaviour.
I came out of my fandom retirement for Percy. Everything I have been doing is to try and help him. In any way I can. So honestly, if you don’t like how I have been doing stuff, that’s your right. But don’t come into my blog trying to make me change my behaviour as if I was an errant child.












