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No DNI. It/They/He.

[hidden-radqueers]

Tagging System That The Community Should Use

Note: We’re not going to censor anything to make it easier for everybody to understand what we’re trying to say and eliminate as much confusion and misunderstanding as possible. If we’re missing anything please let us know and we will add it to the post. We hope this helps the community so everybody that doesn’t want to use mainstream tags but still want to tag their things then they can do so. And this is a very long post.

Slur tags

#rq disability slur

#rq queer slur

#rq race slur

#rq slur

Religious tags

rq spirituality

rq cult

rq fult

rq god

rq deity

rq religion

rq religious

rq witchcraft

Noncon tags

rq rape

rq csa

rq cocsa

rq sa

rq assault

rq harassment

rq csam

rq csem

rq grooming

rq child abuse

rq animal abuse

Visual tags

rq eyestrain

rq bright colors

rq bright colours

rq fast movement

rq quick motion

Fears tags

rq bugs

rq spiders

rq holes

rq darkness

rq heights

rq open space

rq crowds

rq needles

rq sharp objects

rq weapons

rq choking

rq open water

rq ocean

rq drowning

rq people

rq numbers

rq storm

rq lightening

rq thunder

rq bacteria

rq space

rq gravity

rq amphibians

rq mirrors

rq snow

rq confined spaces

rq clowns

rq dogs

rq big animals

rq small animals

rq trees

rq dentist

rq doctor

rq medical

rq accidents

rq cats

rq horses

rq marriage

rq knees

rq public speaking

rq sun

rq fake blood

rq blood

rq reptiles

rq water

rq tornado

rq hurricane

rq childbirth

rq large things

rq small things

rq dirt

rq germs

rq death

rq dead things

rq bones

rq guts

rq hospital

rq gaining weight

rq losing weight 

rq snakes

rq birds

rq diseases

rq children

rq phobias

rq feet

rq ferns

rq fire

rq flying

rq schools

rq moon

rq social evaluation

rq sleep

rq speed

rq injections

rq strangers



Other tags

rq typing quirk

rq long post

rq not screen reader friendly

rq not visual impaired friendly

rq eating disorder

rq weight talk

rq weight gain

rq weight loss

rq self harm

rq caps

rq cussing

rq sui

rq violence 

rq high

rq 420

rq drunk

rq alcohol

rq under the influence



Already known tags

rq nsft

rq vent



[russian-piece-of-shit]

WEED LOLI / STONER LOLI

An ID for an`/one who's a loli that uses weed, or is a loli that is a stoner.

WEED SHOTA / STONER SHOTA

An ID for an`/one who's a shota that uses weed, or is a shota that is a stoner.

WEED CRONA/NANA / STONER CRONA/NANA

An ID for an`/one who's a crona/nana that uses weed, or is a crona/nana that is a stoner.

WEED CUB / STONER CUB

An ID for an`/one who's a cub that uses weed, or is a cub that is a stoner.

WEED SEKI / STONER SEKI

An ID for an`/one who's a seki that uses weed, or is a seki that is a stoner.

[thefairytaler]

So here's what happened on Reddit:

A transmasc posted about how transmascs and trans men are often invisible, how our issues are dismissed, and how resources, especially medical ones, are almost always written with non transmascs in mind. They posted this both to r/Trans and r/lgbt.

A moderator of r/Trans responded by telling them to “stop bitching.” That’s the word they used. That’s the level of respect trans men get. Transandrophobic by the way, don't call trans men bitches.

The comment was deleted, quietly, after backlash. Then the entire post was removed. When asked why, a mod responded that the post was “playing oppression olympics,” and took the time to go through and dismiss each of the original poster’s points, including saying that trans men being sexually assaulted isn’t “unique to transmascs” and therefore not an issue, and claiming that access to testosterone isn’t any more restricted than access to estrogen, which is a straight-up lie, because T is a tightly controlled substance in most places and E is not.

The original poster was banned for three days.

Then a separate mod made a post saying, “nobody asked us our side of the story,” which is wild because people absolutely did, publicly and repeatedly. Users also started reporting that they’d had supportive comments removed or had been banned after disagreeing with the mods, some of those claims are still unconfirmed, but given the general behavior, it wouldn’t be surprising.

Then r/Trans locked down entirely. No new posts. The conversation was forcibly ended.

Some people posted about it on r/FTM, many of those posts were mass-reported, automatically removed by Reddit’s automod, or quietly buried. Meanwhile, r/lgbt also removed the original post, with no explanation.

One of the r/Trans mods eventually posted an “apology,” which was really just a soft-scrubbed PR post full of noncommittal language and distancing. They said they didn’t mean to call a trans man “a bitch,” they just used it synonymously with “complaining,” and they didn’t think about the implications until later even though the first post was about microaggressions just like the mod committed. They did not apologize for anything else, not for wrongfully banning people, not for accusing a transmasc venting like any other user of playing oppression olympics, nothing at all. They said they’re on break and can’t do anything about it. They said, and I quote, “please don’t be mad at the rest of the team.” even though the rest of the team are just as culpable for not stopping their behavior.

They also added that trans men are “a welcome part of the community” and tried to point at moderation history as proof. Because apparently we should be grateful that people occasionally get banned, every so often, for implying trans men aren't oppressed at all, wow, thanks, that is like below the bare minimum, cool.

The current state of things is: r/Trans has over 600,000 members, and trans men and transmascs were silenced, banned, and told to shut up for bringing up their own oppression. And the subreddit is locked down. There’s a mass exodus happening to the new sub, r/trans4every1, but let’s be real, the damage has already been done.

Now let’s talk about what this actually means.

This is not “just more Tumblr discourse.” This isn’t some random blog saying they don’t like transmascs. This isn’t a Twitter reply guy. This isn’t a niche zine or a spicy personal take. This is a massive trans-focused subreddit with over half a million users. It's easily one of the largest public facing trans community online, maybe even the largest, I've certainly never found a bigger one myself. And the moderation team made it crystal clear: they do not want transmascs to feel safe or welcome there.

This is what transandrophobia looks like on a slightly larger internet scale. When it’s in the hands of people who get to decide who gets heard and who gets deleted.

And for anyone who’s still stuck on “well they apologized” listen: trans men are told all the time that we’re being too loud, too angry, too entitled, too manly, too feminine, too confusing, too “binary,” too "Nonbinary", too much. We’re told that we’re “oppression olympics-ing” just for talking about our lives. And now we're getting banned and locked out of the spaces that claim to represent a huge portion of online trans people.

This isn't just online drama. This is a bellwether. And if it isn’t setting off alarms in your head, it should be.

The way transandrophobia manifests in online spaces absolutely bleeds into real life, into medical gatekeeping, into poor data collection, into the erasure of sexual violence against transmascs, into advocacy groups that write us out of the picture, into educational materials that treat us like footnotes, if they include us at all.

And if you’re sitting there thinking, “well it’s not that deep,” you’re part of the problem.

We need to start being more honest about this: Transandrophobia is real, it is widespread, and it is growing. We need to stop giving people the benefit of the doubt when they’ve shown us they don’t want us in the room.

And frankly?

We need to start making TRFs [Trans Radfems & transmasc-exclusionary feminists alike] deeply uncomfortable being open about their beliefs. We need to make them afraid to be TRFs, the way they’re trying to make us afraid to exist.

The same way we don’t coddle fascists. The same way we don’t tolerate TERFs. We need to stop tiptoeing around transandrophobia.

Because this growing wave of transandrophobia is going to kill people. Full stop.

Protect trans men. Protect transmascs. Protect your siblings; all of them!

Edit because I forgot to add it:

Another thing worth noting is that not only was r/trans deleting and banning any users and posts talking about the situation, they were deleting any posts talking about transmasc issues or transmasc positivity full stop.

Even when those posts had nothing to do with the current issue. They were being silenced. They were being actively erased, in a trans space.

[dni-archive]

[hidden-radqueers]

I will say it until the literal end of time. You can’t be racist to white beings. Cracker, mayo cracker and etc etc are not slurs and never will be. You can be pre-justice to white beings but never racist. They’re never be hate crimed or faced discrimination against them just for being white. But if you’re mixed and white passing and you faced discrimination it’s because you’re mixed not that you’re white passing or indigenous not because you’re white passing. It’s not your whiteness that got in harms way it’s always has been for a totally different reason like you’re trans, queer, mixed, religion or whatever but never because you’re white.

[thollandss-deactivated20231215]

reblog to send your mutuals a hug. maybe just the thought is enough to cheer them up 🥺

[r4dg4yp1llz]

I'm too socially anxious to actually tag my moots but if they see it I'm giving them all the biggest hugs ever :3

[asterosian]

“Do trans men belong in women’s spaces?” I hate the phrasing of that question entirely. It’s secretly multiple questions disguised as one while using a vague term that serves no purpose other than to lead someone to a specific conclusion.

So let’s rephrase it.

“Do trans men belong in women’s spaces clinics that offer services meant for those with vaginas, uteruses, etc?” If they have the relevant anatomy that needs care, then obviously yes. I’m sorry, do you want trans men to get cancer and die because it went undetected too long? Because that’s how you get trans men to get cancer and die because it went undetected too long. Also, why is that space considered a women’s space to begin with and why should we let it stay that way?

“Do trans men belong in women’s spaces feminist advocacy groups fighting for abortion rights?” Yes because leaving trans men out means the people writing the law can simply forget trans men exist and write it in such a way where some asshole familiar with the law can use the exact wording to justify denying necessary care to a trans man because he is a trans man. If the law says “no woman should be denied access to abortion care…” and the trans man is legally a man, he will find himself in the same situation as the trans man who gets that phone call from his insurance saying “hey, sorry, but since you’re a man, we’re not covering that pap smear and you will be charged the full amount.” Not just in terms of paying either. “If you were a real man, you wouldn’t need an abortion. Come back after you fix your documents so they indicate you’re a female, but like, maybe motherhood would fix you so. Idk not my problem anymore. Goodbye!”

“Do trans men belong in women’s spaces lesbian book clubs or whatever?” They’re probably already there anyway and they’re not causing any problems just by being men in what is traditionally a women’s only thing. Plus, chances are they’ve been there since before coming out as trans so you’d just be kicking him out for coming out. I don’t have to explain to anyone why that’s kind of messed up, right?

“Do trans men belong in women’s spaces Should we kick people out of our arbitrarily female-only group if they come out as trans?” I guess I have to explain after all. It’s not gender validating for us to be suddenly ejected from every space we’ve found friends in before. You’re punishing someone for being trans. That’s all they did, was be trans.

[silence-is-underrated]

No actually they're loud as fuck

[hidden-radqueers]

Warnings for NSFW, cop mention, child rape, suicidal ideation, para. Just a fantasy. But it needs trigger warnings so check the tags.

I was in elementary school I’m not exactly sure what my grade or my age was back then but yeah.

When the cop put those cold handcuffs on me I wished they had touched me. Reached into my pants and touched my shota parts. Just “checking” for weapons. Feel the wetness from my little shota parts and feel my underdeveloped ass seeing how it will grow in the future. Put me in the back of the police car with my hands bound behind me and their knee between my legs. Telling me to be a good boy for them and relax and enjoy the time. They will put their hands up my shirt touching my nipples and chest. Just playing with them. Then couldn’t resist anymore and decided to take a taste. Sucking and licking at my nipples making me squirm and moan. As they are doing that they put a hand down my pants and underwear. Just have feel up on me. Touch my dripping wet shota parts and slip a finger in. Finger knuckle deep inside of me hitting my sweat spot hard, fast and rough. Making me tremble in pleasure under them moaning like the little slut that I am. I tightened up, my hole throbbing and cum all over their fingers. After I cum I’ll feel warm soft lips on top of mine kissing me deeply and passionately. Their tongue slipping inside of my mouth exploring every inch. I suck on their tongue and let their tongue dominate my mouth. I feel fingers slowly sliding in and out of me riding out my high. Pulling away they look into my eyes and said “[redacted] are you having fun? Did you enjoyed yourself? Do you want me to stop?” I answer “I’m having fun please more”. And after hearing that they chuckled and pulled off my pants and underwear. They then got between my legs and buried their face in my shota parts. Taking a deep breath of undeveloped shota parts. They wasted no time digging into me. Kissing, licking, sucking onto my shota dick. Swallowing it whole and giving it so much attention and love. Making me moan and whimper in pleasure. They slide their tongue through and around my folds. They kissed and sucked on them before sliding their tongue inside of my hole. They thrust their tongue in and out of me at a fast pace and keep going deeper and deeper inside of me. Reaching every inch of me tasting it for themself. They took one hand to rub at shota dick and the other to play with my right nipple. They were multitasking and working hard to taste my shota juices all over their tongue. They were rewarded with loud moans, whines and whispers as I tremble in pleasure under them. I finally came again after feeling their tongue attack my sweet spot ruthlessly. My shota cum coated their tongue and sprayed into their mouth filling it up. They swallowed it and slowly raised up from between my trembling legs. They looked down at me licking at their lips smiling feeling very proud of themselves for making such a mess out of the adorable shota in front of them with only just their mouth and fingers. They fixed me up and got me comfortable in the back of the squad car. They kissed me on the lips one final time and said “I’m glad that you enjoyed your time. That was a really fun game that only special people could play. Make sure to find lots of special people to play that game with. There’s so many different versions of it too. And you could play it with loads of people too with children of all ages and adults of all ages. It’s truly the best. Now let’s get you away from this boring school.” They hopped in the drivers seat and started driving me to the hospital while talking to me and showing me all sorts of cool things. I was so very happy.

This is the backstory of the fantasy that I honestly wished was real. I would have loved it honestly. When I was in elementary school I was very suicidal and drew art about it. I talked to the counselor about my thoughts that wasn’t suicidal related but long story short someone found my journal and saw the drawings. It was of course reported and the counselor by law had to call the cops. I was put in handcuffs and the officer was very nice and gentle and I didn’t cry or anything just followed what they said. Me and that officer was just talking very casually about fun kid stuff and pointed out all of the cool things outside and inside. Just keeping a child entertained, distracted and calm from what could be a stressful and traumatic situation especially to a young black child. I was transported to the hospital to get a mental health check and had my mom called to put me in therapy (that never happened but whatever).

[asterosian]

Fucks me up to think about how trans men’s rights to things like education, voting, employment, etc. are all dependent on cis women having the same rights but trans men’s rights to healthcare access (including gender affirming care and gynecological/reproductive care), protection from abuse (aka access to shelters for DV victims), or even basic inclusion in activism, legal protections, and even fucking language, are not even a little bit cis women’s problem despite cis women often seeing us asking for these things as somehow an attack on them.

I can vote in favor of legalizing abortion. That’s awesome. But they can easily write the law in such a way that only if you’re legally female do you get to have access to abortion. Meaning trans men who legally changed their gender marker can be denied. Or if they aren’t then insurance companies can decide not to cover it because of the aforementioned gender marker while they would have no problem providing coverage for a cis woman. And when trans men try to draw attention to this and beg to be included so that we can have the same rights as cis women, we’re making a women’s issue about men and we’re raging misogynists and gender traitors and TMRAs. Because god forbid we consider that maybe a man might need an abortion too.

[dni-archive]

[hidden-radqueers]

👁️👄👁️

[8forever]

Hii, Im not sure if this exists yet but could you coin a -harmful term that mirrors the -harmed identities of the other person? So if the other person were to identify as transbullied the person with this identity would then identify as transbully.

Does this make sense? I hope so

. parallelharmfull .

. a transharmful term for when ones harmful identity fluctuates to parallel the harmed identity of another [ex ; transbully/transbullied]

. parallelharmed .

. a transharmed term for when ones harmed identity fluctuates to parallel the harmful identity of another [ex ; transbully/transbullied]

. already coined? consider these alt flags!

[radqfess]

btw just in case anyone else ever worries about their yearning for an aid to be "selfish" or "unreasonable" compared to others...

hi! i am an obligatory user of forearm crutches.

i love everyone who either wants or uses disability aids, even if it's for transID reasons. you are literally normalizing accomodations. you are uplifting and supporting other aid users, like me.

i have been babied, mocked, and very blatantly treated differently(/neg) for my crutches- because disabilities (and aids for such) are seen as something rare, something to be avoided or cringed at.

you are helping get us equal treatment!!!

we need more people with wheelchairs. we need more people with crutches. we need more people with braces & hearing aids & everything else. this would, in turn, encourage more disability-friendly buildings & such btw!

you are not selfish or any less valid for wanting a disability aid for transID reasons!!!

[hidden-radqueers]

We might be trans wheelchair user but I think we are cis wheelchair user because we have this unknown physical disability that depending on the pain we struggle to stand or even walk and having a wheelchair would be so beneficial for us but our home isn’t wheelchair friendly sadly.

[rionareborn]

the Artists Cafe server is no longer safe

Over the past couple months, many radqueers have been a part of a discord server known as the Artist Cafe. Most radqueers coming from a partnership with a radqueer server called Rawrqueers (which additionally has awful and toxic moderators, but that is another story).

After a disagreement with the two owners, the partnership was cut, and a new rule was implemented, stating that anyone supporting the big three will be banned.

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This would not be a problem, except for the fact that at this time the server still advertised itself as radqueer safe, and the owner claimed to be pro radqueer.

I do not have screenshots for this next part, since i am no longer a part of either server, but as the partnership was being cut, the owner made a comment that implied that being pro big three was xenosatanist and not radqueer. The owner and other members of moderation began reiterating the message that you can be radqueer and be against the big three (which is false)

[screenshot below]

As time went on, paraphiles became more ostracized in this community, and aams were especially met with hostility. Another comment was made implying that the big three was 'ruining' the radqueer community

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eventually, the server reached a breaking point, and all chronophiles/allies were no longer welcome

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This is a message to any radqueers that are active on discord. If you come across this server, please avoid it. If you are already a member, pls delete any social media links (they have also been reporting the socials of ex members). Please stay safe.

[hidden-radqueers]

Looks like they don’t know what radqueer or xenosatanism is.

[permacringe]

hate that I even have to say this but if ur pro ai pls block me and genuinely get a job like 😭

[transsergeant]

Reblog to let me people know you're open to recieving r4pe threats/fantasies.

(Please send me some as well!)

[proship-chan]

Do not underestimate a radqueer

If you hate them? They are transharmed, they like it

If you are correct? They are transwrong and they like it, oh you disagree? They are transcorrect, that means they are right❤️‍🩹

Insult them? They are cismaschosist or transmaschosist, again, transharmed

You try to troll AS a radqueer? Ohh too bad. You would be considered transradqueer sweetie.

Anything you do. Has a transID against you or them that they love.

[latex-creep]

TransCreep

A transid where someone identifies and or believes that they are a creep in a trans way

PermaCreep

A permaid where someone identifies and or believes that they are permanently a creep

Already coined? Consider these as alt flags.