Goddess Of She

Sharing my thoughts & hidden emotions I usually keep to myself.

[screamastrology]

PISCES..UH, WHAT DO YOU DO AGAIN?

The number of times I've seen people ignore or disregard PISCES is crazy, and the people who do acknowledge pisces chalk them up to being either detached-and-toxic or super artsy nothing-else-going-for-them-besides-their-looks is so normalised. This most likely is due to JUPITER and NEPTUNE'S influence, no one knows who Neptune is and Jupiter amplifies that to another level.

I've realised that wherever pisces is in your chart, when you embrace that and start to care less on outer influences, is when you can feel the most liberated. Examples I've seen IRL:

Pisces Sun = how you're perceived

Pisces Uranus = your odd habits or interests

Pisces Mercury = what you think/say and you're opinion

It can be where a lot of your INSECURITIES lie ready to be unearthed. Pisces is what we are afraid of if we let it out, and so people try to ignore pisces instinctively; otherwise those UNHEALED parts of them would be triggered over and over again by someone who seems to act so effortlessly that way. Pisces is CREATIVE and wise, loving and sensitive. Your favourite artist who writes their own songs most likely has a pisces placement. Boiling them down to appearance/aura is what Neptune-Influenced have to deal with all day, no one can get a sense of your identity so they have to create one, and for most people they want you to be below them. This is most likely why, if you look closer, a more accurate stereotype is how HARD OF WORKERS they are. Going through a life of people discrediting your natural ability and affinities changes you; challenges how you see yourself. The words people say to Pisces isn't what gets them to flow upstream and against the gradient, it's the work they put into themselves, to remind their heart that they should continue with what they want because of their PASSION for it and work to ignore the outer world.

Pisces Suns: Ke$ha, Olivia Rodrigo, Madison Beer Pisces Rising: Billie Eillish, Tony Hawk Pisces Mars: Heath Ledger, Oscar Issac, Dev Patel

[adviceformefromme]

There are endless distractions every single moment of the day trying to detract you from elevating to your next level, from walking in the purpose God placed within you. People, even friends can be the worst distractions. Those morning messages that disrupt your energy, the food that upsets your stomach, the news you just absorbed as you opened your eyes. Notice your leaks, where are the energy leaks, and from whom? Remember you are responsible for protecting your energy. You have that power over yourself. Turn WhatsApp off in your mobile data, the same for social media. Use your phone, don’t let it use you. Carve out time to get your shit done, right down your top three goals. And get laser focused. You’re not playing this year. Start moving smarter. With more intention, and way more discernment.

[adviceformefromme]

Is he the one? Is he a counterfeit? Is he wasting my time? The answer is: TIME. 

The time you don't want to wait for, time you're being impatient about not realising the man you choose to be with is the single most important decision for your entire life. It affects your nervous system, how you feel with him either keeps you in the gutter or takes you to new highs. It impacts your health significantly. Not only that, but further down the line, the man you choose will lead your household, your children, is this a loving man? Is this a man I can rely on?

Time reveals his intentions. It reveals his heart. You need time to see the truth. Time to see if his words hold any weight. Time to see his mood swings and bad habits. Time to see how he handles conflict. Time to see what he’s like in his weak moments. Time will reveal everything you need to know. But I've seen TOOO MANY times, you want him to be the ONE. You don’t want to wait, you don’t want to know the truth. And that is how you end up with a counterfeit. Impatience. 

The answer you want to know, is this your husband? It’s hidden in the time you don’t want to wait for. 

Is he in his word? Is he who he says he is? Is he patient? Is he kind when things aren’t going his way?

Things can only be revealed through time. 

Your role in the dating period is observation and learning. Not catching feelings, desperately hoping he's the one. No, you're smarter, you're wiser, you know better. Dating and is for observing his actions to see if he counterfeit. Noticing the signs, so next time you don’t waste as much time on the next one. 

Before you put all your feelings into him you need to have time. 

[adviceformefromme]

You need to be hungry for your change, to want it so much so it consumes you, you see when you close your eyes, when you wake up, you’re thinking about it non-stop, you’re taking as much action daily as possible. This is how you move the fucking needle. This is how you change your fucking life. It’s not gonna happen with this 20% energy to move forward. This hoping and wishing while doing the bare minimum. The bare minimum will keep you stuck, broke and unhappy. I want you to want better for your life and actually do something about it, but only this can come from you, from within. From a deep place of saying ‘I deserve better, I want more’. Maybe you lost your spark, maybe you thought ‘this is as good as it’s gonna get and it’s nice to hope and dream’. Scrap that thinking and go grab those dreams by the balls. Start with momentum. 30 mins per day, work your way up. Write the goals and dreams down, feed your dreams daily with your energy, with your hope, your actions and your belief. Because it can get better, and will get better, but you got to get so much more hungry for change. 

[111wishesss]

Why people pleasing will make you sad and ugly

• When you give much more energy to other people instead of receiving it, you will end up feeling overwhelmed.

• You will never be satisfied by people pleasing. You will only feel satisfied when you create boundaries.

• You will attract the wrong type of people when you lack boundaries, and you unconciously disrespect yourself too.

• Everytime you say 'yes' while you want to say 'no', you let yourself down.

• People will expect more of you, because they are used to get what they want from you.

[rarestsparkle]

i recommend telling yourself “this isn’t an experience i want to keep having” and stop entertaining things that are really detrimental to your health and don’t benefit you in anyway.

[theambitiouswoman]

Healing is realizing you deserve better and losing attraction to what disrespected you

[matchagirl]

[theambitiouswoman]

Holding hands is one of the deepest forms of intimacy because it communicates safety. In ancient Persia intimacy was created through alignment. Holding someone’s hand meant trust, presence and pure intention. Neurologically, holding hands is tied to trust and emotional regulation, so when someone holds your hand, the nervous system reads it as you aren’t alone. That’s why it can feel more vulnerable than kissing. Kissing can be desire, but holding hands is permission. It says that someone is there and won’t overwhelm you. Real intimacy lives in that steadiness. Two people grounded enough to walk beside each other & choosing closeness that is mutual & unspoken

Such a simple thing that often gets taken for granted now because we validate scenarios by explosive feelings. But it’s the little things that are the big things (or maybe I’m just too wholesome for my own good 😝)

[mournfulroses]

Rosa Chacel, from a diary entry featured in Diario, originally published in 1993

[you-are-another-me]

[peaceoftina]

beautiful things happen when you are consistent and when you are devoted to yourself

[theambitiouswoman]

[scorpionlafemme]

[yeseve]

Mars Synastry in the Houses

Mars in the 8th house overlay: I crave you. I can’t help but feel obsessively drawn.

Hot. Suffocating. Definitely not for the faint-hearted to resist this synastry. The Mars person knows exactly how to excite the house person, the house struggles to escape the intensity. It feels like butterflies in the stomach and an aching desire for touch. This connection is visceral, as if no one has ever come this close to touching your soul. Mars here can awaken a powerful sexual desire in the house person. There’s a strong sense of possessiveness and a need for control. Even the most laid-back signs can feel the weight of this bond. Signs that enjoy intensity may find it difficult not to become obsessed with the other person, while freer signs may feel uncomfortable with the power dynamics. This can even lead to strong enmity and dislike. Platonic or unresolved relationships in this aspect can lead to the parties trying to tear each other apart during a breakup, constantly thinking about one another, wondering how to hurt the other. There may be a lot of action behind the scenes, like gossip or intrigue.

"I loved her not for the way she danced with my angels, but for the way the sound of her name could silence my demons." – Gomez Addams (fan-created quote).

Note: Synastry can vary significantly depending on the zodiac sign and its aspects. For a more in-depth analysis of a specific placement, you can either ask me or explore the option of a full synastry reading that I offer.

[astroyosei]

🪬| how 8th house synastry feels like

[princessjojo-x]

8th House Mars Synastry

💝 the connection triggers an urgent & primal drive within mars to unveil & conquer house immediately. they become almost supercharged around house, as if they’re pressing bare skin to a live wire, with electrified adrenaline shooting through their body. they have a scorpion-like fixation on house & express random bursts of needing house. they’re consumed by intense infatuation & magnetic attraction, compelled by a desperate urge to capture houses interest, often resorting to impulsive gestures to earn attention - grand surprises, extravagant gifts, dramatic actions, etc. this instant & consuming attraction causes mars to relentlessly pursue house. they push boundaries & rush intimacy without considering consequences. it’s like they’re racing against time, terrified the opportunity will slip away. this sense of urgency pushes mars past their own comfort zones, making them noticeably more assertive & aggressive, even if they’re usually passive & feminine in other rxships. (this connection may be difficult to end bc mars remains persistent in continuing contact).

💝 the weight of mars’ gaze is too much to handle yet impossible to resist. house feels special & chosen in a way they’re never experienced before. they’re both flattered & mesmerised by mars’ raw desire. but mars’ boldness can make house feel scared & hesitant too, leaving house torn between attraction & caution.

💝 there’s confusion & curiosity to why the connection feels inevitable. partners are drawn together for reasons beyond logic or explanation, as if their meeting was preordained by a force greater than themselves. this causes partners to surrender to the connection, even when it defies reason or practicality. the rxship becomes exhausting & turbulent, yet partners refuse to fully cut ties. this aspect generates an undeniable charge & immediate chemistry between partners. this magnetic pull causes them to operate on primal instinct, lacking awareness of basic emotions in the process. theres a strong need for physical closeness, whether it’s gentle touching or outright fighting. their focus on each other is tunnel visioned, even when they’re in a group setting. outsiders are bound to notice their intense chemistry, but the sheer depth will always only exists between the two.

💝 partners can be stimulated or triggered just from hearing & saying each other’s names. their names become charged & symbolic bc there tied to emotional highs & lows.

💝 partners have sex like the world is going to end, possibly in forbidden places or secret spots. sexual intimacy (if ever allowed) becomes a form of escapism bc it feels like a drug (consuming & euphoric). uncomfortable tension builds to unbearable heights & sexual contact is the only way to release it. sex provides a temporary relief, which feels like a fleeting high. but pent up feelings keep rebuilding so sex becomes an addictive cycle.

💝 unspoken wounds & buried traumas are unconsciously reopened during deep conversations & emotional flair ups. sexual intimacy becomes a tool to heal or hurt each other, with encounter carrying the power to either mend or break them further.

💝 they may have heavy & negative feelings for one another, despite being intrigued & excited for each other - one day they’re inseparable, the next day they’re avoidant. quiet resentment builds for reasons neither wants to admit. partners torment each other, but neither take the bait. they don’t want to risk disrupting the fragile bond they’ve developed.

💝 whether this rxship ends beautifully or tragically, it leaves a permanent mark on their psyches. it may feel like a death-&-rebirth cycle that transforms their lives in ways they never anticipated.

have you experienced this aspect? how did it play out for you?

[astroyosei]

🌌| how 12th house synastry feels like |

[screamastrology]

12th HOUSE SYNASTRY/COMPOSITE

My experience of it

You won't know it's happening when you first meet them. There's something in you that just doesn't want them to leave.

Its essence just feels like it's wrong. Maybe you two weren't the type to be seen together, or maybe you two saw too far deeply into the other.

When it's over, the feeling of them never strays. When you look at someone who looks barely anything like them, it's like you see a ghost. It's someone you can never truly forget.

You could have dreams about them. I'm having dreams about them, for sure. Even if it's been over for what seems like a long time. To be with them is to have something, even if it's pebbles instead of boulders. To be without them is to be melancholic. It's freeing to move away from that entirely different world you were in, but you're always dragged back. You drag yourself back until you cut it off completely.

It hurts less the more you abide by the lesson the relationship taught you. I'm very sure my lesson was about my self-esteem and how I need more self-respect, to enjoy things even while I'm judged. The more I do it, the less dreams I have, and that feeling of wanting to reach out decreases.

You can't go through life without pain, so learn from it.