Girlblogger

Pretty, rich and educated is my motto Tiktok : 111wishesss

[111wishesss]

Reintroducing myself

Hi everyone! I’m a girl blogger and I’m currently 26 years old. I graduated with a Business Management degree and I’m currently working in Finance. My hobbies are working out, reading self-help books and creating content. 

The reason why I started this blog is because I want to improve myself in every aspect. I want to look back and see how far I have come. The second reason is I want to inspire you all to become the best version of yourselves. I want to show you that if I can reach my goals, you can do it too.

In this blog, I will make posts about the Law of Attraction, Self-improvement, Relationships and many more! I will also reblog posts where I get inspired from. I will give you some tips and tricks based on my knowledge and experiences.

I decided to not show my name or do a face reveal because I wanted to be taken seriously at my job. I also want to protect myself and the people around me. I can also be more authentic and give honest advice when I’m not revealing my identity. I hope you can understand this.

I want to thank all of you for reblogging and liking and my posts. I am so grateful for all of you.  

Follow me on Tiktok: bigsisteradvice

Let’s level up and build our dream lives! 💗

[111wishesss]

Random things I do to stay hot and mentally sane

• Walking after dinner: A simple walk after dinner makes my stomach less bloated and it brings me to new ideas and a purpose.

• Journaling: I write down all my thoughts and feelings instead of venting it to someone else. 

• Taking care of my looks: I make sure my hair looks good and my outfit is matching. I always use simple makeup and jewellery to finish my look. 

• Wearing makeup after crying: Especially eyeliner, it stops me from crying again. 

• Spending time alone: I spend my time alone until I feel much better, by watching a funny movie, or watching a video essay, or by doing something creative.

• No sad songs: I rarely listen to sad songs these days, because it won’t make me feel any better. I only listen to songs that makes me want to move and keeps me happy.

[littlemisshelena]

[111wishesss]

For the girlies in corporate, here are the things you should know:

• Ask yourself what kind of career you want and what skills you want to learn: If you want to work in marketing, look up different types of marketing. The more specific you are, the better for your job interview.

• Make short term and long term plans: How long do you see yourself working at your current job? Which next steps would you like to make? Do this to avoid staying stuck in a job you no longer like.

• Make a good impression: Dress well, take initiative, ask for help, help your coworkers and avoid gossips or politics at work.

• Stand out from the crowd: If you want to make a promotion, you need to figure out how to stand out and why your manager should choose you over anyone else.

• Create an exit plan: If you no longer feel good at work, it's time to look for something else. Make sure to keep it lowkey while job searching, and only announce them when you get the job.

[radical-revolution]

[111wishesss]

Reasons why you have no personality and how to fix it

• You're always trying to fit in: How can you develop your own personality if you always try to fit in with new trends and with people?

• You don't have any hobbies: Who are you beside being a student or professional? What do you do on weekends?

• You're not experimenting: Did you ever tried a new haircut? New fashion style? New activities? How do you expect change if you haven't tried anything?

• You look down on yourself: How do you see yourself? How do you describe yourself? If you always see the negative side of yourself, you won't appear interesting.

• Who are your friends? With who are you hanging out with? Do they have hobbies? Do they stand out from the crowd? The people you hang out with says a lot of about you, so choose wisely.

[111wishesss]

Nobody wants to hear this, but you should stop playing the victim (and here's how)

• Ask yourself why you play the victim: Did something happened to you that made you feel this way? Are there any feelings you haven't reflected on yet? Do you feel that you've been treated poorly by others?

• Nobody owes you anything: You can't expect people to treat you the way you want, or to do things for you because you think that's how it should be. Not everyone thinks the same way as you. The less expectations you have about others, the happier you are.

• Change the way you think: Things don't always go according to your plan, but there are things you can control, such as your mindset and your next steps. Ask yourself 'How do I feel about this situation?' 'What have I learned about this situation?' and 'How can I deal with this situation in a positive way?'

• Change your environment: You can't get rid of your victim mentality if you're still stuck with people with a victim mentality. If you want change within yourself, change your surrounding too. Surround yourself with people who get out of their victim mentality and who take themselves accountable.

[deardiarywrites]

⊹ ࣪ ˖ ໒꒱ find yourself again and again and again . . .

no matter how life hurts you, you can never fully lose yourself. you're dynamic, an enigma, an angel. treat yourself that way. sometimes shit happens. and it might alter us forever, make you feel like you can't get back up but you know what? sooner or later you'll realise that you can get up again. you can find joy in things again. hold onto those little moments. someone's sweet words, or having a good night's rest, waking up to your pet cuddling you, heck, simply existing. you don't have to be extraordinary because you already are. whether you like it or not. create yourself. live how you want to live, do what feels right. you don't have to be just like the perfect pinterest girls. you just have to be you. and things will get better. the journey to healing is not linear. so don't expect it to be so. expand your horizons. okay so you don't find joy in the things you used to. big deal. find new things. struggle. suffer. there's beauty in everything. you just have to look for it. a negative mind will never ever result in a positive life. so pick your pill. do you want to suffer forever or struggle and give yourself the life you deserve? it's going to be hard either ways. but who said we can't do difficult things?

[bloomzone]

I love this women

[111wishesss]

Questions you should ask yourself before you waste your whole life:

• How do I become more educated?

• How do I become more attractive?

• How do I become more healthy?

• How do I make more money?

• How do I become a better partner?

• How do I become a better friend?

• How do I become a better family member?

• How do I get more opportunities at work?

• How do I gain more skills?

• How do I attract inspiring people?

• How do I find my purpose in life?

• How do I spend my free time?

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[icaseybaybee]

[111wishesss]

How to fix your mindset in 5 days (and change your whole life)

• Let go of victim mentality: No, the world doesn't hate you.

• Let go of overthinking: No, the worst case scenario doesn't happen.

• Let go of people pleasing: They don't care about you as much as you think they do

• Let go of wanting to be perfect: Because it doesn't exist

• Let go of laziness: Are you resting or are you just lazy? It's time to learn the difference

• Let go of bad surroundings: You won't become better if you're surrounded by people with nothing going on with their lives.

• Let go of bad habits: Why expecting a snatched body if you keep eating junk food?

[111wishesss]

Things you should keep private in order to protect yourself

• Your short term and long term goals

• Your salary, investments and debts

• Arguments between you and your family

• Arguments between you and your friends

• Arguments between you and your partner

• Details about your relationship

• How you want to raise your child

• Your goals regarding your career path

• Starting your social media, let it grow first

• Your weaknesses and your insecurities

• Your past mistakes and decisions

• Your past relationships and friendships

• Your spending habits

[dafancyuhinspiration]

[111wishesss]

If you think like this, you'll always be ugly and broke:

• You always see the negative in everything

• You judge people too fast and too much

• You always play the victim

• You don't hold yourself accountable

• You don't spend your money wisely

• You're too stingy with money

• You don't face your own problems

• You don't move your body

• You don't work on your own weaknesses

• You have a big ego

• You're too close minded to get to know other people's religion, culture and opinions

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[icaseybaybee]