I didn't expect to need one, but I guess it's time for a pinned post! MDNI, but also DNI if you are under 25.
Hi! I'm Zee, 30 year old they/them (don't mind she/her in certain contexts).
Some lil facts about me:
I have been on and off tumblr since 2010ish, so this isn't my first rodeo
Live in New England
I am a queer, tattooed, neurodivergent (AuDHD), witchy baddie
Very nerdy about the things I love (DND, astronomy/physics, science fiction, cartoons, mythology, weed etc)
Reading, cooking, sewing, candle making, and hiking are amongst a few of my active hobbies
I am not always good at responding to messages (sorry not sorry)
I am a very open and out there person with no chill sometimes but also I have a very idgaf about anything attitude
The kinky nonsense: (The part y'all are really here for)
I'm a bratty sub/switch, I love being put into subspace but on occasion I like to takeover for a bit
Heavy into CNC (freeuse, somno, knife play, ya know the drill)
Breeding kink that goes brrrrrrrrr constantly
I wish I didn't have a size kink but I am small and easy to manhandle
Mask kink and motorcycle boy addict
Into ropeplay/shibari (Tie me up please)
Love respectful, caring, compassionate Doms that make me feel safe to try new things
Stimulating my mind and edging me with conversation that has depth and substance
Mild praise kink
Hard Limits:
Degradation
Ageplay
Scat/piss play
Puppyplay (no. stay away from me thanks.)
Being racist, transphobic, unneccasarily hateful or bigoted (I will block or fight you)
Insulting people's looks (This will make me lose my mind if you try this with me. There is no such thing as bad looks in my book, only ugly personalities and behaviors! Also means if you have a good heart you are beautiful to me)
Not every sub wants to be used. That's the assumption people make when they only understand the surface. Some don't want intensity. They want stability. They want someone whose presence quiets the noise in their head. Someone who notices when they're carrying too much before they break under it. Some people don't submit because they're looking for pain. They submit because for the first time in their life, someone makes them feel like they don't have to hold everything together alone. They just want to be held together properly.