safe space🌈✨

k. she/her. your internet mom. always for and with the girls 🩷confrontation junkie

[holymother-k]

hello everyone, this has been a long time coming, at least from my perspective. by the end of this week, this blog will be on a hiatus until further notice.

my mental health has been slowly declining for months now and the lack of self care and mental energy has caught up to me.

my top priority will now be my own well being and mental health, as nothing matters to me more than being a mom to my girls. i want to be a mom they deserve and i have certainly been slacking for the last couple of weeks.

i will not be deleting just yet, because i hope that i’ll find myself again and that i will be able to enjoy talking to you all again.

sending you all my love, take care of yourselves.

k.

[holymother-k]

if you don't mind me asking how did your sister find out about the account so fast? is she also on tumblr because there's no way you would find out on twitter unless you're searching his name up and even now its not even circulating that the burner is his

one of her friends sent it to her

[holymother-k]

dude i can't believe he was dissing olivia rodrigo and tate mcrae like u are a 25 year old man those girls are just 20 yrs old. like he would diss them but then also sexualize olivia, tate and jenna ortega idk its all just very lame

i am still trying to wrap my head around the fact that i was stupid enough to not see this through.

[holymother-k]

if you don't mind me asking, as someone who knows hockey players irl and the person who supposedly was running that account, what was the most shocking part of that account for you?

it wasn’t “shocking” in general, but from that one specific person, it was vile to read the stuff about women

[holymother-k]

you were so complementary of him so I feel for you as he was or is your friend. the nosey part of me wants to ask about the fallout but I know you don’t want to talk about it but was it due to him displaying behaviour like he does online in the real world? Or is that part of him hidden irl

it wasn’t about his behavior, it was about a situation that happened nearly 2 years ago and it came up again and it all spiraled from there.

[holymother-k]

hey! I just wanted to say you should not feel deeply disappointed in yourself regarding that twitter account because sometimes people are just different behind closed doors. How were you supposed to know how someone acts or talks or thinks if they never voice it out in front of you. It must suck finding all this out because I’m guessing at one point he was a close friend but I’ve had this happen with one of my guy friends as well where he was just not who I thought he was. I’m guessing this will change your perception of mutual friends who are also close to him because if he’s like this they are definitely also like this - birds of a feather do unfortunately flock together. It sucks but don’t blame your judgement skills on this one cause you truly just never know who’s an actual good guy or who’s pretending to be.

🩷

[holymother-k]

the Nolan Patrick tweets on the hockey Canada case are really eye opening and just his views on women in general. I love your take on things please discuss this with us

i think it is my due diligence to say something but i don’t want to have a yet another conversation about this person, as he’s no longer a public figure.

my sister showed me those tweets and what’s in them disgusts me and i condemn what’s being said in them. if these accounts are truly him and if these are his thoughts, it is as bittersweet and appalling as it can be. i am not denying anything, i am not defensive, i just simply don’t want to have anything to do with this.

i still stand by the stuff i said about him, because that is simply the person i know him to be. i have had my own personal “falling out” with this guy for a bit now, that i don’t need to disclose to anyone.

i will not be gaslit into thinking that i did something wrong or that i have the desire to protect him, cause i don’t. i was left with a huge disappointment in myself, when i saw the tweets as, once again, i have never known him to be that kind of a person. he can have his stupid little bigoted shittakes but i don’t want to have anything to do with it.

i no longer wish to discuss this as it will never lead to anything other than, these are sick and disgusting thoughts. i am deeply disappointed and surprised, for the first time in my life, that i did not, at any point, considered that he could be this kind of a person.

[holymother-k]

wow excited for you!! Grad school for what profession? And another baby damn y’all are quick haha congrats!!!

thank u. it wasn’t exactly planned, but it is a welcomed news.

social justice:)

[holymother-k]

hey y’all, long time no see, just a quick little update before i go MIA again;

• still very much in my healing era, focusing on my babies and my family life

• speaking of babies, we’ll welcome our final little love in december 2024

• got accepted to grad school

• we’re actually thinking of moving again

sending you all my love, enjoy the playoffs, go jets, take care of yourselves and don’t be afraid to let things and people go🩷

[hard4softthings]

(Source) (full article)

[hard4softthings]

Notes from London police live press conference:

•EM wants to be called victim versus complainant or survivor •London Police gave an apology to the victim and her family via the Chief of Police, Chief Thai Truong. •Michael McLeod party to the offense charge = aiding someone else to commit the offense (no further details) (the police couldn't specify what "aiding" means because the case is before the courts) •Varying levels of cooperation in the investigation lead to the police being able to charge who they had reasonable evidence to charge (why were only 5 players charged when 8 were alleged) -this was stated over and over again that they have charged who they have avidence against and that "they're not going to comment at this time" if more people will/can be charged later. •The Police cannot discuss any evidence that has now been disclosed to the defense team. •Q: "Is two weeks a normal amount of time [for the accused to have been given to turn themselves in] A:" It's case specific. We make arrangements as we can for both sides." •This is one incident, one victim case •The 5 accused were released with undertakings (a promise or pledge 1. : a promise or pledge especially required by law. 2. : something (as cash or a written promise) deposited or given as security especially in a court.) "undetakings are used when we feel confident that the conditions we can place on the accused will protect the victim and the witnesses in this matter" (One example of an undertaking in this case is that EM not be publicly identified by media by a court of law).

There are lots of the things the police are unable to answer, but at least there was a bit of new information. Full Stream:

[hard4softthings]

I didn’t hear ricks full question, I guess this is what he had asked

[hard4softthings]

The London police dept, everyone!

This is the police dept responsible for this high profile case!

[hard4softthings]

I’m so confused why this police chief is saying that the way women are portrayed in media is what leads to sexualization and thus sexual assaults of women.

Women can do whatever the fuck they want and be portrayed as sexy as they want and men (or ppl in general) should never be able to physically assault them….. that IS the problem here, mr police chief!

What was that????

[holymother-k]

this is extremely personal for me to share but i want to maybe help some other people and show the human side of me.

a week ago, at my obgyn check up, the doctor found an empty yolk sack in my uterus. meaning only one thing, i had a missed miscarriage.

what was supposed to be a routine checkup, turned into a whirlwind of emotions. sadness and relief then clashed with worries and anger.

i am 5 months postpartum. i just had a baby. my beautiful baby girl. i do not wish to be pregnant anytime soon. we are more than content, for now, just the 4 of us. yet i have now spent my week, grieving an empty yolk sack. something, that didn’t even had the chance to develop into an embryo. something, i did not want in the first place.

i am giving myself the grace to acknowledge all of my feelings and deal with them as i go.

these things happen. you’re not on your own in this. it’s not your fault. your feelings are valid. you got this.

[holymother-k]

we are not the court of law. we do not owe these people the presumption of innocence.

i hope these people rot in hell for eternity.

[corrodedcoffins-blog]

want to spreed this video as much as i can. they explain the situation well and give a good resource to learn more

[byjove]

is he…..y’know? *pantomimes jerking off* ….French Canadian?