A Place For Lesbians

a lesbian positivity/advice/memes blog run by me! a 19 year old lesbian from washington state. she/her. don't call me queer.

[summerchoirboy]

[aggrokawaii]

Felix the Comrade

[goodtimeswithgustdun]

The fact that there are femmes out there who have a preference for butches makes me so happy. It’s hard not to feel unlovable in a world that sometimes paints butches as aggressive and controlling. Seeing you talk about butches with such love is so healing. I just want y'all to know how grateful I am for you.

[mechagrrl]

terfs and acephobes: “lets stop the oppression of our people by oppressing other people instead!! perfect solution!!”

[aphobic-nepeta]

yo what the fuck

stop comparing us to terfs when a metric fuckton of us are trans

ace ppl aren’t fucking hated and attacked with slurs everywhere they go because they’re ace. they aren’t denied healthcare because they’re ace.

your idea of oppression literally boils down to “they won’t let us in their cool secret club!! who cares that it exists to try to keep them from dying! i wanna be cool too! this is oppression!! :((((

[relatablehetaceposts]

cishet ace moodboard

[viblen]

"Asexuals don't face discrimination"

While I’ve had to hear in my life :

“One day you’ll want sex” “I could never love you” “I can’t ever be with someone who wouldn’t want sex” “I need someone who can reciprocate properly” “I want children, this won’t work” “It’s unreal to not have sexual feelings” “Sex is a natural part of a relationship”

And let’s not forget those pictures that are constantly reminding you that if you’re not having sex with your partner you: don’t love them, cheat on them, don’t deserve them, are a liar, aren’t worthy of a relationship.

[thismachinekills]

ok. lets take this slow.

1.) ok, discrimination, but not oppression

2.) again, not oppression

3.) thats personal preference which. isnt oppression

4.) personal preference

5.) personal preference

6.) not oppression

7.) sex is natural, some people just dont want it. just because you dont like something doesnt suddenly make it unnatural

and. everyone is negatively affected by that, even us “allo” gays because the media either under represnts us or fetishizes our love for straight ppl to consume

yaint special

[this-discourse-should-be-de-blog]

Reminder that including all aces in the lgbt+ community doesn’t mean that all aces will want to participate

Many cishet aces aren’t interested in being a part of the lgbt+ community

Many cishet aces consider themselves more of allies to the lgbt+ community

Either is fine, cishet aces should be allowed to participate and identify as they wish without being pressured in either direction

This doesn’t mean that those that do should be denied a thriving community and resources

[endcourse]

The very idea that cishet aces get to pick whether they’re lgbt or not - read: get to pick whether they’re systematically oppressed for their sexuality - is proof that they are not.

[protectlgbtkids]

someone: all lgbt people should die

some ace: ummm wheres the a? this seems suspiciously aphobic

[honeymustardlesbian]

everyone wants to talk about miss honey being a lesbian but no one wants to talk about how miss trunchbull is clearly an awful caricature of butch women. i love matilda but still...

[honeymustardlesbian]

if after my death everyone goes around calling me a “queer woman”, “wlw”, “lgbt woman” or any other vague stupid shit like that I will rise from my grave and kill every last one of you mogai fucks

[honeymustardlesbian]

can i just say i fucking hate meyers briggs so much. its literally just as fake as astrology but the people who use it are always the same ones who constantly bitch about astrology. its astrology but minus the fun part

[honeymustardlesbian]

stop reblogging my fucking vines jfc

[knowing]

[honeymustardlesbian]

if the only example you can come up with for the oppression you face that isn’t better described as misogyny or homophobia is “people say we’re not oppressed/aren’t lgbt” then maybe,,,,, you aren’t oppressed or lgbt

[honeymustardlesbian]

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UwU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[honeymustardlesbian]

Lmaoo good luck with that recent post on this hellsite

if this is about the ace discourse thing, yeah at this point i don’t care, asexuals are not oppressed on the basis of being asexual and its honestly insulting when they claim that they are. since I was last active on this blog i’ve learned a lot about materialist analysis and since then the notion of aphobia existing is so ridiculous I refuse to take it seriously

[honeymustardlesbian]

i’m aphobic