My Philippines Experience: Part 1 - Strikeout “First World Problems”
I have been absent from my blog for almost a month now, but it’s because I was busy living :) My family and I went to the Philippines recently and because there is just so much I could write about, I thought I would begin a new blog series. I have started a lot of blog series’ in the past and have not finished them, but I really do feel that this is a series I want to pour my heart into. I learned more than I thought I would in the span of two weeks, and I can’t pass up the opportunity to write about something so important and potentially speak into someone else’s life. Take every opportunity.
So… I’m almost positive you have heard of #FirstWorldProblems, right? Well let me give you some examples I found on Twitter:
So if you didn’t know what it was… do you now? I used to joke about this all the time. My friends and I (and apparently the whole world) finds it funny that we complain over little things. That has drastically changed in my books. Going to the Philippines changed my life. I went there in 2006, but I was only ten years old. I feel I was too young to take in the culture, to enjoy every single moment. This time around, it was different. I’m 19 now. A lot can happen in nine years. I can genuinely say that I have matured a lot, learned from many hardships, and grown spiritually in my faith.
I spent two weeks in the Philippines. The first week we stayed at my Mom’s cousin’s house. The second week we drove two hours away to my Uncle’s house where we stayed for the second week. These living conditions were where the real tests started for me. They live in a small subdivision neighborhood where the houses are gated and tightly built. There is only one floor with two bed rooms. 11 of us slept in that house (including a 3-year old and a 3-month old baby) and most of us had to sleep on the floor. The toilet flush was broken so in order for it to work, we had to pour a few tubs of water in for it to go down. The shower head also did not work, so we used a little tub to pour water on our heads. They had a very small kitchen which they extended outside so that they could cook and eat there. Lastly, laundry is done by hand by almost everyone in the Philippines, so it was cool to see lots of colorful pieces of clothing hanging in the sun all day. To them, those living conditions are their normal and this is their everyday. Sounds uncomfortable right?
You know why it sounds uncomfortable? Because a lot of us who live in Canada, the US or any other First World Country, are so used to comfy beds, big spaces, two floors, privacy, fully functioning and clean bathrooms, luxury items like big TV’s, or the new gaming system… That’s what this society and culture has spoiled me… you… US… into. It made me forget all of the simpler things in life. In the end, all that stuff doesn’t matter. We don’t have to live in a materialistic world and we do not have to live lives that revolve around it.
Being there reminded me that life is all about moments and happy times. TRUE happiness comes from spending time with family with no cell phones or TV, happiness is running in the rain even when it’s pouring hard, happiness is enjoying every single bite of your meal, happiness is laughing with your cousins or playing a game in the pool. HAPPINESS IS EVERYWHERE. Seeing my OWN family be as happy as they are brought tears to my eyes. Not only is life about happy times, but it’s about hardships as well. I think that in the midst of hardships - especially in financial hardships - we learn to appreciate what we have in present time. I’m tired of the world telling us that money is everything or that fame is important. It’s not. Until you realize that, are you really living?
I wrote out a visual of my Uncle and Cousin’s living conditions not for pity, or to degrade them in any way. I did it to put the situation into perspective. And to help me present the point that although they live differently, they can be just as happy (if not more) than us who live in a first world country. With all of that being said, I am thankful for what I have. SO FORGET #FIRSTWORLDPROBLEMS. There are better things to focus on in this world rather than our shower being too cold or our food portion being too little. Below is the video that inspired me to write about my trip and #FirstWorldProblems. I encourage you to watch it:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxyhfiCO_XQ
I hope that this changes something in your heart. Next time you feel like complaining about something little, just remember there’s someone living in a situation that’s ten times harder but still remain to be happy. God Bless.Here are some photos of my family hanging at my Uncle’s place.
My cousin’s kid, JP, having fun with his Tito Renz.
Showing our Grandma some of my brother’s band’s new music. lightfallworship
My cousin’s baby, Summer, rocking my bandanna.
JP and I havin’ some fun.