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Indeed, there were a couple of times -- several years ago now -- when your wife actually gave you a choice between having sex with her or helping her get ready for a date with another man. You know, of course, what her clear preference was, and she was pleased and amused each time when you chose for her to have deeply satisfying sex with someone else instead of having disappointing sex with you.

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There are times when you wish you were more of a real man for her, but you've had to accept that you simply are not, and that you and real men are different in almost every possible way related to having a sexual relationship with a woman.

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This may not be the way you had grown up thinking your marriage would be -- but you also understand that it's your own fault that your wife dates and has sex with other men, so all you can say to your wife at this point is "Yes dear."

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This may be your house, and it may be the main bedroom in your house, and she may be your wife, but more and more her boyfriend has been setting the rules for your relationship with her -- and more and more he is replacing you in your wife's life.

But what choice do you have. "Yes dear" is all you have to say.

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"And hun" your wife continued, "you do need to understand that when he moves in, he becomes the man of the house and you will have to do what he says. But being obedient is one of the things you're good at, so don't think he's likely to have any problems dealing with you."

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There had been a time -- years ago -- when you asked her why she was dressed in such a sexy way if she was simply going out with two other women. But she had just looked at you and laughed and said "I think the reason should be obvious" -- and since then, you have known and have never had reason to ask her again.

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Three months ago, you and your wife had gone in for marriage counselling. One major issue was the frustration your wife was feeling because of your poor performance in the bedroom. Now you are trying to work through your feelings about the solution to the problem that the counselor had recommended.

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So you know you have only yourself to blame.

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When -- during your very first couples counselling session -- the therapist had suggested cuckolding as the best way to deal with the fact that your wife was feeling sexually frustrated and unfulfilled -- you were surprised and a bit upset, but with the therapist's help you quickly learned to accept the need for your wife to have her sexual needs satisfied by other men. For the past couple of months, however, your wife's cuckolding has moved beyond the "just sex" phase, as she started to actually date one particular man and she seems to have lost all interest in having any kind of sexual relationship with you at all.