Aftercare is not a secret BDSM ritual.
Aftercare is paying attention to your partner and their needs after the sex is over, whatever those needs may be, after whatever type of intimacy has just taken place. Your partner will tell you what their needs are after sex, if they volunteer it, or if you ask them. Caring about your partnerās post sex needs and tending to them is something that should happen in all healthy relationships, whether they are based in BDSM, or are vanilla relationships. Aftercare is not a secret BDSM ritual.
ā” Care is Mandatory ā”



















