Kent

20 | He/Him | Autistic | MDNI

[hrt-turned-me-het]

Kent | He/Him | MDNI

Hey! I'm a long time lurker first time poster. My 'true' main is strictly sfw and stealth, this is my blog where I will do whatever I so please. Theoretically with anonymity.

Asks open DMs not unless we’re mutuals

If you recognize me no you don’t

Not exclusively but I will be st4t posting, as my @ implies with each passing month on T my adoration for women only becomes more intense.. I will likely be loserposting lol. Taken but in a open/poly way, really not looking for anything just why I might continue to post here. Not exclusionary towards cis women and nonbinary folks just mainly intrested in st4t

Never be scared to talk to or spam me, I would love asks/mututals/friends/whatever but if you dm me keep in mind this is Not (primarily) a kink blog, just an outlet. Also I’m not an especially fast responder

Things I will not be posting: degradation, any verbal abuse adjacent kink (cptsd kill my boner)

Things I am a huge fan of: giving you princess treatment, love when girls are desperate for attention, I want to take care of you I would describe myself as a service top. I <3 overstim

Heteroflexible if you want to be a girl/not a guy but don’t think you are, you aren’t intruding by any means don’t feel guilt over stuff like that

DNI/Block me: under 18, general bigotry, detrans, if you're not normal about people with severe bottom dysphoria

Interests: TTRPGs, art of all kinds (someday I might post comics here), various video games, nerds (so you)

[dogglegog]

dominant things you can say during sex

i didnt hear what you said

hold on i need to blow my nose

wow

i feel kind of nauseous

is this anything

i don't know

this kind of reminds me of that one song

we can probably ignore that noise if you want to

why is my sock wet

it smells bad in here

that was weird

where are my glasses

ow

this is normal

sorry

just 2 chill people chilling

this is cool

can you say that again

are we good

youre actually naked

[stateownedslut]

My deepest most perverse sexual fantasy is that somebody is really nice to me and takes care of me regardless of if I want it or not. Especially if I don't.

[recoveredcombatsister]

saw trap voice hello tumblr user. you have to write a post about your attraction to transfems but if you mention her erection her cum or her topping you this gun is going to shoot you in the head

[hrt-turned-me-het]

For pride I would like to encourage lesbians to go for girls and not my shit, cmon it literally says het in my name. I’m not interested in turning y’all bisexual unless you’re trans ig, not very in the spirit of pride to see a whole ass binary trans man as included in ‘wlw’

[hrt-turned-me-het]

Hey so like I saw your post about clothed sex and dysphoria and was kinda wondering what you like doing specifically? I’ve never been with a trans guy but theirs one I’m kinda into, but I’m worried I’d fuck it up with him cause I wouldn’t be able to make him happy. Thx a bunch and sorry if this is too personal ._.

Hey, this is a great question! I for sure think there should be more information out there regarding how to navigate this sort of thing

Full disclosure I’m not very experienced, but I can definitely give some things I wish I would have known. I’m going to write this primarily from a perspective of one person trying to understand what’s okay relative to another’s dysphoria but it could easily apply to multiple people involved

Communication is huge! It’s easy to ask in general what someone is and isn’t okay with, but it’s bound to miss nuances. One assumption could seem practically identical to one person and drastically different to another. [ ex: holding someone’s hips while facing vs behind someone]

A great way to avoid situations like this is to start by having said person move your hand over their body in ways they would want/be okay with. It reveals both what is good and the sort of thing they avoid. This can also include if they’d be comfortable with the same thing above or below clothing. When you’re doing something new or only sometimes okay it’s not a moodkiller to look at them and say “Do you want me to ___” or “Can I ___?” especially depending on how you say it. But regardless of how it comes across you should just hover over a spot and check if you’re not sure. Do not do things just because it seems part of fulfilling a role, any role, that is the devil talking

No one is a mind reader and it’s difficult to entirely avoid finding out a boundary the hard way. While it’s unfortunate, what’s significantly more important than having not known is not repeating it once you do!

A lot of what I have experience with is what I describe as ‘infinite foreplay’ lol. Things like hickeys, tracing/kissing/licking erogenous zones [neck, underside of arm, across spine, lotta options where the skin is thinnest], kissing/sucking on fingers (technically penetration but yk not genitalia) can even be grinding or humping. Stuff very intimate but not exactly sex depending on definition

It can also be good to ask if a partner prefers giving and getting a reaction out of someone rather than receiving, assumptions again tend to be the biggest pitfalls

Sometimes someone might not be comfortable having something directly touched not because it’s dysphoria inducing inherently but because of proximity to other things that are. [tdick, ass,] Fingering through clothing can be good for that. Loose and thick fabric is generally good for hiding from but too rigid and it can be uncomfortable.

There’s still kinda top/bottom situations with this too, not just in a dom/sub way. Has to do with giving/receiving and bodily positioning. This is the part where I risk getting a bit too tmi 💀 personally I kinda hate lying down and having someone touch me regardless of where but I’ve had someone cowgirl me fully clothed and that was pretty great. This and other similar stuff did not happen quickly and can potentially take a lot to work up to. A certain degree is just trying new things out and getting familiar with what’s good

Hopefully some of this is helpful, this in particular I’d be particularly interested if people have additions cause yknow dysphoria isn’t a monolith. So feel free to call me a dumbass if you think I missed something important (like how I only used examples I’m familiar with) (or just tags )

[hrt-turned-me-het]

If you feel threatened by anyone who aligns themself as transfeminist that says a lot about how you view trans women and I encourage you to not interact with this blog.

To be clear this means if you see the term transmisogyny and get uncomfortable not ‘ if you don’t agree with every single person who identifies as transfeminist ie TRFs’

[hrt-turned-me-het]

I’m aware the need for st4t hetslop without actually the most egregious dysphoria inducing shit involved is dire rn, I’d be more inclined to add to it myself but I’m down so bad for one person in particular (offline) it has made it difficult for me to interact so much here

[vampire-loving-vampire]

voice of a girl who has never had its needs met:

wow ur so nice to me omg , noones ever talked to me in a soft voice before that's , so nice of u . but it's okay if u wanna yell at me tho I totally understand .!!! is it okay if I call u my friend ? no pressure haha just let me know if u hate me . btw can I have a hug ur allowed to say no btw .

[hrt-turned-me-het]

Who wants me to put my hand up your skirt, pull on the elastic of your panties and caress your thigh under the table of some restaurant or cafe I took you to, forcing you to desperately try to maintain composure

[hrt-turned-me-het]

Girls who beg… girls who play up being more helpless than they are cause they want you to do things for them.. girls who want you to treat them like they’re fragile, precious… girls who are easy to tease cause it’s obvious how much they depend on you.. girls who pout when they don’t get what they want, no, what they deserve. God I love needy girls

[hrt-turned-me-het]

Jesus, can you tell what day I do my T-shot or what lmao 💀

[hrnytransdude]

Trans girl with a thing for transmasc superiority x insecure virgin trans guy

Her telling him how perfect his body is and how undeserving she is of him

Her begging him to touch her, or let her taste him. To use her like a toy in anyway he sees fit.

All while he’s nervous and blushing and so so hard. His mind is racing with so many ideas, he can’t believe he can do anything he wants to her, how someone wants him this much.

[hrt-turned-me-het]

I absolutely love picking people up and I will do it any time the opportunity is presented to me lol. I can pick someone up who weighs more than me for a substantial amount of time, but it drives me crazy when someone is small enough for me to easily scoop them up and carry them bridal style. I need to go to the gym to increase this threshold

[patriarchalslutgal]

Save me post-op piv sex

Post-op piv sex save me

[femmemutt]

Hyperfeminine girlfriend who likes to sit on her tboyfriend’s lap , feeling the bulge of his packer n teasing him about how big he is . Trying to get him all hot n heavy so he could show her just how hard he could really get <3

[vampyre-kin]

I'm terrible at speaking up and staying present during sex and I just want a soft dom to fondle me and whisper into my ear about how I'm feeling and what more I want. I want my back to their chest while they kiss and bite my neck, rumbling questions and praise as they do so. I want to feel absorbed into them and blindly obedient. Is that really so much to ask?