𝔳𝔢𝔫𝔲𝔰 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔥𝔬𝔴 𝔱𝔬 𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔭 𝔦𝔫𝔱𝔬 𝔶𝔬𝔲𝔯 𝔟𝔢𝔞𝔲𝔱𝔶 ❦
this is about how to become more confident and how elevate your beauty! not to change yourself to be more alligned with what is trending and what capitalism tries to make us think what true beauty is.
remember before reading the rest of this post, remind yourself that everyone's beauty is different, do not compare yourself to others or rush the process of being confident :)
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❦ venus in astrology is one of the most deciphered and researched planets as it focuses on what people worship, which is love, beauty and adoration. we're all on a path here, some people could already be stepping into their venusian energy and there could be other people who are new at it.
❦ what you need to do is not compare yourself on other people's progression and to not think of yourself as better than others when you are moving forward because it does stall the lesson you have to learn.
❦ the main thing people need to focus on is learning how to gain validation from yourself and not from other people.
❦ before i get into the signs and the houses. i want to speak about a misconception people have about venus/aphrodite, and yes venus is someone who does love adoration from other people, but the praise would eventually be meaningless if you dont have that appreciative spark for yourself.
❦ self-love, self-worth, self-value [very taurean haha...aphrodite is the deity ruler of venus whereas juno/hera is the deity ruler of libra. both libra and taurus are planetary ruled by venus, but taurus is more aligned with the core and inner growth of allure whereas libra tends to lean onto popularity, the facile and materialistic side of venus, which could be why many of them do go through lessons about learning to not have this need to be loved by everyone].
❦ venus in astrology can teach someone how they can start loving themselves without the shallow approval of other people.
❦ venus in aries/1h ⟶ i have this alignment [which is the venus in aries] and one of the best things i can say is that please do not turn to outer validation because it'll be a thing you crave to help you figure out how you can lead your life. do not focus on the outer experience of beauty and do focus on the inside. your essence carries venusian qualities of charm and likability and you have a natural talent of knowing how you carry yourself. and in this circumstance learn your own swagger, play into your boldness and keep it active. do not shy away from your face and see what about your features is beautiful, and lastly, always keep it authentic!
❦ venus in taurus/2h ⟶ oh please keep it natural. you can step into your beauty by being someone who is aware of your self-worth. this placement is similar to the first house and how you're someone who is not supposed to focus on the validation of others to see the love and allure you carry. this alignment shows that there is something strong and dignifying here, and to step into your glamour this shows that you're someone who needs to embody your skin, sensual rituals, skincare and messages. focus on your natural softness dont try and be too striking. venus is domicile in taurus so it thrives in being real and authentic.
❦ venus in gemini/3h ⟶ affirmations. always remember that you're that girl. because this placement shows that you might spiral a lot when it is about coming to terms with how you look. use your voice, keep it playful and dont be scared about trying different things you never know what will compliment you. allow your style to evolve, your signature look embodies your playful identity, one moment you could be cute, the next day you would be edgy and the day after it'll be classic. fashion and beauty geniuses here.
❦ venus in cancer/4h ⟶ surround yourself with things that make you remember that you're beautiful, be around people who are a reflection of your beauty. if you're around things or people that are totally different to your look there is an indicator that you'll become more questioning about yourself more than usual. but overall, you need to be your own safe haven, be emotionally secure about your beauty and if you're not strive for things that make you feel "you". people with this alignment could sometimes have imposter syndrome when they try things that are too different from who they are.
❦ venus in leo/5h ⟶ dont be afraid of taking up space. your beauty is never supposed to be hidden it is supposed to be celebrated. leo is the sign of validation and thriving off people's opinions so this is one of the alignments where i would advise to focus on yourself, solarian energy rules over the heart and i would genuinely say that being good to yourself and to other people will definitely make you feel more good about yourself and how you can step into your beauty. your looks bloom when you make a statement, if you continue covering what you think are your flaws and negatives your light will dim.
❦ venus in virgo/6h ⟶ stop over-analysing yourself. stop over-critiquing yourself. take what other people say about you with a PINCH of salt. embrace your natural polish, yes make-up might look nice on you, but like its element sister, taurus and virgo energy are supposed to be in love with how they look naturally and how they can work with it instead of trying to change how you might look. there is grace in details, your physical appeal is tingy details like the crispiness of your clothes and the tidiness of your hair or the scent you wear.
❦ venus in libra/7h ⟶ how these natives can step into their beauty is understanding what is pleasing to your heart and then to the eye. because if its not worked within it'll feel fake on the outside. dont be a people-pleaser, venus is at home in both libra and the seventh house and this shows that you are someone who is naturally elegant. so being forceful gives you the mentality of always having to work on yourself for the approval of other people. surround yourself with beauty, decorare your room, grow your music taste. your beauty is strengthened when you feel like you are living in art.
❦ venus in scorpio/8h ⟶ like in venus in aries. a scorpio venus means the alignment is in detriment. you're not supposed to be pleasing to everyone, so if you are off putting to other people because your energy is strong and intense, fuck them. [not literally]. dont dull your presence for the favour of other people, dont be afraid of using bold colours and make-up. wear amulets, rings and necklaces, its apart of your ritual to feel more like you. connect to your power, and comprehend that sometimes there'll have to be phases and cycles broken with people you'll want to be with. not everyone you're intense about will be with you forever, some people are just seasonal.
❦ venus in sagittarius/9h ⟶ people with this placement have so much beauty to give to themselves and to life around them. you're supposed to be someone who does not stay in one place, you're supposed to be someone who does not limit yourself when it comes to learning new things about what makes you feel beautiful on the inside and out. your radiance comes from a sence of adventure and being open, try new things, love new things keeping yourself restricted makes you feel dull. as the ninth house and sagittarius are both commodities of expansion, this entails that you have an abundance of beauty and style, be playful. change your mindset about how you perceive love and allure. your beauty is fed by freedom, a routine that feels stiff holds back your spark.
❦ venus in capricorn/10h ⟶ this alignment is a big indicator of "less is more". be sophisticated and graceful about your beauty, venus in the tenth house itself shows that your beauty does stand out and wearing make up can elevate your beauty. but the tenth house and capricorn is about your origin and your roots, trying to change how you look to much makes you look awkward as if there'll always be a missing piece whenever you glance at the mirror. master your public image, what do you want to be known as, how do you want to be embraced and how do you want your presence to impact other people. your sophisticated beauty is your brand, even though you're likely seeking advice from this reading. dont allow other people's idea to twist how you should display yourself to the public. always stay true to yourself. these people are the unintentional inspiration, what you do has other people follow. own your power, you're captivating while being composed and not over-doing it so other people can pay attention to you.
❦ venus in aquarius/11h ⟶ this is an amazing placement. because its the type of beauty where people cant box you in so it makes you the most elevated of them all. [hyperbole but still i do think that]. you step into your beauty by being someone who learns to have self-value from yourself and not because of the people around you, stop being around people who make you feel like you have to be a specific way because it means your soul will always be fighting for freedom. celebrate your weirdness, express your freedom throug beauty and style---expirement with your look, vintage finds, anything that feels new and fresh for you. though im not saying you shall remain alone, but do find your tribe when you know you can still stand by yourself. stay open minded in love, chiefly when it comes to loving yourself, you're magnetic when you own what makes you different.
❦ venus in pisces/12h ⟶ venus is exalted in both this sign and house. [modern astrology not astrology joy]. venus is at its highest vibration here and it shows that you're someone who should embrace your dreamy essence, pastel colours, a beauty that is soft, experiment with silk and lace. anything that feels like a dream. lean into what makes you mysterious, dont force yourself to interact with people who are not your vibe, even though venus is exalted here, you are still a very sensitive perosn. a privae and hidden side to your art, beauty or your romantic life keeps your aura sacred. protect your boundaries, when you become someone who learns who you should allow into your life, you'll feel more beautiful because there wont be people who will be draining your happiness and confidence. lastly, i'll also say put your faith in things: beliefs or people who will not make you feel like your devotion is one-sided.
