spacekin trash

will follow you from my main @rensrainyuniverse

[snailshopping]

andro/femme spacekin for anon

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[kincuddles]

Could I just have some positivity? I'm spacekin, but I haven't really slept in a few days. I have really bad anxiety and SPD and everything is keeping me up. Every time I sleep I have bad nightmares cause of PTSD I just want to sleep, I feel sick

I’m so sorry that this is happening to you, starchild.

You, and your own home, are beautiful. Beautiful, vast, mysterious, wondrous. A sea of stars, a neverending forest of nebulas - people with that they could be you, and explore your unknown. Just the simple turn of events that lets the sky fall and space return to view every night is enough to swell so many hearts and brighten so many eyes.

In your vastness, is darkness. Pure, staggering, unavoidable darkness. Some nights, it may take over you. But – you’re strong. You have magnificent shining and shooting stars to show in that shadowy darkness. They burst and break free, dazzling and daring. Every star, planet, meteor, and comet, all love you. They want to be with you. They want you to witness their glory, and for them to witness yours.

You are as glorious as all of space. You may just have to wait til nightfall to see that come.

(You’re more than welcome to send in another ask if you want specific help with your sleeping problem.)

-Chris

[vacantsuggestions]

“come home,” said the universe “where am i now, if not with you?” i replied

[care4kin]

Self-care for starkin

Decals ($15) // Soap ($3) // Pillow ($27.20+)

Wax melts ($7) // Bath bombs ($3.50) // Garland ($13.95)*

Blanket ($17.99+) // Projector ($9.51)

* Store has a LOT more star garlands in other colors, too!

[otherkingifts]

Could you do a post for a masculine alienkin/spacekin, please? I'd really appreciate it.

here’s a galaxy print tie and a tie clip to go with it! there’s also this alien sweatshirt, a messenger bag, a lapel pin, and these socks! hope i did a good job ^^

[moons-moon]

Being an aesthetic hoe is really fun you should try it

[things4kin]

Star Kin Outfits

Ursa Major Shirt

Sweatshirt

“Things in Space” Skater Skirt

[kinfessions]

as a closeted spacekin (nebulakin specifically), i always feel too small and dense and empty. i'm supposed to encompass whole star systems and nurse planets inside me, not be stuck here on the ground

[aestheticsforkin]

☆colorful spacekin☆

[that-otherkin-feel]

That spacekin feel when you suddenly get slammed with homesickness so bad you actually start crying

[ace-space-aesthetics]

[thnksfrthgifs]

Patrick being a tiny ginger muffin in House M.D.

[hubblewubble]

Modern Cartoon Zodiac:

Aries (March 21-April 19): Adventure Time

Taurus (April 20 - May 20): Bob's Burgers

Gemini (May 21 - June 20): Legend of Korra

Cancer (June 21 - July 22): Steven Universe

Leo (July 23 - August 22): We Bare Bears

Virgo (August 23 - September 22): Gravity Falls

Libra (September 23 - October 22): Miraculous Ladybug

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21): Wonder Over Yonder

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21): Loud House

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19): Over the Garden Wall

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18): Rick and Morty

Pisces (February 19 - March 20): Star VS the Forces of Evil

[seriousotherkin]

Do you have any suggestions for combating species dysphoria? I saw your recent post about it, but the thing is there's someone I'm very close to who longs to physically be her kintype, and I think those things would make her more sad, those are the things she wants, she just wants to experience them in a centaur body. And I dont know how to help her, it's really affecting her.

The core of the matter is to find what you enjoy that wouldn’t be available to you if you had your kin body, and using that as your anchor, to bring your experience of this body up to be something you can live with, something you can enjoy. We can all do that. We can all find something we enjoy, or some convenience, to our current forms, that we can grasp on to, that we can focus on. 

But the thing is, you’ll have to want to feel better as well. 

If we go out of our way to shoot down everything that might make us feel better, looking for reasons to make them something that makes us feel worse, then we’re invested in feeling terrible. 

And that’s something that can happen. 

If you’re invested in feeling terrible then you’ve made that feeling a part of your persona, of your sense of self, and while you don’t enjoy feeling terrible, you’re resistent to changing that, you’re resistent to happiness, because you don’t know who you are if you aren’t that person that feels terrible. 

It’s something I’ve seen in the kin community, in the lgbt community and in the disability community, so it’s not something that’s terribly uncommon actually. 

“Who am I without suffering?” isn’t a conscious question, or a chosen reason to resist change, but it’s there. 

And if literally nothing helps, if every attempt at feeling better gets turned on it’s head and reimagined, reworded, ripped apart and turned into a reason to feel worse, then odds are, that’s what’s at play. 

And I have no advice on how to fix that for someone else, because none of us can, none of us can change this for someone else. Heck, even when it comes to you, if you, who are reading this, feels this hits a bit close to home and you recognize that this is what you might be doing, I can’t tell you exactly how to fix that, how to stop that. 

Realizing that we’re doing it can help…. but having someone suggest we’re doing it might hurt, might make us feel worse, as though we’re being told we only feel bad because we want to, and that is not the truth. 

We feel terrible because we’re used to it, because it’s who we are at this moment, and we are afraid to change that, because we’re not sure who we are without that feeling. 

And no matter how much it hurts, we won’t change until we’re ready. We won’t change this until we genuinely want to. 

Just like we don’t go looking for the help we need, until we’re ready and willing to accept it, no matter how long we may have needed it. 

I’m speaking from experience. 

[thetadelta-moved]

While I definitely agree with the sentiment of this response, there are concrete things you can do to combat dysphoria. I made a rather long post about it not too long ago.

[seriousotherkin]

I probably should have included the post anon was referring to at the start as well.

[catsendremade99]

support kin whose kntypes are a coping mechanism

support kin whose kntypes emerged from trauma

support kin whose kntypes are caused by mental illness

you are still real and valid

[just--space]

Saturn’s hexagonal storm

js

[justoutsideyourgalaxy]

Am I the only person who wishes my room could be covered in galaxy print so I can feel more at home?