[peeingglitter]

[with0ut-guilt]

wanna go offline with me?

[hue-niverse]

Naa ra ko diri. Amping pirmi.

[huh-chu]

"no one can love you exactly the way you want to be loved, because that's your job." came across a photo of a tattoo of this quote. ang ganda kasi totoo. growing up, i've always thought that the "right person" would do the things i need to make me feel loved. i did marry the right person, but i eventually realized that i'm still in charge of loving myself the way i wanted to be loved. that's my job. i cannot put that responsibility on anyone else. yung happiness ko, how i take care of myself, and how i want to be loved, that's all on me. ang gandang realization non kasi since natutunan ko yon, nanotice ko rin na mas happy ako mag-show up and pour ng love sa relationships ko esp sa marriage namin. kasi di ko na inaasa sa iba eh, i'm happy and loved because i continuously work on it. kaya totoo din talaga na dapat may sense of individuality kayong mag-asawa e, di pwedeng umiikot yung mundo nyo sa isa't isa. ehe. happy wednesday, friends!

[hue-niverse]

Everyone has different preferences (kinks) and fantasies, and thats completely normal. But having them doesn’t mean you want to do those things to other people or sexualize everyone you meet. If you have the right mindset, you know the difference between a fantasy and reality. Respect, consent, and self-control will always matter more than any personal desires.

[ziekseks]

hello tumblr people!!

someone recently reached out to me & informed me that there are people taking my photos from here and posting them on an adult site. this includes not only my old “thirst trap” posts but also my personal selfies.

plsss, if may makita kayong tumblr mutuals ninyo, kindly report those users. i would really appreciate any help in getting these accounts taken down.

i’ve decided to leave tumblr for good. this is not a safe space for me anymore & it honestly no longer feels comfortable staying here. thank uuu tumblr people for the time & connections. we can still be mutual sa ig. pm nyo lang ako for my username para ma-follow natin isa’t isa.

please be careful din sa pagpo-post dito kasi some of my tumblr mutuals are also on that site hindi lang ako. we never really know where our content might end up or who might be affected. mej scary lang kasi even a simple selfie na mukhang sexy, pinopost din sa site na yon.

also, the person who was previously using AI to generate/edit photos is still active sa insta, but it’s a private account. so we don’t really know what she’s uploading there— be careful nalang din & please stay cautious when it comes to accounts like that.

to the person who’s doing this, please remove it immediately. we’re taking actions na sa ginagawa mo. alam kong hndi maiiwasan maging malibog, pero sana hindi yung ikakasira ng peace of mind ng mga taong nananahimik. no one deserves to have their privacy disrespected like this. grabe yang utak mo.

[hue-niverse]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

dear me,

it’s going to be okay someday. just not today.

i love you.

[hue-niverse]

6, 12, 19, 29

6. Would you rather be permanently moving/on the road, or live in the same place for your whole life?

Somewhere in between. Gusto ko pa rin ng place na I can call home, but I also want the freedom to explore. Ang dami ko pang gustong makita at ma experience . I think I’ll always be someone excited looking forward to the next little adventure.

12. How do you show affection (platonic or romantic)?

I show it through my actions more than my words. I check in on people, remember the little things they mention, spend quality time with them, and make sure they’ll receive a lot of funny reels. I’m not the most expressive person, but if I care about you, I think you’ll feel it. 😉

19. Best gift you’ve gotten?

Honestly, experiences. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate material gifts too coz I know someone took the time to pick them out and that means a lot to me. But experiences are different. They stay with me longer. The stories I keep telling, the moments I randomly think about. I think those are the best gifts you can give someone.

29. Share an adventure you went on.

I still remember when I was in elementary school. There were four of us, all girls, and we’d spend hours riding our bikes around the province. Punta ng dagat, ligo sa ilog after school, mag picnic. Basta gala lang kung saan mapunta.When I started high school, everything changed. I went to a school farther from home, and life became all about studying. Chos! We slowly lost touch, and I ended up spending most of my time at home.Maybe that’s why every time I go out now whether it’s by myself or with someone, it feels like a little adventure. It reminds me of the little girl who loved exploring without knowing where the day would end.

[hue-niverse]

4, 18, 28

Who is a role model in your life, real or fictional?

I don’t really have one specific role model. Pero whenever I watch movies or read books, napapansin ko I’m always drawn to people who are strong-willed, courageous, smart, and caring. Yung tipong kahit magulo or completely magbago yung buhay nila, they still find a way to move forward and keep chasing their goals. I really admire that.

A compliment you’ve received?

That I’m always smiling. I still remember one of my suitors(haha) back in high school telling me that I was easy to be with. Sabi niya, I make people feel happy and comfortable and I had a way of making people feel included like no one was ever left out when I am around. Hanggang ngayon, that’s probably one of the compliments I still remember.

Favorite way to spend time alone?

Honestly? Just being comfortable in bed with a good book or doing a movie marathon. Minsan I just like to think… a lot. 😂 I also love taking myself on solo dates and exploring new places nearby. I genuinely enjoy my own company.

[hue-niverse]

Not me falling for a man who can turn a psychology lecture into a love language. Spencer Reid, keep talking.

[starloving-186]

ask game!

making an ask game purely out of boredom

if you had to dye your hair, what colour would you pick?

in an emergency, who would you call?

favourite scent and why?

who is a role model in your life, real or fictional?

three people you wish you could meet?

would you rather be permanently moving/on the road, or live in the same place for your whole life?

describe a dream you had recently

favourite accessory you own?

how would you survive an apocalypse or at least attempt to?

dream pet?

song you listened to in childhood?

how do you show affection (this can be platonic or romantic)?

favourite film?

piece of media that left a lasting impact on you?

any “paranormal” or unexplainable experiences?

favourite type of chocolate?

drink of choice?

a compliment you’ve received?

best gift you’ve gotten?

dream car?

describe a nightmare you’ve had?

favourite time of day/night?

a hobby you tried but didn’t stick with?

movie or tv show you want to watch?

dream room?

share one outlook you have on life?

a favourite lyric?

favourite way to spend time alone?

share an adventure you went on?

what are your opinions on the person asking?

[hue-niverse]

enjoying my own company. Crossed SEA LIFE Aquarium off my bucket list and saw the cutest penguins and glowing jellyfish. 🪼

[totally-sapphic-posts]

Craving one of those long hugs where you both feel warm and safe, and neither of you really want to let go

[becherdireinen]

i hope all the nights you spent struggling, doubting yourself and trying to hold everything together lead you to something beautiful.

[hue-niverse]

[hue-niverse]

I fear the future more than I fear the truth.

Not because of what happened,but because I don’t know if one day I’ll be smiling for a photograph while a part of me is still searching for an answer.