hi, hello, I’m not really great with introducing myself but I’m Han. You can call me hunbun. I like nature, I dream of trees and somewhere that’s green. If flowers grew from my soul, I think I would be a garden. Just your friendly Capricorn ♑️ 🌝♋️👆♓️ in love with earth, living life through the beauty of it all. Only love here, given & receiving. Crystals are my things, flowers and poetry are my language. “Trust the process, you will eventually see the light “ -Also I love bugs, be kind to them and thank them for their hard work.
“I’m not over you. The night brings tears and cries from the memory of what we once were. But it’s the sunny days that really show me how much I’m not over you.”
#SoulmateSundays :: Who has a CRUSH on you or who do YOU have a crush on?
Taking a DEEP look into the people we like and the people who like us using tarot and oracle cards. Looking at where they've been in relationships and where they are going, & how this connection might play out especially in the beginning. Not at all the messages I expected to receive when I started pulling cards. Things got real real quick...as always, these are general readings. Take what resonates! * Photos of Archetype Deck not shown due to lack of space.
For each pile I pulled cards from a different tarot deck. Choose the tarot deck that resonates with you.
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Pile 1 - 🐍
Pile 2 - 🐇
Pile 3 - 🐈
Pile 4 - 🐺
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Pile 1 - 7 of Wands, The World & 9 of Swords | Fox & Snake | King, Priest & Child : Nature
Out of all of the piles, I feel this person is having the hardest time. For whatever reason this person is resisting change (7 of Wands and The World). I feel like they have a lot of pride (King) and they are not one to admit when they've been wrong. And, I feel with 7 of Wands in the past position they've faced some opposition. They may have felt like they've been backed into a corner or like it's been them against The World. And, I'm not saying every bad thing that happens to them is their fault but I do feel like they create more drama for themselves than they are willing to admit. I feel this person has made decisions out of pride and out of arrogance (King and Priest) that have come back to bite them in the ass. I feel like they're the type of person who would say it's not me, it's them or it's not my fault, it's everyone else. A habit of making mountains out of molehills in situations most people would consider a non-issue.
But, underneath this tough exterior (7 of Wands & King), there is someone who is very fragile (Child : Nature and 9 of Swords). This person has a lot of fears and anxiety. They are not someone who feels comfortable showing their vulnerability and they have a hard time trusting others (Child : Nature). I feel this person could have been wounded as a Child and they carry these wounds with them (Fox and Snake). They have their guard up (7 of Wands), assuming the worst of people and I feel it's this that is keeping them from developing authentic and secure connections.
I feel like this person is coming to the end of this tumultuous cycle (7 of Wands and The World). They may be feeling defeated and a little anxious (9 of Swords) about what comes next. Regardless, there's this feeling of no longer being able to go on the way they have (The World). They could have pissed people off (7 of Wands + Priest) and relationships may have been severed as a consequence (Priest and The World). This person is no longer the King they made themselves out to be.
Moving forward, this person is having to confront a lot of their wounds and negative beliefs they've been harboring. This is scary (9 of Swords) for them and rightfully so. Shadow work (Fox) is never easy. But, unfortunately the only way to heal it is to feel it. The only way to rid ourselves of our demons is to face them head on.
In the coming months, I feel your person is going to be shedding old habits and parts of themselves that no longer serve them (Snake). With the Snake, I also feel there's a lot of trauma stored within their body and this could be manifesting as different ailments. So, they are or will be taking better care of themselves. They will be learning to reparent themselves (Child) and focusing on self-love, spending more time in nature (Child : Nature) to ground and reconnect with their body.
If you are asking about someone who has a crush on you, I feel this person would have an anxious attachment style. They very much want your approval (7 of Wands), have fears of being rejected or abandoned, they struggle to trust others (7 of Wands) and they have a low view of themselves (9 of Swords, insecure). I'm no expert on attachment styles so I encourage you to do your own research. But, I feel this emotional volatility may create some unstable ground for the two of you. I'm not saying you shouldn't date this person but this relationship will take some work especially if they are still representing the energy of the 7 of Wands and the King.
I don't know who chose this pile so I don't know what you are and are not willing to take on. Again, educate yourself on attachment styles. Seek a licensed therapist. Try couples therapy if you're already with this person. Especially if you're already coupled, you are part of their support system. If you are struggling in this connection or you feel they are and you don't know how to help or what you've been doing is only creating more problems, seeking a professional is your best bet. How can you support them and their growth while also maintaining your boundaries and a healthy relationship?
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Pile 2 - Page of Wands, 5 of Pentacles & Queen of Cups | Rabbit, Eagle & Wolf | Mediator & Clown
I feel like this person is young (Page of Wands) and/or inexperienced (Page and 5 of Pentacles). Like, this person is just entering the world and they are excited (Page of Wands) but a little nervous (5 of Pentacles and Rabbit) about being on their own. They could be moving out of their parents house (Eagle) onto a college campus or they could have graduated or simply decide to move out on their own. I do feel like this person is a student so in their late teens, early 20s. Or, this person could be any age but they are breaking free from cultural traditions (Eagle and Wolf) that have limited them in some way. They are embracing this new found freedom and finding themselves.
They are at the beginning stages of something (Page of Wands) and their financial situation isn't the best (5 of Pentacles). But, they are working toward creating more stability for themselves (Queen of Cups). I do feel study is a big area of focus for this group. This person could be studying psychology or sociology (Mediator and Queen of Cups). I do feel this person is a lover and they have the desire to help people through their career. They could also choose a career path that their family (Eagle) would not approve of.
Family (Eagle) I feel has been a big issue for this person. They may not have the best relationship with them. However, I feel by moving out and establishing boundaries these connections may heal over time (Rabbit, Eagle and Wolf).
There's something very innocent and naive about this person. They are very curious (Page of Wands) and receptive to other points of view (Mediator). And, I think how they process and regurgitate info is funny and clever (Clown). The way they put their experiences into words is sure to make others laugh.
They are as adventurous (Page) as their bank account will allow (5 of Pentacles). However, I feel like this new chapter in their life, even if physically they don't go far, is excitement enough for them. Everything in their life is just so new.
I see this person really blossoming over the next few years. Going from this self-conscious Page of Wands to the mature and kind Queen of Cups.
If you are asking about who has a crush on you, they definitely have feelings for you but may be a little hesitant to express them or they don't know how to do it in a mature manner. Again, everything is so new to this person. I feel like there is a good chance you could be their first serious partner. And, in the beginning I feel like there could be some minor hurdles but in the long run, I feel they and you will really mature (Queen of Cups). Together you're going to learn a lot about what you like, what you don't like, what it means to be in a relationship, and what needs to be worked on at an individual level to have healthy connections.
This has the potential to be a fun and explorative time for both of you IF this is someone you are even interested in pursuing.
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This person is moving on (6 of Swords) from a toxic situation, career, relationship or environment into one that brings more emotional satisfaction and contentment (Judgement and 9 of Cups). The 6 of Swords follows the 5 of Swords which is a symbol of betrayal and rejection. I feel like your person would have experienced some sort of upset in the past especially in regards to people. They've been done wrong. If the 5 of Swords does not represent a relationship it could represent a toxic living situation. Leaving an environment that is unstable and unsupportive. This could manifest as moving out of a volatile household or moving away from a neighborhood or country in turmoil.
I feel like this person would have been fated to experience these conflicts. Through their experiences they would have learned a lot about compassion and empathy - how to treat people and how they want to be treated. With the Otter, this parting marks the beginning of a new journey. A journey that brings them back to themselves. They are moving away from the chaos and unhappiness they experienced in the past. Making space for emotionally fulfilling opportunities and relationships (9 of Cups).
Moving forward they are learning to be true to themselves (Butterfly). Being more authentic in their self-expression (Pioneer and Cat). I don't feel this persons individuality was well received in the past but now they are learning to ignore other peoples judgements of them.
They would have to go through a period where they spent a lot of time alone (Hermit and Mystic). Or, they would have felt isolated or like they didn't fit in in the past. I feel many of these people are artists or have some sort of creative talent. With the Cat, this person could be a writer or work in the visual arts. They are observant, intuitive and have a strong imagination (Mystic and Pioneer). And, they utilize these strengths in their work. I feel like whatever they are working on (Pioneer and Butterfly) it will help or inspire people in some way (Servant).
If you are asking about who has a crush on you, I feel like it wont be obvious that they like you. This person is very self-focused and finding contentment within themselves and where they are on their journey. I feel like they will take their time to get to know you before making a commitment. They've seen the worst in people and don't want to rush into anything. They're taking their time. Be patient, don't rush and have fun!
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With the 2 of Wands and Judgement I see someone who is leaving the past behind and ready to embark on a new adventure (Chariot). Especially in matters of love, I don’t feel this person has had a whole lot of success. Dating the wrong people and poor decision making has held them back. As they move forward I feel they are taking back their power, reclaiming their independence and planning for the future.
Your person may have had commitment issues in the past. Perhaps, early on someone broke their heart and this turned them off to love. Whatever their reason, with Don Juan and the Exorcist I see someone who is leaving the player life behind. They are ready for a love that’s real. I feel they’ve broken one too many hearts or perhaps their own actions have left them feeling empty. Deep down I feel your person is very sensitive more than they will let on.
But, they are learning a lot about themselves. They are healing and I feel many are going to therapy or seeking out spiritual guidance (Healer and Squirrel). This person is tapping into their own spirituality and learning more about their faith or the occult (Scribe). There’s a strong interest in bettering themselves from the inside out. I do feel this person would have lived a superficial lifestyle in the past and now their looking for something more fulfilling. I feel this path would have always been a part of them but perhaps the people around them weren’t supportive. Deep thinking, spirituality and individuality may not have been encouraged early on in their life.
Slowly but surely your person is making progress (Swan). They are releasing their demons (Wolf and Exorcist) and learning to love themselves unconditionally. And, by staying tru to themselves I see them opening up for authentic connection.
There’s a lot of playful energy in these cards. I feel your person is very adventurous and outgoing. They want to have a good time and they will open you up to many experiences you’ve never had before. I also feel like they are going to be funny. Always joking and wanting to make you laugh. They want to make you smile.
They could also enjoy traveling. And, if you haven’t met this person already I feel like it could be through relocating that you meet. They could move to your city or neighborhood and this opens the doors for your connection to happen.
If you are asking about someone who has a crush on you, I feel this person would have met you and fell in love. They see you as someone they can trust and someone they would like to build a life with. But, they realize that what they’ve been doing (Don Juan) isn’t going to fly with you. It is your connection that inspires them to change. I feel you may not be totally trusting of them at first especially if you meet them while they are in the thick of their player phase. However, over time I feel this connection has the opportunity to transform into something beautiful. How this relationship starts is not an indicator of how it will be in the long run.
Or, you could meet this person as they are healing from the past. And, you are the first person they share their heart with. Either way I feel this being healing connection for this person. Your relationship is instrumental to their growth. I feel like you will teach them to trust and to open their heart. You will be showing them what a healthy and committed relationship is suppose to be.
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