everyday swag life

marshall - 23 - he/him - icon morgana enthusiast and #1 fan of beating atlus with a giant stick 🍖 • 🐻 • 🔎 • ☠️

[lesbiangaara-deactivated2017052]

hey kids if ur parents are abusive, dont be surprised if they suddenly change all their behaviors when u finally move out, if they start acting very nice and never even allude to all those times Before when they were treating u bad. this is a form of gaslighting and if u plan to keep distant from them as an adult, this may well be the defining characteristics of ur interaction w/ them. it’s tough to navigate this, because u will almost definitely wonder: was i abused? listen… when u sit in ur own home someday, maybe w/ a loved one, and things feel good, and the past feels far away, ur abuse was not made up. ur parents really did those things, and whether or not u want to keep them out of ur life or form a new dynamic w/ them, that’s up to u. but never let them make u believe they were always good to u.

[caledoniaseries]

this is 100% true

[hurricanesunny]

i did it. i solved fire emblem: three houses

[silksweets]

bring back the habits that made you happy as a child. there’s no reason you should ever have to give up harmless things that bring you joy. you don’t have to age out of having fun. finger paint. write mediocre fanfiction and questionable poetry. put chocolate chips in your waffles. sing in the bath, and while working in the yard, and while washing your hands. hammer tunelessly on a piano. spin in circles until you fall down. climb a tree. just because you’re now in charge of your life doesn’t mean you’re expected to give up on the things that make life feel worth living

[ullrs-skis]

If I could impart one thing to a young adult - it would be this. This is literally the secret to being okay your entire life.

[roomthirtythree]

Glyph discoveries + First realizations

[tatertotart]

Part 1 - White Clouds 

An Inevitable Encounter (Great Tree Moon)

[bikozume-remade-deactivated2021]

if y’all can accept that having depression, anxiety, autism, adhd, etc etc doesn’t make u abusive or bad, why can’t u do the same for ppl w psychotic symptoms, personality disorders, or systems -__-

[vocaloid3-deactivated20200806]

the fact is that while depression, adhd, autism, anxiety etc are trivialized and poked fun at in the media, psychosis/schizophrenia, DID/OSDD and personality disorders are consistently demonized and we are made out to be the villains.

it’s a rebrand of “psychotic people are dangerous”, “having DID means you have an evil alter who can hurt me”, “people with personality disorders have no humanity.”

whether people who are singlets, unpsychotics, and people who don’t have pds believe it or not, there is a lot of ableism they have learned from the people around them/the media and they need to address and correct these biases both in themselves and others. it’s really terrible how casual ableism against these groups can be.

[kyri45]

Be gay, do witchcraft

[doodlerh]

yuri deserved more flamboyance than his jumpsuit and clown shoes

[britp0p-deactivated20210628]

one day, a couple years from now, you’re gonna look back and say, “oh my god, i’m so glad i made it through”. you’re gonna have moments where you love the world so much it makes the back of ur nose burn and you’re gonna have moments where u love yourself, even the parts you thought you would never ever like. you’re gonna have people in your life that you love, and you’re gonna have bad days, but i promise promise promise you it will be so much better. you’re gonna be ok.

[cryptidw00rm-archive]

kin list anyone?

[sh5]

woke up in a safehouse singin’, “honey, let’s get married!”

[tandemunicycle]

Imma tell you what I wish someone told me 10 years ago as a lonely adhd kid: being annoying is a minor irritation at worst. Being excited about something is ok, you probably aren’t annoying anyone, and even if you are that’s ok too. As long as you don’t do it on purpose, the possibility of irritating someone should not stop you from expressing yourself.

Once again: Being annoying is a minor irritation at worst. Express yourself. Take up space.

[purr-positivity]

Constant sleep

[climbdraws]

blue

[thedupshadove]

TMA has a really neat trick that makes it always feel like cosmic horror, even when the threats are relatively small: the monsters don't play fair.

It's there from the first episode, when the Anglerfish's victims are punished for generosity. The old fairy-tale logic says that this cannot, does not happen. And yet it does.

TMA universe punishes you for everything you do. Be generous? Punished. Be greedy? Punished. Be curious? Punished. Be distracted? Punished. And it doesn't matter how good a person you are. Just look at Father Boroughs.

It's a great way to twist the knife.

[beebeedibapbeediboop]

Phone call

[snoopysfriendwoodstock]

it’s honestly crazy how many ppl u meet in your early twenties who have never been in love or been in a relationship or had sex and then you’re like oh it’s actually normal and social milestones actually mean nothing bc everyone is different and has different experiences. cool!