Midwest hotwife couple for stud

Adventurous couple that have a solid relationship with love, respect, honesty, and open communication as well as fantastic sex!!!! We are looking to expand our horizons sexually and welcome passionate adventures. We are very interested in the hotwife lifestyle but extremely cautious given our high profile professions. We want to ease into the lifestyle by talking with other like-minded couples and by chatting with potential lovers. We will progress quickly if we can find the right one (or two, three,..). She is a highly sexually charged 41 yr petite white MILF that has an insatiable sexual appetite. She needs an experienced, energetic, long-lasting stud to quench her desires. He is 45yr and an open, devoted, loving husband that is very in tune with her needs and enthusiastically encourages her to grab all that life has to offer.

[jackburden98]

"Could you hear us last night, honey? I was trying to be quiet but he fucked me so hard. I couldn't help myself."

[hwcouple4stud]

Still living in Kansas?

Email us at:

[email protected]

[hwcouple4stud]

Yes.......And still looking for adventure

[hwcouple4stud]

Still living in Kansas?

Email us at:

[email protected]

[texasangel1207-blog-deactivated]

[leoonyz-deactivated20240726]

😋😋😋

[cuckoldinnorcal]

[hwcouple4stud]

Proper pounding!!

[bbc-2019]

[blackcockhoe-deactivated2018121]

Where my legs are normally ♠️❤

[cuckoldaddicted]

Wow 💪🏿

[couple4bbconly]

Hey baby, does my dick feel like this or what?! Lol😂

[hwcouple4stud]

Great view!!!

[outoftownguest]

[justusexploringtogether-deactiv]

Perfect

[makeherhappy2]

Looks like a BBC you’d enjoy @5050qos-hotwife

[5050qoshotwife]

Yeah.cant play video right now but it looks good to me. @makeherhappy2

[hwcouple4stud]

this reminds me of the Sunday afternoon lover

[oursexyexploration-deactivated2]

Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

[elpasolace]

There are many, many flavors of cuckolding and hotwifing … There are infinite number of ways to role-play and experiment with some of the most popular parts … while my cuckold husband and I have tried many different options … for us … the best is when he is present and watches my studs and I have mind-blowing sex … don’t feel like you have to do a certain thing and avoid something else … have fun and experiment … but what I can tell you for 100% certain … it is good to be the Hotwife !!!

[hwcouple4stud]

Excellent read!!!!!

[tammyj34c]

Thank you so much, Feel free to respond to this ask whenever it is convenient for you. Sweet dreams!!

Hi, believe I am writing this to Shannon.

Been asked to give you an insight as to what it is like with big black cocks.  Honest truth the first time it was scary, seeing that thick black cock hard and rampant within inches of you, then to have your legs spread apart.  Then you start to feel it, your pussy being stretched and filled, the sensation seeming to go on for ages, till he’s deep inside you.  Feeling his cock throbbing and pulsating inside you.

Then the fucking starts hard and fast, thrusting in and out you spread your legs wider eager to feel every inch of that cock, the sensations of pleasure rippling out from your pussy and clit.  He fucks you to your first orgasm and keeps going.  You wrap your legs around him and hold on.  He keeps pounding you and fucking you.

My first time I had 3 orgasms and ended up squirting, when he unleashed his load it filled and flowed out of my pussy.  Since that day I have been with a few bbc and each time I have multiple orgasms.  Not only do they seem bigger and thicker but they fuck better.

Hope this gives you a bit of an insight as to what it is like.  If you have any questions please ask and I will try to answer.  I hope that you will consider trying it out though, I’m sure you wont be disappointed.

[hwcouple4stud]

Good description

[thegoodvybe]

[hwcouple4stud]

Yes

[lexiluvssex]

Another Message to Mary

July 8, 2018

I usually never know what the trigger is for a woman who finally decides to write to me who wants to know the truth about this Hotwife Lifestyle and what it’s really all about, because I never ask.  In her current life moment she is seeking believable answers that make sense to her. She has no interest in helping me collect data points.

I don’t mind because I have my Coconut Telegraph of experienced real life Soccer Mom Hotwives to help me with that.  They keep me centered and focused on my goal of helping people figure out if this Alternative Marriage Lifestyle is right for them.

When I get a Message from Mary, this is is the pattern it typically follows.  “Dr. Lexi, I’m freaking out!  My husband says he wants me to have sex with other men!”  From there her message is likely to go into three or four sub-categories or pigeonholes where she is either:

A.   Convinced he is trying to get rid of her.

B.   Thinks he wants her to date, so he can date.

C.   Thinks he is a sick, twisted, perverted man.

D.   All of the above.

Although I can’t look into the hearts and minds of men that have this very normal desire to share their wives with other men, the real answer is that 98 point something percent of the time the answer is:

E.   None of the above!

I have been doing this for a long time and have received email from 55 countries of the world so far, and the one thing these men have in common is the fantasy of sharing his wife with other men.  Not only that, but their fantasy is almost always that they only want her end of the marriage to be open because he has become focused on her sexuality instead of his own.  This particular data point is important.  I’m going to come back to it in a minute.

OK so, I have already experienced this phenomenon first hand when my own husband announced publically one night at a party that the thought of me having sex with other men seriously turned him on.  I had the same reaction as most of you Mary’s out there.  I didn’t understand it at first but at least he made his proclamation in public so it wasn’t like he could un-say it later.

Sadly, most of the time, men announce their intention to share their wife with other men during pillow talk because they are too chicken shit to have the conversation in the kitchen with the lights on, because they have little tiny BB balls. The cause of their tiny balls is because there is no Intimacy in his marriage. Oh!  By the way, the opposite side of having BB ball is when a husband has balls the size of Rhode Island, and just blurts out what he wants his wife to do over dinner with no rational explanation.

So there are two main questions here, Mary.  The first question is why do so many men have this desire to share their wives with other men?  To be totally honest with you I have no idea.  The very first time I ever heard of this was in 2014 from my own husband who stated rather publically one night that he would like to share me.

I’m not going to tell that story over again here, except to say that many women “like me” can be talked into doing this simply because I was already making my own plan to share myself with other men anyway, at that time.  You can find our story on my website archives, if you care.

So how do I know that this desire that men have is pretty much universal?  The answer goes back to the comment I made about collecting data points. Although Dr. Lexi is not a real doctor, I don’t need to be, in order to figure this out.  Over the last several years I have received enough data from men all over the world to know it’s a universal desire unless he is a jealous man.

The second main question is how serious is he?  Here is where I can give you some valuable insight and advice on how to find out, regardless of how small, or how large, his balls really are.  I’ll start with the insight.

I get a lot of email from men who have the very normal fantasy of wanting to share his wife, but how he wants to share her, varies widely.

Not all men with this fantasy of sharing his wife with other men include having her exchange bodily fluids with them, if you know what I mean.  There is no such thing in the real world as a “one size, fits all” Hotwife Alternative Marriage Lifestyle. It can be whatever you want it to be.

Why is that an important nugget of information to understand, Mary?  Because it’s important to understand who is in control here. Without your participation in this endeavor, your husband doesn’t have a Hotwife.

Think of it as the Golden Rule of sex.  You are the one sitting on the gold mine, so you get to make the rules.  I would encourage you to be a benevolent ruler however. Many Hotwives draw the line at trading spit.  To be honest with you I get just as much out of a situation when a guy can make me overheated just from kissing me, as I get from sexual orgasm.  Well, almost!  I refer to that type of kissing as mouth fucking and I really like that a lot because it can be conducted in a bar parking lot at closing time if you are into that kind of thing!

Some women are willing to go a little further but draw the line at mutual foreplay.  That one could be a little dangerous though, as I discovered personally when I was 15 years old in the backseat of an old Cadillac at the Blue Moon Drive In theater In Lakeland, FL one night when I went from zero, to all the way, in about 5 minutes.

The point is, it doesn’t have to be something you don’t want it to be, although I’m pretty sure I am saying this to a very small amount of Mary’s.  Most Mary’s want to understand what this is really all about and then want the full experience of “no limits” dating.

Most Mary’s want to understand how this is going to make her marriage better and stronger, instead of driving it off the cliff.  Most Mary’s want to understand how and why this Alternative Marriage Lifestyle is going to work day to day in the real world of being a Hotwife with two kids, a dog, a mortgage, and a husband who wants her to be sexually active outside her marriage after their kids go to bed.

Most Mary’s want to understand why her husband wants her to fulfill his fantasy of sharing her with other men.  Most Mary’s want to understand why, after ignoring her for the last hundred years or so, her husband is suddenly turned on by the thought of her wrapping her legs around the back of some sexy guy that is completing her!

Most Mary’s want to know that her husband is not  A. B. C. or D.  Most Mary’s want to know that her husband is E.  So that covers the insight part.  Now comes the advice part.

Mary, it doesn’t matter whether your guy has BB balls or Rhode Island sized balls.  You treat them pretty much the same way.  Don’t freak out and don’t immediately think the worst. If you have already done that, I will tell you how to fix it next time, but right now I want to talk to the Mary’s that know what he wants and are trying to understand it.

Can I be 100% sure that your husband is telling you the truth?  No, I can’t, but my data points have convinced me that he probably is. So what should you do?

The guy with BB balls is a pillow talk hinter.  He thinks that if he keeps hinting long enough, eventually you will take the hint and volunteer.  This is freaking you out because you are a lot smarter than he is and you know it’s what he really wants.  This is where my advice from the past has changed a little.

When your husband tells you during pillow talk that the thought of you having sex with other men turns him on, the following morning over breakfast you should remind him of that conversation and ask him what he thinks that would mean for your marriage and exactly how he thinks that style of relationship would work and ask him if he has a plan.  That conversation forces him to deal with the consequences of turning his fantasy into your reality and puts you in control.

For the Mary whose husband has Rhode Island sized balls and says he wants to hold your hand in one hand while he holds his phone in his other hand and videos you being impaled by a giant penis in a motel room, ask the same questions as above, along with some rules of your own, such as “I’m NOT willing to do that, but I AM willing to do this, and you are NOT going to be either a spectator or a participant when I do it!”

Mary, I promise you that will be a much bigger wake up call to him than his brass balls were to you, and will get you to same place control wise.

Oh, by the way, I mentioned earlier that The Hotwife Alternative Marriage Lifestyle is one way, open ended.  The marriage is open on the wife’s end only.  So why is that?  It’s to differentiate this Alternative Marriage Lifestyle from other Alternative Marriage Lifestyles such as a completely open marriage, wife swapping, swinging, polyamory, etc.

Men who write to me, tell me what they want, because if they want my help, I need to know.  Most men who write to me have, for some reason, suddenly had a wakeup call and have become totally focused on your sexuality, Mary.

Can I explain it?  No, I can’t, but I have collected enough data points from all over the world to believe it’s true.  My husband was one of those data point men who saw me drunk kissing a guy who meant absolutely nothing to me, one afternoon at a beach party, and that was his trigger to tell me what he wanted.  He can’t explain it to me either, even though we have all the Intimacy in the world now.

Dr. Lexi is not a real doctor!

[hwcouple4stud]

A good article

[twofunscorpios]

[tnapolyspice-deactivated2019033]

(T) Pretty sure I keep most of these😈

[hwcouple4stud]

No Gum, hair up, lost yourself in dick and balls ecstasy.

[couplegames]

#hotwife #stag #vixen

[jayandlucy]

Oh yes and the best bit is you look sweet and innocent and have a very naughty side……….

[hwcouple4stud]

Sooooooooo true............

[mrsdfwhotwife]

Excellent Blogging?

Hello all. While we already follow an amazing collection of terrific Tumblrs related to the hotwife/cuck lifestyle, we are always looking to find new, authentic couples, sharing their experiences. 

As such, we’d love to hear from our followers about which blogs, either n Tumblr or hosted elsewhere that you enjoy. While sexy pics are nice, we are particularly looking for blogs that highlight the relationship side of cuckoldry. Stories, personal accounts, dealing with successes and failures, advice, etc. These are things that really interest us. 

So, let us ask you, our amazing followers: what have you been reading lately that truly excites you and offers a fresh take on this exciting life?

[j-and-t-midwest-hotwife]

@mrsdfwhotwife asked us who inspires us here on Tumblr.  We posted a similar list a few months ago, but it’s grown substantially.  The list below isn’t all-inclusive, or in any priority order, but it’s a decent list for us to find inspiration, whether in stories, experiences or photos.  Not all are hotwife blogs, but they certainly inspire us to share, and bring uniqueness to the Tumblr world. Additionally, they post their own, original content, or at least a good amount of it. I’m sure we’ve missed a few, so apologies to those we’d normally include if we left you out.

@marriedandfucking

@malgorh-blog

@funforus20fifteen

@kinkyinour40s

@hotnsexycouple

@awesomethecuriousone

@nikikittenniki

@breezy2010sworld

@real-couple-having-fun

@lillybgoddess

@ournewfoundfunlife

@smexymacmilf4

@goingdown64

@hawtwifeforme

@highheelsandhotwives

@mrsgoodlife

@annawolfhall

@sexandlustforus

@eastcoast-sexorcistcpl

@candyhotwife

@hot-wife-atl

@therealus88

@teaseswinger

@shortsweet-n-sassy

@sassysexymilf

@pinkandblackcat311

@pinayprincessbeauty

@mrmrssecretblog

@sextastic90

@rexandthemrs

@jackandallison2

@fun-4-us

@piper-the-milf

@beautifulgirlfriend000

@mandy-milf-moves

@dallas-hotwife

@wearerealcouples

@hotpetitemilf

@greekmilf

@mrandmrsm2you

@lisa-i-am

@hornycalicpl

@scandalous-hw

[hwcouple4stud]

Good list

[pinkfy]

[hwcouple4stud]

Shit is going down😉

[ineedahotwifenow]

Hotwife/Vixen Interest Survey for Women

On a scale of 1 to 10,

with 10 being you are very interested, 5 being neutral and 1 being not at all interested,

please answer these following questions:

Becoming a hotwife?

Caging your husband’s cock?

Having sex with other men while your husband only watches?

Having sex with other men without your husband there?

Having sex with other men and your hushed at the same time?

Having anal sex?

Role playing with your husband?

Having a secrete lover that your husband doesn’t know about?

Having one time sex with men without your husband knowing?

Playing with sex toys?

Playing with bondage?

Going to nude beaches?

Watching your husband have sex with another woman?

Having sex with another woman in front of your husband?

Having sex alone with another woman?

Having your husband film you having sex?

Letting your husband pick men to share you with?

Having a monogamous relationship with your husband?

Going on vacation alone to have sex with other men?

Going on vacation with your husband and having sex with other men?

Going to a female strip club with your husband?

Going to a female strip club without your husband?

Going to a male strip club with your husband

Going to a male strip club without your husband?

Stripping at a bachelor or private party for a group of men?

Serving men during a football game or poker night wearing seductive clothing?

Sending men you meet online sexy photos and videos?

Sharing your messages/conversations with your husband that you have with other men?

Keeping secret you conversations with other men?

Edging your husband husband close to orgasm and then denying him repeatedly?

Ruining your husbands orgasms?

Limiting your husbands orgasms?

Making your husband clean his cum out/off of you?

Making your husband clean another man’s cum out/off of you?

Surprising your husband with a used pussy when you get home?

Making your husband suck another man’s cock in front of you?

Making your husband clean off the cum from another man that just fucked you?

Kissing your husband after another man came in your mouth?

Having your husband lick your clit while another man fucks your pussy?

Having you husband lick your clit while another man fucks your ass?

Having your husband lick your asshole while another man fucks your pussy?

Making your husband were a cock extension when he has sex with you?

Making your husband wear a cock cage in front of other men you are fucking?

Make your husband where a cock cage when he works?

Make you husband wear a cock cage while you watch porn and masturbate?

Make you husband were a gag dildo and you fuck his face?

Trying to stretch your pussy to take a fist?

Trying to stretch your asshole to take a fist?

Wearing an anal plug at home?

Wearing an anal plug out in public?

Having sex in your marital bed with another man?

Having sex only with men that do not know where you live?

Having sex with men you and your husband know personally?

Having sex with your husband’s friends?

Having sex with a coworker?

Having sex with your boss?

Answering the door nude?

Walking around the house daily nude?

Swinging or swapping partners with another couple?

Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) with your husband there?

Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) without your husband there?

Masturbating alone with toys?

Masturbating alone without toys?

Masturbating in front of your husband?

Masturbating in front of a bull?

Mutual masturbating with your husband or bull?

Sucking cock?

Sucking big cock, 8+ inches

Sucking small cock, less than 5 inches?

Having sex with big cocks?

Having sex with small cocks?

Getting a tattoo?

Getting piercings?

Getting your nipple pierced?

Getting your clit pierced?

Getting your bellybutton pierced?

Getting matching tattoos?

Wearing a hotwife anklet?

Wearing the key to your husband’s cock cage lock?

Squirting?

Letting your husband give you an enema?

Using a sex toy on your husband?

Fucking your husband with a dildo?

Fucking your husband with a strap-on dildo?

Being blindfolded during sex with your husband?

Blindfolding your husband during sex?

Tying your husband to the bed for sex?

Allowing your husband to listen on the phone to you having sex with another man?

Taking photos of you having sex with another man and sending them to your hubsand?

Video taping you having sex with another man and then showing your husband when you return?

Having your husband reclaim you after you have sex with other men?

Going to a sex club and allowing other strangers to watch you have sex with your husband?

Going to a sex club to meet other men to have sex with in front of strangers?

Going to a sex club to only watch others having sex?

Going to a sex club without your husband?

Going to a nude resort on vacation without your husband?

Going on vacation without your husband?

Allowing your husband to go to a sex club without you?

Allowing your husband to go on vacation without you?

100.Flashing your husband in public?

101.Having sex in public places?

102.Going out in a skirt without panties?

103.Having sex in a car or limo?

104.Having sex in the back of a car with a man while your husband drives?

105.Having your husband drive you to meet your date and then having him pick you up?

106.Having your husband thank your bull for fucking you good?

107.Having your husband ask your bulls to cum in you?

108.Always having to ask for permission from your husband before having sex with anyone else?

109.Having the freedom to have sex with anyone you want any time you want without your husband’s permission?

110.Accidentally getting pregnant by another man?

111.Getting pregnant by another man with you husband permission?

112.Having sex with string muscular men?

113.Having sex with men over 50?

114.Having sex with men under 30?

115.Having sex with black men?

116.Having sex for money?

117.Having sex while your husband is hiding in the closet?

118.Having sex while your while your husband is in the guest room?

119.Having your husband bring your drinks while you have sex with another man?

120.Have your husband shave you?

121.Have your husband watch you get ready for a date with another man?

122.Have your husband help you prepare for a date with another man?

123. Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same room?

124.Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same an adjoining room where he can only hear the moans?

125.Clean the house naked?

126.Cook naked?

127.Be waiting naked at the door when your husband got home from work?

128.Be waiting naked at the door when your date comes to visit?

129.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex in the bar bathroom?

130.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex with him in the parking lot?

131.Let another man finger you in a public place?

132.Dance with hot men at clubs?

133.Flirt with hot men at bars?

134.Go on vacations with other men without your husband?

135.Have one man fuck you in the ass while another man fucks your pussy?

136.Have one man fuck your ass while another fucks your pussy and another fucks your mouth?

137.Continue living a hotwife lifestyle if you become pregnant?

138.Stop living the hotwife lifestyle if you became pregnant?

139.Only have sex with your husband?

140. Allowing your husband to lick your pussy anytime he wants?

141.Allowing your husband to fuck your pussy anytime he wants?

142.Allowing your husband to fuck your ass anytime he wants?

143.Giving your husband a blow job anytime her wants?

144.Making your husband lick your pussy anytime you want?

145. Making your husband fuck you whenever you demand?

146.Get massages from your husband?

147.Get massages from other men?

148.Get massages from women?

149.Let other women give your husband full body massages?

150.Suck a cock after it’s been in your pussy?

151.Suck a cock after it was in your ass?

152.Be treated like a Princess in public but a whore in the bed?

153.Rough sex?

154.Talking dirty during sex?

155.Telling your husband about other men you have fucked during sex?

156.Using a cock cage on your husband to get things that you want sexually?

157.Using a cock cage to get your husband to reach goals..like weight loss…

158.Vacations were only you and your husband have sex together?

159.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per week?

160.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two weeks?

161.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per month?

162.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two or three months?

163.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once or twice per year?

164.Having your husband surprise you by planning sexual adventures/nights which include other men?

165.Having sex in a pool?

166.Having sex in a hot tub?

167.Having sex in a shower?

168.Having sex on a boat?

169.Having sex in a plane?

170.Keeping secrets from your husband?

171.Using floggers/whips/paddles?

172.Having your husband use flogger or spank you when you are bad?

173.Using a flogger or spanking your husband if he is bad

174.Wearing a ball gage while you have sex?

175.Making your husband wear a ball gag?

176.Making your husband cum inside is cage?

177.Play with hot wax?

178.Explore robe bondage?

179.Share your sex life relationship on a Tumblr blog, but hid your identities?

180.Shop at a adult book store with your husband?

181.Shop at an adult book store alone?

182.Shop at an adult book store with a man other than your husband?

183.Go to a bar with your husband but pretend you don’t know him and flirt with others while he watches?

184.Drive around in a car naked?

185.Be driven in a car naked?

186.Grow old with your husband?

187.Divorce you husband when he gets too old?

188.Have an open relationship where husband and wife can have sex with others?

189.Never allowing your husband to have sex with any other woman?

190.Allowing your husband to have sex with another woman only with your permission and by your rules?

191.Setting up rules for being a hotwife?

192.Setting up punishments for breaking the rules?

193.Sharing all of your personal communication outlets and passwords with your husband including phone messages and all social media messaging?

194.Having all of your husband’s communication and social media passwords?

195.Allowing your husband to make all the rules?

196.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role all of the time?

197.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role most of the time?

198.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role all of the time?

199.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role most of the time?

200.Alternating about 50/50 between playing the submissive role and dominant roles with our husband?

201.Have your bulls be dominant?

202.Have your bulls be submissive?

203.Becoming friends with your bulls?

204.Have the same bulls long term rather than many strangers?

205.Have the bull always wear condoms?

206.Have the bulls not wear condoms?

207.Allowing the husband to stop a date or sex at anytime for any reason without getting mad?

208.Allowing your husband to decide he wants you to stop being a hotwife and live a monogamous traditional lifestyle?

209.Having kids with your husband?

210.Being wealthy?

211.Always telling the truth?

212.Always getting the truth from your husband?

213.Trying new sex positions?

214.Trying new sex techniques?

215.Watching porn with your husband?

216.Watching porn alone?

217.Privacy while talking to other en on the phone?

218.Privacy while on the computer chatting with other men?

219.Fulfilling your husbands fantasies?

220.Fulfilling your fantasies?

221.Sharing your fantasies with your husband?

222.Hearing your husband’s fantasies?

223.Having a fit muscular husband?

224.Using nipple clamps during sex?

225.Having your husband use a pussy pump on you?

226.Using a penis pump on your husband?

227.Using a sex swing with your husband?

228.Using a sex swing with other men?

229.Role playing with your husband (doctor/patient, student/teacher, master/slave)

230.Playing sex games with your husband?

231.Playing sex games with others?

232.Hiding your sexual activities from friends and family?

233.Having similar interests are your husband?

234.You husband having similar interests as you?

235.Sacrificing to give you husband pleasure?

236.You husband sacrificing to give you pleasure?

237.Sleeping naked in bed with your husband nightly?

238.Having your husband wake you up in the middle of the night for sex?

239.Waking your husband up in the middle of the night for sex?

240.Knowing where your husband is all the time?

241.Spending nights in bed alone without your husband?

242.Always sleeping with your husband?

243.Always sleeping with someone?

244.Never sleeping alone?

245.Showing public displays of affection?

246.Having sex while having your period?

247.Playfully humiliating your husband when having sex alone with him?

248.Playfully humiliating your husband with having sex with another man in front of you husband?

On a scale of 1 to 10,

with 10 being you are most important and 1 being not important at all,

please answer these following questions:

How important is:

Trust in your marriage?

Sex in your marriage?

Honesty in your marriage?

Wealth in your marriage?

Health in your marriage?

Kids in your marriage?

Having time to spend with your friends?

Having time alone?

Having time to spend with family?

Sharing home chores?

Shopping together?

Working together?

Both having jobs?

Being a housewife?

How many kids do you want to have?

How would you feel if you had no kids with your husband?

Can you accept being a stepmother and treat your husbands kids as your own?

How would you feel about becoming pregnant by a man other than your husband?

At what age do you want to retire?

Where would you like to live when you retire?

What is an ideal sized home for you and your husband?

A. very small, 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room

B. small - 2 bedroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room

C. medium - 2-3 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room

D. large -3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, garage, big yard

E. very big - 3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, large yard, garage, pool

Explain why that is your ideal home size:

Would you rather go to the movies or watch a movie at home?

Who do you prefer does the:

(husband, wife, both equally, husband most of the time, wife most of the time)

Laundry

Cooking

Cleaning

Making the bed Yard work

Gardening

Driving

Shopping

Dishes

Banking/accounting

Work - earring money

Initiating sex

Ironing

Decorating

Planning vacations

Deciding where to spend money

How many times a month would be an ideal number of time to have sex?

Do you think men or women desire sex more?

What are your true feelings about the hotwife or vixen lifestyle?

Do you feel you that a hotwife or vixen lifestyle is right for you? Explain

How important is your partners appearance?

How important is your husband’s physical appearance?

Are you interested in becoming a hotwife/vixen?

Why or why not:

What rules would you like to have if living a non traditional marriage?

Is your husband’s cock enough to keep you totally satisfied?

What more could your husband do to keep you sexually satisfied?

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