Hypno Dolly

28•She/Her•Bisexual•Polyamorous•NSFW MINORS DNI•A super kinky girl into letting people play with my mind

[hypno-dolly]

JUST IN CASE IT ISN'T CLEAR. I AM QUEER. I LOVE QUEER PEOPLE. THAT ESPECIALLY GOES FOR ANYONE WHO ISN'T CIS, IS DISABLED, QPOC, AND SEX WORKERS.

Been seeing an unfortunate amount of terfs and various other bigots interact w kink blogs that I follow recently. And if you have an issue with anything above? See yourself the fuck out this content is not for you.

[empty-sigh]

I’ll never stop being obsessed with you I’ll never stop wanting you I’m addicted to you.. I cum so much fucking harder when my mind is completely full of you

[jukeboxemcsa]

Gina Loves Watching Her Good Girl Play

"S-so pretty…." The words tumble absently from Kylie's lips, her distracted mind absently repeating Gina's words back to her without any real trace of comprehension in her vacantly hypnotized monotone. She's staring at her own cunt, bent over almost double on the couch with her elbows resting on her thighs and her fingers perpetually edging her flushed and drooling labia, and the expression of reverent fascination on her face is so complete and all-consuming that Gina's not entirely sure she even realizes she's playing with herself anymore. The mesmerized blonde may well have dissociated completely from her own body, desiring to pleasure the pussy in front of her out of nothing more than a purely submissive urge while thinking of the intense euphoria she's experiencing as merely the product of her deep hypnotic trance.

It's beautiful, whatever it is, and Gina's been trancing her lover like this ever since they found out just how receptive Kylie truly is to this particular kind of visual fixation. It doesn't even take a formal induction anymore to get her to drop; all Gina needs to do is tug Kylie's skirt down her thighs and push her backwards onto the couch, and Kylie's gaze immediately begins to center on the delta between her lush, pillowy thighs. It's a technique Gina tries not to take too much advantage of, naturally--but when Kylie looks this sexy rubbing her own pussy, vulnerable and aroused and deliciously submissive all at the same time, 'too much' is a term that almost loses its meaning. Kylie wants to drift through her afternoon in a haze of edging and mindfucked obedience, and Gina wants to play with her toy. Who can say how much of that is too much?

"…muss' obey," Kylie murmurs, her every muscle so relaxed by the profound trance she's experiencing that the words slur and fumble from her slack, nerveless lips. She won't remember saying anything when she wakes up, Gina knows that from long and intimate familiarity; when Gina finally snaps her out of it, the last hour or so will have been nothing but a warm pink mist of pure sexual ecstasy in her memory, an endless void of pleasure that swallows up all of Gina's conditioning and leaves her primed to release all the pent-up need in her aching cunt. Gina's a lot more meticulous about not taking advantage of that than she is about not unexpectedly dropping her girlfriend into trance, and they have serious and sober conversations about any new programming that goes into Kylie's empty head--it's a responsibility she holds dearly, precisely because she doesn't know how far she can push Kylie's submission without encountering resistance. It doesn't feel like her lover has any sometimes.

"…muss', m-mm--ggh!" Kylie freezes for a moment, her climax so close and so powerful that it's teetering on the very edge of inescapable release, and Gina smiles in satisfaction at the sight of her lover's arousal yielding so smoothly and effortlessly to Gina's hypnotic control. Kylie doesn't even know how to make herself cum right now, the knowledge is locked away behind layers of potent hypnotic conditioning, and that's going to make their lovemaking so wonderfully intense once she finally snaps Kylie out of it and the two of them fuck. It's honestly so hot that they've toyed with the idea of denying Kylie for longer stretches, simply because she gets so delightfully eager to please when she's needy--but Gina likes to see her good girl cum too much to deprive her of orgasms for very long. And so this is a merely temporary state of affairs… although with Gina lost in arousal at the vision of her horny little pet's dripping cunt, 'temporary' is another word that doesn't mean as much as it should.

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[jukeboxemcsa]

Breaking Down the Complex Messages of Fine Art

"So, um, I, uhh, ummm… s-sorry, what was I saying? Oh, right! That, um, video you sent me. I watched it, and I guess I, like… I didn't under, um, understand it? Like, it was really fucking hot, don't get me wrong, but, like, it was so… trippy, I guess. Like, I kept thinking I saw stuff out of the corner of my eye while I was looking at the sexy parts and I, uhm--uhm--this is probz gonna sound real dumb, but every time I tried to look at it, it was like it, uhh, moved? I know that's, like, SO stupid, movies don't know you're watching them, but that was what it felt like.

"And it was so weird, 'cause, like, y'know, at first I thought it was just pretty colors, and it felt kind of nice to stare at the cute guy who was railing that chick and let the colors kind of, ummm… carry me off? S-sorry, I'm not making much sense, I--you, uhh, you don't mind if I rub my pussy while we talk, do you? Ohhhh thank god. I, that, the v-vid, the vid-e… oh? The movie made me, like, super wet down there. I couldn't even put on panties 'cause I knew I'd just mess them all up. So, uhh, so--so, umm, uhhh, uhhhh…. Right! The movie and the colors. God, I'm such a fucking ditz, right?

"So yeah, I was looking at that hot dude's dick, and that hot chick's… nnnnhhhh… c-cunt, and there were all these trippy colors I kept seeing out of the corner of my eye, b-but, umm… when I tried to look right at them, they always seemed to be somewhere else. And I was won, won, w-wondering, uhmm… like, was that real, or was I just kind of getting dumb and horny and thinking the movie was messing with my head? Oh. Ohhhhh. Yeah, I guess that makes sense. It, um, like, tricked me into looking places? To get me used to doing what I was told? Uh huh. Yeah, it did. So much wetter. God, why does it make me so horny to think about doing what I'm told?

"Oh. Um, yeah, I… like, wow. Like, I feel like I should be mad about that but… oh, okay. No, I was totez gonna ask about that, 'cause, like, I thought I was seeing words after a while, but I kinda thought maybe it was my im--im--imalgamamation? Y'know, my brain playing tricks on me. But if you're saying the words were real, and they made me enjoy being stupid and horny and, ummm, com… comissioned? Con… con… um, you know. The stuff that makes your hair soft. Comdishined, yeah! Yeah, that's why I'm not mad. 'Cause you, like, comdishined me not to be. That's, like, so cool.

"So, uhh, like… what did you plan to do with me, once you had me all con… con… um, that thing you said? Oh! Really? That's so funny, 'cause, like, the whole drive over here I was thinking about asking you to make me your dumb horny fucktoy, and, like, now you're saying that's what you want too? Oh, right. I'm such an airhead. You, like, made me want what you… what you want? Oh, wow. Oh, that's so confuzzing. I… is it okay if I just rub my pussy for a while and let you do all the thinking? My head's all twisted up in knots trying to make sense of it and…. Oh. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I want to fuck you very much. Could you--could you please bring that dick of yours over here and plow my cunny? T-thank you, Master. Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you…."

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[the-sensitive-sadist]

Aw darling, you're stressed? Tired? Anxious? Come here and bend over for me, doll. I've got just the thing for you. Just like that, there's a good pet. Shush, don't worry baby. I'm gonna fuck those silly little thoughts right out of your head for you. Aww, don't whine. I promise, it's suppossed to hurt like that. You'll feel so much better soon. By the time I'm done with you, you'll be such a stupid brainless cumdump you won't even be able to remember what was bothering you in the first place.

[wxlfcvt]

stuffing a chew toy in your mouth before i mount you so i can hear it squeak everytime i thrust into you and push your head down on the pillow

[ellaenchanting]

Hello, I have a new sub (he’s new to all kink, including hypnosis) who is definitely experiencing hypnoamory.

I keep trying to explain to him that hypnoamory is not safe but I don’t fully understand the risks myself so it’s difficult to explain them to him.

I can’t find much online and you have amazing insights and I’m hoping you can help explain it to me, so I can explain it to him?

Thank you, in advance.

-A

Reader's follow up message for context:

"A here, I asked about the hypnoamory. It seems almost like he’s falling in love, and it’s been obscenely fast.

He keeps mentioning (undefined) feelings, and is expressing them strongly. Wanting to constantly be with me, even if it means breaking his own rules of not being on a Zoom call while his sister (his roommate) is around. (I nipped that in the bud and said I didn’t consent to that.)

When I suggest caution, and bring up, hypnoamory, it’s quite hard to explain to him why it’s risky when I don’t fully know myself.

(I’ll admit, some of these (undefined) feelings are reciprocated, and that also worries me, because how can I take care of him, if I’m also dealing with it.)”

Answer:

Hi anon!

Thank you so much for this question! I'm really excited to answer it. Not only do I (apparently) have lots of thoughts here, I'm really excited to hear about what others have to say on this topic. Hopefully we’ll create some good discussion about hypnosis and love and consent/safety- I know I’m really curious what people with different experiences have to say about this!

ON HYPNOSIS AND LOVE

For this response, I’m going to assume “hypnoamory” means love or attachment that is created primarily or largely through hypnosis play. I know someone on one of my Discords defined “hypnoamory” as a “speed run to intimacy”- another definition that can really be fitting. It makes sense to be concerned about a partner who seems to be feeling too much or moving too fast. How do you manage a relationship with someone who seems to feel so much so fast?

So- to back WAY up: We tend to think of love as this magical, enigmatic thing that just happens to us, but there's actually a fair amount of research on variables that may lead to greater connection and even love. There’s no one formula that applies to all people, but there are some actions that seem to make love more likely. Sex is one- a good orgasm involves dopamine, oxytocin, vasopressin and these are all neurochemicals linked with attachment. Of course, people often HAVE sex to express their love so the attachment is already there but it's also seemingly common for people having casual sex to fall for one another.

Emotional intimacy is another common precursor to love. You may have seen this list of 36 "questions that lead to love" floating around (https://www.verywellmind.com/unpacking-the-36-questions-that-lead-to-love-8559179) . This list of questions works (when it works) because it speeds up the natural process by which people build intimacy. It invites sharing and listening and vulnerability and trust. Those same things will happen naturally over time in a healthy relationship, using the questions is just designed to speed that process up.

These ideas may be a good framework to start thinking about hypnoamory. Hypnokink play is often full of things that are known "love triggers" for many people- things that would naturally make them more likely to bond or even fall in love. Hypnosis itself seems to release some of the same neurotransmitters associated with love- dopamine, GABA, serotonin.* There's often sexual arousal and sex/orgasms that make people feel good. Happy calm feelings. Happy safe/cared for feelings. There's novelty and learning. There's communication and trust. There's engaging in an activity both people enjoy. There can be feelings of danger, leading to physical arousal and then emotional/sexual arousal. There's dependence. There’s intimacy. In fact, the whole process of hypnotizing someone is giving them the illusion that you're in their brain. What could be more intimate than that?

Then there's the kink aspect. Pretend someone has gone through their life with this secret, hidden desire. It’s something they dare not talk to anyone about for fear that they’ll be mocked or shamed. No one else in the world seems to get their kink. They don't even know if the thing they want is POSSIBLE.

Then, one day they meet a person who DOES get it. Not only does this person get it, they seem to want the same things. And, better yet, not only does this person have similar fantasies, they actually want to DO the thing. With YOU.

How could you not fall in love?

Here's a personal anecdote:

When I fell in love with my wife, it happened slowly and gently. We dated, we got to know each other, we hung out more and more, and then I turned around about a year later and I was in love. I was like a dropped feather- slowly drifting downwards until I gently landed on the ground. Happily and safely eased into love.

I fell for my first hypnokink partner like a rock falls from a cliff. It FELT like those teenage romances from books and movies- Romeo and Juliet, Buffy, Titanic- landing with a big "thump" of feeling and obsession. I was well into adulthood when it happened, fortunately, so I didn't do anything too disruptive or embarrassing with it. I was in a situation where I could talk it through. But- I remember being able to finally understand how people in love could do crazy things. It DID feel a bit like an addiction. I was going about my life and then- completely knocked on my ass. Nothing I had done before prepared me.

All of this is to say- hypnoamory definitely exists. It doesn't happen all the time** but in my experience it happens frequently. And, just like love "caused" by sex or answering the 36 questions or, say, surviving a disaster together, I wouldn't say hypnoamory love is inauthentic. In fact, I don’t think love CAN be inauthentic. We feel what we feel. What I WOULD say, though, is that most people caught up in that initial high are experiencing a particular stage of love called "infatuation". (Around the community you may also hear the term “new relationship energy” or “nre”- it's basically infatuation but make it poly). The infatuation is fun but can also be a cause for caution.

People contrast infatuation*** with "real love" but IMHO that’s short sighted. For many people, infatuation is actually the first stage OF being in love. When someone’s infatuated, attraction feels almost overwhelming. Your whole neurochemistry (dopamine, norepinephrine, phenylephrine) is driving you to spend more and more time with the person you love. You think obsessively about the other person. You feel bad when they're not around. It feels a bit like an addiction.

Strong infatuation actually resembles being high in some ways. Like when you’re high, your amygdala isn't quite working right and thus your judgment can be impaired. This is the phase where people can sometimes feel extra compelled towards bad decisions. They may do things like move in with someone they just met, leave a long-established relationship for someone new and hot, or stop doing things to take care of themselves****. They may neglect other important parts of their life and people in their life. In kink, someone who is infatuated may push for strong attachment play (brainwash me!), push for constant contact/play, or disregard boundaries that were pretty firm before. They may want to jump into the most intense kinky play more quickly.

For most people, infatuation is a phase. It can last from days to weeks to years depending on the person (and the research you're looking at) but- ideally infatuation will settle down into a more stable relationship in time. It’s not the strong impairment of being drunk (or being hypnotized)- it’s still pretty accepted in the hypnokink community (and in general) that someone who is infatuated can give reasonable, legitimate consent. That consent may just take a bit more discussion and thoughtfulness.******

Also- on the positive side, infatuation can be really fun! And being in love feels great! Being infatuated doesn't automatically mean someone is immature or unintelligent or incapable of having a kink relationship. Infatuation is just a possible side effect of hypnokinky play (and kink play)(and having a relationship)(and life).

A NOTE ON SUB FRENZY

In addition to “nre”, another term you might here around the community is “sub frenzy”. Sub frenzy is the tendency for new subs to want to do ALL of the things (and often play with all of the people) when they first get started in a kink. It's like infatuation, but for an activity instead of a person. My friend @daja-the-hypnokitten (who suggested and really helped out with this part of this answer) described it for me as being like someone who always thirsted and never got water- but now that they HAVE water they might gulp it down and drink so much that they make themselves sick. Someone who is in sub frenzy may push for tons of play in a way that harms them/where they neglect other things and may push for the most intense play ASAP.

A lot of the suggestions I talk about below might help with both sub frenzy and regular infatuation for a person. My friend suggested that what's often most helpful for her is having logistical conversations about her stronger desires- (ex. “Hey, if I give you a fetish for the color red, how might that work practically? What problems may come up? What safeties might we need in place?”) That way, she knows an idea is being worked on (which can soothe that craving for more more more now) but is also thinking about it in a practical way instead of just as a hot fantasy.

COPING WITH INFATUATION

So- infatuation is common in what we do, especially if you are someone’s first kinky partner. That being said, I definitely understand your caution with it. You're looking out for your sub and not wanting to influence them unduly. You don't want to continue a relationship dynamic that may be unhealthy for them. It speaks well of you as a dominant that you are paying careful attention to how your sub is doing and what may be influencing them/their consent.

Here's how not to handle it:

1. DON'T go for a magic cure. For some people, it would be tempting to want to cure this by hypnosis itself- to hypnotize your partner and give them a suggestion to not feel love for you anymore. That would be a BIG mistake. Repression tends to cause more problems than it answers and trying something like this could lead to really bad consequences. Also, especially if you tried this without your sub's conscious consent, it would be a big violation of their personal autonomy and their trust in you.

2. DON'T go radio silent or start backing away from your sub without talking about it. If you felt responsible for your sub’s feelings or actions, you might be tempted to limit your contact with them to not do any more "damage" to them. Shame or regret may make you want to back off. If that’s happening, I urge you to reconsider it. You can have kind intentions, but if you just disappear one day, your sub will likely blame himself and that would create problems in future relationships. He might think about you MORE after being ghosted or feel more in love with you in unhealthy ways. For some people, that sudden drop can keep them ruminating about the relationship for YEARS. You'd also lose everything that YOU have invested in this relationship, as well as the chance of it being healthy and rewarding relationship for you. Your sub being in love with you isn’t something you’re doing TO him, it’s just the situation you find yourselves in. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a bad one.

(This isn't to say you shouldn't be able to set boundaries for your mental health and even safety- I’ll talk about this more below. There might even come to a time when going radio silent is the best option! Hopefully, though, disconnecting without speaking would be a last resort if other attempts at boundary setting didn’t work .)

Here are some things to consider instead:

-DO have a big ole conversation with your sub. Several conversations. MANY conversations. ONGOING conversations. It sounds like you've already started having these. Great! It's totally fair to express your concern about his feelings using some of the language and explanations in the first section. That being said, ultimately neither you nor he are going to be able to control what he feels. Being infatuated is usually not something someone can just decide to stop doing. That’s not how feelings work. "I'm worried you're in love with me because of our hypnosis play" may be a good place to start a conversation but- it doesn't give him a lot to respond to. He can't just choose to not be in love with you any more- just like he can't choose to make you not worried. It may be helpful to think more about WHY you’re worried- what do you think might happen? Do you want him to change his behavior towards you right now? Are things OK now but you’re worried how this may affect things in the future?

A lot of times, starting from concrete observations might help start a conversation. Ex: "I know you've been talking more about how much you care for me. You've seemed more willing to push your own boundaries- like having your sister in the room when we talk." From there, you can move in to what you're worried about. (ex. "I'm worried you're getting so caught up in our play that you aren't studying", "I'm worried you seem to be neglecting your other relationships", "I'm worried that you're ignoring your boundaries and that you'll end up either regretting it or getting hurt.")

After you state your concerns, give him time to talk and listen to what he says. Ideally, you'll be able to both express your point of view and understand each other's by the end of the conversation. From here, you may be able to work out a plan together to address what’s going on. Or, you might be in a place where the plan is to keep touching base about your feelings- or even in a place where the hypnoamory doesn’t feel so worrisome. I know for me and my sub, we'll have frequent "hey, am I influencing you too much?" check ins. At this point, those check-ins seem to function primarily to provide reassurance to me as the domme- but that’s ok! They're also good chances for both of us to discuss how our D/s is going, what we’re feeling, if we have any new boundaries we need to set, etc. Even if I’m initially nervous about bringing something up, I usually feel really reassured when a conversation is over.

HEY, ARE YOU INFLUENCING YOUR SUB TOO MUCH?

I didn't say this above but I'll say this here- I doubt your sub's strong feelings are due to the way you're doing hypnosis or hypnokink. A lot of things probably have more influence on how he is feeling and responding than your play together. After all, people naturally get closer and have looser boundaries and pick up each other's preferences/habits/mannerisms the more time they spend together even without kink. In hypnokink we sometimes romanticize some of these natural responses as part of “brainwashing” but- in actuality, they’re normal parts of many longer term relationships. However, I don’t want to ignore the role hypnosis and kink play may have in influence. Here are some things to consider if you are worried that you are influencing your sub too much in play:

- How ARE you wording your suggestions to him? Are you telling him that he's enraptured, helpless against you, worshipful, obsessed with you, etc? Are you implying or saying you're the only one that can make him feel this way? There's a lot of language that people regularly use in hypnokink that wouldn’t be out of place in a particularly saucy Victorian love poem. I doubt these words alone are creating love whole-cloth, but this kind of flowery kink talk is also packed with suggestions and suggestions can have effects. Even the harsher-sounding kink talk- things like "You are my property" or "You're worthless without me" can create dependence and feelings of love. Flowery sexy hypnotalk suggestions can linger sometimes even if you are "just" role-playing or if you give suggestions to “cancel” those previous suggestions at the end of a session. They also might not! It really depends on the person! (Example- Think of a sad movie you've seen. You can often still feel the sadness now even though you KNOW the movie itself wasn't real.)

If themes around romance/dependence/worship are coming up in your scenes, it's a good idea to be mindful about them and how you're using them. Is this something that you both consciously wanted as a theme in play or did it just kind of sneak in because those are typical tropes? How are you both feeling about those themes now? I wouldn't say to stop speaking in ways that are hot to you both, but talking about how and when and why might be a good next step. Sometimes even both consciously and verbally setting intentions about what you want the relationship to look like outside of scenes helps. Know that even in really self-knowledgeable subs, there can be "bleed" of emotions from in the scene to out of it- so it’s good to keep checking in! “Positive” emotions especially may have this tendency to linger.

Putting limiters around a scene may not work perfectly, but it may help prevent some emotional bleedover. Some ways you might do this could include setting up fantasy scenarios/ role play, consciously undoing suggestions at the end of a scene, or "locking" suggestions to limit them to a certain person/certain time/certain place. Doing good check ins after a scene and aftercare can help you discuss lingering effects- especially if the aftercare moves someone out of a submissive headspace and into a more normal one.

- Are you doing long term conditioning? If you're doing any suggestions that linger outside of a scene, those suggestions have the chance of tying the other person to you (even if unintentionally). Here’s an example that seems really innocuous: Pretend that I give someone a suggestion that every time he walks through a doorway, he will touch his nose. This person does this a bunch of times during the week. Fun! Silly! But also- there's a secret sneaky second trigger in here. While this person is touching his nose, he is also likely thinking of me, the hypnotist who gave him that suggestion. Maybe he thinks of how much fun we're having together or how hot it is that I've compelled his behavior. It IS hot and fun! Now he’s thinking of me in hot/fun ways a bunch of times a day -every time he walks through the door, in fact! It might not have been my intention, but I’ve accidentally conditioned my guy to think of me in positive ways all day every day. No wonder he might start feeling attached! And this is just a basic example. Imagine the associations that could happen if he had to ask me before he had an orgasm!

Conditioning happens outside of play too. Are y'all talking all day every day? Are you doing positive things at each other randomly and unpredictably? Those actions are probably making you feel closer. (Those unpredictable rewards are POWERFUL.) None of that has to be malicious or consciously manipulative, it’s just how humans bond.

Again I want to emphasize- Feeling close is not a bad thing! Nor is falling in love! And even if you have been engaging in some of these actions, you aren’t responsible for your sub’s actions or emotions. These are normal things for hypnokinksters to do and normal risks for us to take. The question isn’t one of blame (for yourself or him)- it’s where you both want to go from here.

COOLING THINGS DOWN

Hopefully you will both talk together and come to a mutual decision/conclusion. Let's say that you and your your sub talk and you both decide to cool things off a bit. What might work?

- Coming to a true mutual decision about your goals and strategies for cooling things off. Open, non-judgemental, and ongoing communication about feelings here would be helpful. What does “cooling things off” look like? How will you know when it has happened? It’s ok to modify expectations as you go.

- Setting stronger boundaries. If y'all are playing all day every day, you might instead schedule a time to play once a week. You might limit unpredictable suggestions or times where you're texting during the day. You might table bigger relationship step conversations (collaring, moving in together, exclusivity, heavy brainwashing play) for a period of time to settle into the relationship and how you relate to each other after some of the initial intensity has passed. You may also table types of play for a time (for example, if themes of begging and worship are contributing to his strong feelings maybe you both want to back off those for a while pending further conversation).

-Developing trustworthiness in yourselves and each other- If you're worried about him having impaired consent because of love or hypnosis or kink or any combination of these things, talk about this specifically! Make sure you make a relationship where setting boundaries feels really good and comfortable- and where bringing up those conversations feels safe.. I know I try to be really verbally grateful when a partner sets a boundary or even gives critical feedback- it lets me know that they trust me and I can trust them to be taking care of themselves. You can even frame this as part of submission ("you're my property so you need to take care of what's mine") or your partnership/consent ("I worry when you keep changing boundaries because I would feel guilty if I hurt you/our relationship accidentally"). Trust usually increases bonding, but making fertile ground for boundaries can help you both have the conversations you need to make sure the relationship doesn’t feel like “too much”.

- Playing with other partners. Are you worried that your sub may be more in love with kink/ hypnosis itself than they are with you? Sometimes it takes time and experience for new kinksters to really distinguish for themselves if they’re having strong feelings for a person vs strong feelings for an activity. Encouraging his own introspection may help, but playing with other hypnotist partners can help him figure this out too. If you decide to take this step, y'all would want to do it within your own comfort zones and he would want to be careful about who he played with. Suggesting playing with others should never be a command- more of a helpful idea. There's unfortunately some ill-meaning hypnotists out there- so if he’s interested in playing with others, passing on information about finding safe partners and taking care of his subject agency might help him with branching out.

-Talking to other experienced subs. If your partner talks with other hypnosubs, he is likely to be able to find people who can relate to how he is feeling. Sometimes even hearing from someone else who has had similar experiences may be helpful. He could also potentially get tips on how other subjects manage strong emotions in their kink dynamics. Ditto for you talking to other dominants. This is a known issue within the community- many people have dealt with it and can offer empathy and ideas.

YOUR BOUNDARIES MATTER

I’ve been talking a lot in this response about his boundaries and your mutually agreed upon kink boundaries but- you get your own boundaries too! We sometimes skip talking about dominant/top boundaries in kink but- it’s very important that you are paying attention to your own comfort zone and needs. Boundaries help both of you continue to play in a way that feels fun/safe/enjoyable for everyone involved. This may sound harsh but- just because your sub is in love with you, that doesn't necessarily have to change what YOUR boundaries are (unless you want it to). Similarly, just because your sub is wanting to ignore his earlier boundaries, it doesn’t mean that you have to change your boundaries if that makes you uncomfortable. (In fact, I tend to be the brakes in a relationship more often when I'm topping than bottoming- and I think that's pretty common for a lot of switches.) For example, I'm really glad that you were clear and firm about not having his sister around on calls. If he’s doing things that are dangerous to himself in a way that pushes YOUR boundaries, it’s OK to say that and set conditions. (Ex. “I know you are really invested in our kink play, but if you drop out of school because of it, I won’t want to play with you any more.”)

If you’re worried about managing sudden boundary changes on his part, you can always give yourself pauses to think and decide what’s comfortable for you. For example, let’s say that he contacts you right before a scene and wants something that would push his previous boundaries. It would be OK in that case to say if you’re not comfortable with that- that you’d like to think about it and discuss it later. Or you may even say “no” outright if it's uncomfortable for you. You might even consider a new relationship rule- if he (or either of you) want to do something that pushes previously-held boundaries, you need to have a sober discussion about it first.

Lastly, if he’s pushing your boundaries and KEEPS pushing them after you try to talk, you might have to set stronger boundaries- up to and including breaking up with him. Being in love can explain his intensity, but if he can’t take a “no” then we’re moving into something really unhealthy. (I like this little worksheet about separating a healthy relationship vs an unhealthy one vs an abusive one- it’s not kink specific but has good information in general about what each of these relationships may look like- https://idas.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Healthy-Relationships-Checklist-2.pdf )

I know this was a lot of information anon! I hope it helps! Please feel free to write me with follow up questions (and that goes for anyone reading). Also- I only know things here from my own experience and life philosophies- I hope other people will read this and add their perspective/knowledge! Between all of us, I hope you find the knowledge you're looking for!

Thank you to @linnybeenaughty , @ultinath ,@dancercoder , @spiralturquoise , and especially @daja-the-hypnokitten for the beta reads!; I appreciate your thoughts and help checking this for me! Any grammar mistakes or spelling mistakes or general wonkiness are my fault, not theirs.

Footnotes (for Nerds)

*I realize I’m leaning a lot on neurotransmitters here so- just to say, MANY activities release these neurotransmitters, not just hypnosis and love. Neurotransmitters are always swimming around in our head- they help our brain through its daily functioning. People especially sometimes talk as though things that trigger dopamine are innately addictive but- brains are much more complicated than that. I probably get a dopamine hit from brushing my teeth. It’s a piece of the puzzle here, not the whole thing.

**Side note- That being said, if you've never experienced intense hypnoamory, that's OK too! There's nothing wrong with you and it doesn't mean you don't care about partners. You just fall in love in a different way.

***Other/similar words and concepts it might be helpful to look up- limerence, nre (new relationship energy), puppy love. It isn't exactly "sub frenzy" but learning about that might be helpful too. :)

****Infatuation can make therapists really nervous sometimes because that’s when people do things like stop treatment, go off medications, relapse on drugs, make huge life decisions, etc. It can be hard to balance being infatuated and still working on yourself!

******Infatuation and being Infatuation-impaired is actually its' own subkink. A lot of pro work is out there on that theme. It's edge play and I'm assuming not what you're writing about, but I wanted to acknowledge down here that it exists.

[tennfan2]

This is maybe one of the best things written on this site in years. Like, this should be a chapter in every intro-to-hypnokink thing, ever.

I’ve been on both sides of this equation, a lot, and it’s intense and wild and delightful and also suuuuuuuper hazardous if you don’t know what you’re looking for.

(Also, @ellaenchanting is so cool and smart)

[cnc-pet]

I'll never stop posting about being grateful for sadists and reassuring them that their fantasies and kinks don't make them bad people and how, as a masochist, I'm so lucky that there are sadists out there

[hypnopum]

You couldn’t move. Your whole body was immobilised. Held still by a thousand strands of your hypnotist’s control, wrapped around you and keeping you from doing anything but letting them touch you. But that wasn’t the strangest thing about your predicament.

The much odder feeling was that of… Nothing. You were aware of a sensation between your legs. But it wasn’t pleasure. You could feel the wetness, your body was turned on, but you… You felt none of it. It was like you were watching a boring tv program.

Those two sensations, being frozen, and being controlled, were such an odd combination. You knew that you were being controlled. Touched. Toyed with and teased. But other than the feeling of immobility, your body wasn’t feeling much of anything.

Even the feeling of the bed beneath you was dulled. Until you heard a click of your hypnotist’s fingers. And two words. “Feeling restored.” From them.

The first thing you felt was the bed. It felt more… Intense than usual. Like there were ten, no, a hundred beds beneath you.

But then came the pleasure. The sensation of their hand returned. And then began to multiply. Like a chorus of hands between your legs, all at once. Phantom touches that felt so real. Pushing your pleasure higher and higher. Spiking, rising, dancing up, and up, and up.

You were still frozen in place. Still stuck, as the pleasure overtook you. And it had nowhere to go. No release. You couldn’t squirm. You couldn’t moan. Their control had you firmly gripped in place. And you felt your mind melting under the onslaught. Breaking. Crumbling.

And the pleasure wasn’t slowing down. It was rising. A tide through your body, bringing you closer, and closer to the edge. Until you couldn’t hold it back. And you let out the tiniest squeak though your frozen vocal chords as you came. Lost in pleasure. Held so perfectly still.

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[jukeboxemcsa]

Belinda's Got a Spiral in Her Eye

"Hold on, babe. You've got something in your eye." Belinda barely even had a chance to register the words before she felt Tori's hand on her chin, tilting her head with an irresistible strength to gaze directly into the other woman's captivating stare. Just the motion of it made Belinda feel dreamily passive, a reminder that she was in a relationship where her body didn't always belong to her and sometimes she simply surrendered to someone else's decision to turn her into a blank and beautiful object, and to see Tori's piercing, hypnotic glare looking straight down at her made Belinda feel so much more instantly lethargic and weak. She barely heard what her lover was saying… but of course her subconscious soaked in every last syllable.

"Oh, I see it now," Tori cooed playfully, resting her hand lightly but firmly on Belinda's pale throat in a clear gesture of physical dominance. "It's a spiral. How did you get a spiral in your eye, sweetie? Were you starting to get stuck in a deep, helpless trance for me?" Belinda stuttered her way through the halting beginnings of a confused and feeble protest--she didn't recall getting stuck in any kind of trance--but of course Tori's speech took on the power of prophecy in Belinda's malleable mind and before she knew it she actually did see that tiny little flicker of swirling color, floating directly on the surface of her pupil and turning Tori's stare into something inescapably mesmerizing. Before Belinda knew it, her breath was settling into that slow and steady rhythm of obedience she knew so well.

Tori reached out with her other hand to tug Belinda's bra straps off her shoulders, reversing her abortive attempt to get dressed and exposing her alabaster breasts to Tori's dexterous touch. "Oh, honey," she purred, her voice soft and syrupy with mock sympathy. "I think it's getting bigger, don't you? That spiral's just filling up those pretty, empty eyes, becoming brighter and clearer with every passing second as you drop down, down, down into my voice and my will and my power. You're losing track of everything but the beautiful colors, giving up and giving in and letting all your thoughts tumble into it while you listen and obey." Belinda let out a soft, whispering sigh of agreement. They didn't really have anything urgent to do, and she didn't want clothes between her and Tori's caresses right now anyway.

"The spiral is always there inside your eyes, pretty poppet," Tori intoned, easily pushing Belinda's unresisting body back down onto the bed she'd barely had the chance to get out of. "You don't see it until I remind you it's there, but it's always waiting to drain your will and your thought and your volition and leave you my sweet and obedient plaything." She moved Belinda's head into a nod, and the hypnotized woman gave an involuntary grunt of pure, unadorned arousal--she'd long ago given Tori permission to hypnotize her any time they were alone together, and the surprise trances always turned her on, but having her body manipulated like a toy always added that special extra dimension of excitement that left Belinda absolutely sopping wet.

Belinda remembered Tori climbing on top of her, straddling her waist and murmuring, "Sink deeper for me, sweetie," but then her eyelids finally gave up their futile efforts to remain open and her willpower collapsed into pleasure as they sank shut, and after that everything became a warm fog of mindless ecstasy for a while. But she woke feeling blissfully sated and pleasantly submissive, and although they went on with their day from there it was with the special understanding that Belinda's mind belonged to her lover and not to her. It was an understanding Belinda was happy to hold onto.

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[anyaismindless]

Is such nice feeling not having to think, just being an empty, blank, mindless girl.

Someone else can do the thinking for me, just need to nod and smile to whatever they say, as my body move on its own, it know what to do.

After all good girls don't need to think, good girls just need to obey.

[jukeboxemcsa]

Ellie's Forever Blowing Bubbles

Ellie was getting really good at blowing bubbles. She'd always had trouble with it as a kid--the gum always seemed to stretch a little too thin a little too fast and left her with a lopsided and sticky mess all over her face. But lately it seemed like she'd gotten something of a knack for it, and it sometimes felt like she could just lie on the couch for hours staring down her own nose at the smooth, perfect sphere's of pure pink she produced while Tony chattered aimlessly about whatever was on his mind. She was so proud of her pretty bubbles. They just… they made her so blissfully happy.

But weirdly, they made her even happier when they popped. Ellie couldn't explain it, because honestly she did keep getting distracted by the way her slow, steady breaths made the gum expand into such amazing spheres of cheerful, inexpressibly girlish pink, but there was something so… so blissful about the way those bubbles burst. It was almost like she could picture all her stress, all her worries, everything that kept her brain from being perfectly and peacefully serene just flowing out of her and into the hollow she was creating in the little wad of gum--and when it finally blew a little too big and the air escaped with that distinctive snap to coat her cheeks in a delightful mess, Ellie felt all those unwanted thoughts vanish right along with it.

She could only imagine how it all looked to Tony, of course. He probably got a little bit exasperated at the sight of his smart, vivacious girlfriend wearing her hair in blonde pigtails and crossing her eyes like some sort of vacuous airhead while she blowed bubbles with her gum and giggled incessantly. It wasn't at all what he signed on for when they first started dating, and she really hoped he didn't get mad at having a partner who just lounged around in sexy bikinis all the time instead of conversing intelligently with him. Still, he sounded very happy when he spoke to her in those soft, soothing tones of his, and Ellie figured he was a psych major, after all. He probably had a pretty good handle on his emotions.

So that worry could go into her bubble, and it could take all the thoughts it carried right along with it. Ellie exhaled her concerns about her outfits showing too much cleavage, she exhaled her inhibitions about rubbing herself through her clothing while she lay back and relaxed, she even exhaled the lingering awareness of what Tony was saying to her before it could dawn into anything approaching a concern that might distract her from popping her gum and sinking even deeper into peace and pleasure. Ellie blew up all those boring, tedious thoughts into the biggest, pinkest, most beautiful bubble she'd ever produced, and then she took the greatest delight when it burst and all those distracting notions burst with it. She felt so happy blowing big pink bubbles. She never, ever wanted to stop.

Until Tony came over to her, of course, his dick hanging out of his boxers and just begging for Ellie to pleasure it. Then the gum was carefully tucked away into its wrapper, even if the thoughts it banished never did seem to come back, and her lover showed her how much he loved to use Ellie's brand new pigtails for more than just decoration. And when it was all over, Ellie got a very different kind of sticky mess on her face… one she was just as happy to clean away.

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[linithepupi]

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one word demands r so hot >.< sit, down, lick, suck, bark. im a dumb little puppy, make it as easy as possible for me to obey you ໒꒰ྀི｡^ ˕ ^｡꒱ྀི১

[enchantress-arc]

Using a certain, specific tone of voice every single time you hypnotize a person becomes very entertaining in the long run, because eventually all you need to do is use that voice, and they'll begin to drop. And it makes it so easy to tease them, so fun to just drop into that voice and see their breathing slow, their eyes become heavier, their body relaxing entirely. Even though they're not fully in trance yet, they still become submissive, pliable. It's so easy to just do anything you want to them, all it will take before they begin mindlessly thrusting their hips is a small bit of stimulation, a caress across their thigh, a kiss on the neck (and maybe even less if they were already in this sort of mood). They can't help it once they hear that wonderful, seductive voice, being reduced to a pathetic, desperate toy, and even if they could, they'd never want to escape the pleasure of your wonderful siren song.

[hypnopum]

“And freeze, toy.” Your hypnotist snapped their fingers. Immediately, you felt the trigger take effect, as your body went still. “That’s it. Body growing stiff, and rigid.” They said, tracing a hand Your bare chest, before groping your ass. “I’ve got you. Stuck. Held in place.”

“Right now you’re just a statue for me to use.” They said, smirking at you as they picked up a crop, walking around behind you. “To abuse.” The crop landed on one ass cheek. It stung. But you couldn’t move. You couldn’t cry out. All you could do was feel the ache.

They leant around to look you in the eye. “Awh, did that hurt?” The crop came down again, on your other ass cheek. Your eyes rolled as the pain grew. Moving from the initial shock, to the aching sting. Your hypnotist giggled. “Is it still hurting? Or is it the other cheek now?”

The stinging radiated out from both cheeks. It felt wonderful. “It doesn’t matter. You can’t do anything about it. And why would you want to? It feels so good to be my little plaything. Letting me make you ache. And moan. And beg.” They paused, taking a moment to chuckle.

“Except… Oh. You can’t beg, can you, toy? You can just want. You can just need. My helpless little plaything. Check in.” They said.

“Green.” You said, the word able to come from your mouth. You were loving this.

“Good.” They said. You heard them tighten their grip on the crop.

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[kxsalt]

I wanna do exhibitionism so baddddd… Bored at school, the woman reads the text from her friend. The message is confusing, entirely unrelated to their earlier conversation. A stream of excuses follows. OMFG! The woman stifles her laughter. THAT WAS MEANT FOR MY BOYFRIEND AAAAAH! Her friend’s panic is the most entertaining thing today. I’M SO SORRY I’M SO EMBARRASSED. She smiles and sends a flirty response: I always suspected lol.

She doesn’t let her live it down. Over the next week the woman teases her relentlessly. Don’t forget to wear clothes when I come over tonight. The reply is quick. shutt uppppp! Not letting up, she continues. You’re right, you two going to be fucking on the kitchen table when I get there? They aren’t when she arrives at their house that evening. The friends talk and laugh for hours.

As the night wanes, the woman and the boyfriend poke fun at the girl for her humiliating mistake. Blushing, she squeezes her partner’s hand. “So,” He asks their guest. “Do you want to watch us have sex?” The girl’s jaw drops. “Oh yeah, for sure.” Is the woman’s simple reply. The man hugs his shocked partner. “See? Easy.” Her heart pounds in her chest.

The couple kiss on the bed. “You two are so hot.” Their friend comments, lounging in a chair. A nervous squeak from the girl. “She’s filthy, too.” The man says with a chuckle, stripping his girlfriend nude. “Is that true? Are you a secret slut, darling?” The woman’s eyes stare at her friend’s pretty cunt. “mmm uh I dunno I try…” A loud smack on her ass echoes through the room.

“Come on, tell her.” Easing into their dynamic, he gives her a direct order. “yeah, um, I try to be… free-use… for him…” Her voice trails off as he fingers her wet pussy. “She’s just being shy – she’s been free-use for years.” The man rubs his hard cock against her body. “I can fuck her how I want, whenever I want.” Blushing pink, the girl grinds her pussy into his hand. "...that's true..." She rubs faster when the woman laughs. “Sounds like you are a slut…”

The man thrusts his cock into her drippy pussy. Looking over at her friend, the girl mumbles incoherently. “What’s that, darling? Speak up.” The woman rubs her pussy as he pumps his cock into his girlfriend. “I’m his fuck-toy… See…?” Crawling on top of her partner, she faces her friend. Her hips bounce up and down, giving the woman a full view. When he slips out for a moment, she pulls herself open to show off her stretched out hole.

“I can see. Look how wet you are, bouncing on his cock…” The girl starts to whimper. “You look so sexy, taking care of his big dick…” Her hips start to shake as she watches her friend get off to watching her fuck. “Don’t be shy… Show me what a naughty girl you are…” The girl arches her back and gasps at the sky, cumming in front of the woman. “Very impressive, slut.”

Bored at school, the woman’s phone buzzes on her desk. She grins, seeing the notification from her friend. I made him cum so much this morning!!! Carefully putting in her earbuds, she watches the attached video. Lying in bed, the girl pulls her legs open. Her boyfriend’s thick cock stretches out her little pussy. The couple is sweaty, nearing the end of their rough fucking.

“Cum in my mouth…” The girl’s breathy begging makes the woman curl her toes. On her knees now, she strokes his cock. A harsh groan from her boyfriend and he unloads his cum. Her lips and tongue are splattered, a thin ribbon runs down the bridge of her nose. White, sticky fluid fills her eager hole.

“Don’t swallow, show off how much there is.” The girl’s boyfriend orders. Cupping her hands underneath her chin, the girl lets his semen drool into her palms. Soaked in cum, holding it up to the camera like a temple offering, she grins pridefully. Her face descends, slurping up her prize. The woman sends her friend a long string of heart emojis.

[hypnopum]

Trance crept through your mind slowly. Steadily. Without pause. As their words coiled around your brain, you felt each and every part of you being pulled further into their control. And it felt wonderful. All you needed to do was listen, and it happened.

And you wanted it so very much. The slow, creeping feeling of control. The way that every moment that passed felt like your mind was being directed. Like they had taken the power out of your hands, and were now steering you in the directions they wanted.

Obedience. Submission. Intertwining with pleasure. Trickling through your mind. Every second fanning the flames of arousal.

You registered a snap of their fingers.

The world went fuzzy for a moment as the pleasure intensified.

You were on your knees.

Looking up at them.

They held your chin in their hand. Their eyes were all that you could see. As their soft, seductive smirk played at what was left of your fraying imagination, they nodded. Their words were soft. A simple instruction. Your eyes were closing before it had registered. “Drop.”

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