Slow Down and Breathe

30 she/they subject looking for a place to escape, new to having a nsfw blog, messages are open

[d4rthberry]

taking applications for a scary intimating vampire obsessed woman who’s older than me with a hypno kink

[hypn0pet-deactivated20260225]

I love obeying so much. I can just tell it’s what my brain was made to do. I was made to listen to orders and follow them, not make decisions. My mind was designed to be emptied at the click of a finger, drained of the little intelligence it once had, leaving me a broken, mindless toy.

[cognitivebloom-deactivated20260]

I don’t want to think. I don’t want to decide. I want to be weak for you. Obedient. Eager. Needy. I want to kneel and feel your approval soak into my skin like sunlight. To lose myself in the safety of your control.

[the-sensitive-sadist]

Dom red flags: a checklist for less experienced submissives

This is written mostly for inexperienced subs who are seeking doms. I would also recomend less experienced doms read as well, I could have used a lot of this advice when I first got started. If you have a lot of S&M experience, you probably won't get much from this post. Feel free to add to it if you reblog. Full checklist under the cut.

Aftercare - Always mandatory. While it will look different from different people aftercare is still an essential part of a dynamic. If a dom has a problem with aftercare, either your version of it or the concept in general 🚩🚩🚩

Safe words - Always mandatory. Safe words are essential for both doms and subs. It’s valid to use them at any time for any reason. I suggest two safewords for every dynamic. A pause word and a stop word. Yellow and Red are pretty standard in many BDSM circles and they’re fantastic for explaining the concept of each. Yellow or Pause meaning take a breath, check in, and communicate. Red or Stop meaning immediately end the scene and provide aftercare. If the sub is gagged or otherwise speech impaired, a particular noise they can annunciate like “Nuh uh," snapping your fingers, or holding onto a loud object they can drop to create a distinct noise are fantastic alternatives. No one should ever be made to feel guilty for using a safeword. If a dom has a problem with safe words, punishes their sub for using it, or doesn’t immidiately stop when the safeword is used 🚩🚩🚩

Check-ins - Recommended. In any dynamic, the dom has a responsibility to make sure their sub is comfortable with the scene as it’s being carried out. Sometimes things can get intense, and if the sub is in subspace, they may not always be able to catch when something starts to overwhelm them. To avoid negative outcomes, I suggest regular check-ins. They can be as simple as “would you like another slap, baby?” or “how does that feel?" or as in-depth as a full pause of the scene. I recomend simple check ins for short scenes (under 10 minutes) and longer water breaks and full pauses during longer scenes. Check-ins are especially important for inexperienced subs and anyone exploring a new type of play. If you think check-ins sound like a good idea, then ask for them! And if your dom refuses 🚩🚩🚩

Boundaries - Always Mandatory. You and your dom both have a responsibility to communicate your boundaries with each other. You also have the responsibility not to cross each other’s boundaries intentionally. Ever. If a dom doesn’t listen to your boundaries, repeatedly crosses them, pushes you to do things you explicitly aren't okay with, or refuses to admit that you don’t like something 🚩🚩🚩

Adapting/Taking critism - Very important. No dynamic will be perfect from the start. Expectations and desires change over time, and even the deepest of connections will evolve. This means that consistant communication and feedback during the dynamic is essential. Bdsm is not about a dom molding a sub into whatever they want. It's about exploring mutually held desires. Both a dom and a sub need to be able to tweak their approaches to each other with time, listen to critisms from each other, and continously adapt as your perceptions of the dynamic change over time. If you have a 24/7 dynamic, I would recomend a regularly scheduled pause every day to talk about the dynamic, voice any critisms, and adjust accordingly. If a dom doesn't want to adjust their approach for you, or shift things in your dynamic based on what you want and like🚩🚩🚩

Punishments - the dynamics conceptualization of punishments should always be pre-negotiated. What is the purpose of punishments? Are they meant to be fun for both parties? Does the sub even want to be punished? Does the dom want to preform punishments? What activities are both parties okay with? If a dom refuses to take all this int account, or wants to give you punishments you dissgree with despite any out-of-dynamic protests🚩🚩🚩

General tips:

Trust your gut - If a situation feels wrong, back out. If someone feels off, or if something isn’t adding up, don't do it. If your gut tells you to run, run. Most BDSM carries inherent risk, if you aren't 100% sure you're willing to accept that risk, don't do it.

Don’t compromise on your boundaries. Ever. - If you feel uncomfortable doing something don’t do it. If a fantasy or scene seems like too much, refuse. There are plenty of doms out there, ignoring your feelings for one that makes you uncomfortable is never worth it.

Talk to others in the community - Please please please for the love of god talk to other subs. Talk to doms that aren’t interested in you. Talk with your dom’s other playmates. Talk with your friends who do kink. Other members of the community are an essential resource and act as a great bullshit detector if something doesn't seem right. Provide support to each other, be as open about your dynamic/potential partners as you comfortably can be. Listen to their feedback.

Sub drop/dom drop - Drops are completely normal during kink. I’ve had them, subs I’ve been with have had them, friends who participate in kink have had them. If you do kink, you’ll probably have a drop at some point, and that’s okay. Your dom should be someone who can comfort you during a drop, the same way you would comfort them if they have one. Your dom should be someone who can make you feel safe during a drop. They should be someone who is willing to comfort you and be there for you while you feel those feelings. 

If you have questions about any of this please dm me or send me an ask.

[softestbigbro]

A superb list. Nothing to add.

[a-deeper-shade]

Agreed, this is an excellent resource!

[sweetlyspiraling]

If you have any favorite (simple) mantras, I'd love to see them in the replies/notes/reblogs somewhere! I'm looking for a way to start my day off right.

(And maybe, as a belated celebration of hitting three digits worth of followers, I'll drop some recordings now and then.)

Also, if you know anyone who posts some tasty hypnotic mantras, let me know so I can follow them!

[concerning-goth]

Mind control and hypnosis is unbelievably hot because yes, you don’t need to make decisions, but something I haven’t seen talked about is the feeling of safety via understanding. During a well done scene, I don’t need to worry about whether my dom knows what state I’m in, what I’m thinking, what I want, because they control all of those things.

I’m one of those people with a desperate desire to feel deeply understood, so that is unbelievably hot and comforting for me.

[cdlum]

personal best

[lemerovingian-deactivated202507]

Relax for me now.

Just stare and relax.

Just stare and drift.

Just stare and obey.

Just stare and drop deep

Deep into hypnosis.

Deep into hypnosis for me

Deep under my control

Deep under my hypnotic spell

*DROP*

Good toy.

[dirky14]

Hypnotizing my sub to go deeper the more she plays with her tits until she’s just empty, eye rolling, and drooling ready to obey

[mx-sir]

For all you overthinking subs out there, take time to practice getting out of your head and onto your knees. You’ll feel much better when the only things you think are what you’re told to.

[a-deeper-shade]

This. There's something so comforting about falling to your knees, especially for your dom. Those thoughts just go quiet as you look up into their eyes, your heart skips a beat as a hand reaches down to pet you, and the world is perfect again.

[a-deeper-shade]

I was thinking about this the other day (for entirely wholesome reasons, obviously), and thought I would expand on why kneeling is so great.

Mindset. Kneeling makes you feel a certain way, and not just lesser than the person you're kneeling for. You could find a trigger suddenly taking hold that you didn't know you had. You could kneel and find all of those thoughts slipping away, and your lips parting for your owner. You could feel reverent, worshipful. You suddenly feel empty.... and you know they have what you need. Kneeling can be so arousing, and for a submissive, kneeling for their dominant? All of their thoughts awash in obedient bliss? It's dynamite.

The Power Dynamic. The moment someone kneels for me my dominant instincts go into overdrive. It's an act that speaks to me of supplication. Vulnerability. Of a desire to be improved through service. Frankly, it makes me want to give you purpose. To ravish you, mind and body, until mind is the only name on your lips. Are you looking up at me with a submissive eagerness? Or are your eyes cast downwards in respect? Body language is huge here, and it speaks volumes.

It's where you belong. Whether it's about getting into the proper mindset, or putting that mouth to better use than speaking, kneeling and submission go hand in hand. They always have in a kink sense, and likely always will. Even if kneeling physically is difficult for a submissive, there are other actions a submissive can take to show their deference. It's just a matter of communication, letting your dominant know how you can best serve them, and working together.

Tl;dr: Kneeling is a good look for you, you should try it sometime.

[hypnotizedrose]

I’m such an overthinker about everything, I feel like using kneeling as a trigger could probably be so useful and interesting

[sillyalisa]

Hypnosis is so boring imagine hearing "good girl" over and over again I can't see how saying "good girl" repeatedly would help, why would being called a "good girl" even... would even... Uh... good girl... yes I am a good girl~

Uh.... Sorry...What was I talking about again?

[kallidora-rho]

Hypnosis Kink Asks

1. How long have you been into hypnosis? 2. Describe your first experience with hypnosis 3. Are there any TV shows/movies/books you liked when you were younger that you think got you into hypnosis? 4. Are you primarily a hypnotist or a subject? 5. Are you primarily a dom/me or a sub? 6. What do you love about being hypnotised? 7. What do you love about hypnotising people? 8. How do you feel when hypnotised? 9. How do you feel when you hypnotise someone else? 10. Are you a difficult subject? 11. What’s your ‘signature move’ as a hypnotist? 12. What’s your favourite kind of hypnotic induction? 13. Do you like visual fixation (on spirals, eyes, swinging objects etc.) for hypnosis? 14. What are your favourite kinds of hypnosis play? 15. What other kinks do you like to incorporate into your hypno play? 16. For you, is the appeal of hypnosis primarily sexual or not? 17. What are some post-hypnotic suggestions you particularly enjoy (for others or yourself)? 18. Describe your best experience involving hypnosis 19. Describe a bad experience you had involving hypnosis? Why was it bad? Why did it go wrong? 20. What’s one tip you have for other hypnotists/subjects? 21. Do you have any tips for how to negotiate hypnosis play? 22. Do you like your hypnosis to involve power exchange, or not? 23. For you, how does hypnosis fit into a relationship? Just in the bedroom, or as part of BDSM relationship? 24. Are you interested in a 24/7 hypnotic enslavement relationship? 25. Have you ever experienced strong, sudden feelings for a hypnotist/subject? How did you deal with that? 26. Are you interested in hypnotising/being hypnotised by people of a gender you are not attracted to? 27. What’s your favourite work of hypnosis erotica? 28. What’s your favourite spiral? 29. What’s your favourite hypno-themed image/caption/piece of art? 30. What’s your favourite audio file/audio file producer? 31. What’s your favourite book/movie/TV show that includes hypnosis? 32. Describe your biggest fantasy involving hypnosis? 33. Do you have any fantasies about non-consensual hypnosis? Describe them 34. What’s one fictional character you’ve fantasised about hypnotising/being hypnotised by? 35. Do you like intelligence loss/bimbofication hypnosis? Why? 36. Do you like amnesia play? Why? 37. Do you like freeze triggers? Why? 38. Do you like pleasure triggers? Why? 39. Do you like alternate personalities created through hypnosis? Why? 40. Do you like feminization hypnosis? Why? 41. Have you ever experienced a “hands-free” orgasm as a result of hypnosis? 42. Which famous person do you think has the most hypnotic voice? 43. If you make hypnosis content, what’s your favourite piece of content you’ve made? 44. Have you ever used hypnotic conditioning to help you or someone else with a part of your/their life? 45. Have you ever been to a hypnosis convention? Did you enjoy it, or not? Why? 46. How has being involved with hypnosis/the hypno community improved your life? 47. What is one thing about the hypnosis community you think could change for the better? 48. Who is one person in the hypno community you really admire? 49. What is your favourite hypnosis-themed blog on tumblr? 50. Tag someone you’d like to see do some of these asks

[a-deeper-shade]

Shameless rb, I don’t get enough asks!

And I like answering them, it’s fun.

[indica-tranced]

"Be good" as a trigger would be so hot

Arguing with your partner until they shake their head and tell you to "be good," body so heavy and thoughts all draining away as you find yourself on your knees for them, feeling so much better

[mindlesswicker]

Oh.

[jsx2022]

Thinking makes it worse (CW Drop Warning)

I know the title sound silly doesn't it? but if you take a moment to think about it, thinking really does make you worse, honestly take a moment, sit back and relax and, just for a moment, try to clear your mind. just for a second. Its hard isn't it? hard to stop thoughts bubbling free, work, rent, bills, studying, social obligations. All those intrusive thoughts that never seem to end and the more you think about all those things that stress you out, the more you lock yourself into it, Thinking just makes it worse.

But we've established that trying to relax, trying to clear your mind of all those thoughts doesn't really work does it? even know, even once you've made yourself comfortable, perhaps you've slowed your breathing, taking those nice long deep breaths hoping that will calm you, hoping it will help you let go.

But its still difficult, difficult to let go of your thoughts, it shouldn't be this hard to let go, to let your mind wander, but the trick is as soon as you let go of one thought another sneaks in, trying to clear your mind just doesn't work, even asleep you still dream.

So if trying to empty your mind doesn't work, what can you do? because you want to let go, you want a little bit of peace and calm don't you? Well since you cant empty your mind, why don't we give you something to focus on hmm?

Your probably rolling your eyes right now right? hypnotist tries to convince subject to stare at pretty spiral, its cliché isn't it? but the thing is, it really does help you to focus on something, in this case something calming, some simple, predictable pattern that draws your attention, that comfortable to watch, and of course, for more regular subjects it already has its own gentle pull doesn't it? memories of staring into that pretty swirling light and feeling yourself drifting away, its easy to get lost in those memories isn't it dear?

That's really the point with spirals, they aren't magical, just pleasant to watch and easy to stare at, its easy to imagine your attention being drawn around that slow lazy arc, swirling around and around in that soft calming light, gently pulling you down, its easy to imagine your thoughts, all those stressful, intrusive thoughts, getting caught in that swirling motion and slowly being pulled down, drained away almost, its easy to imagine your body beginning to relax as those thoughts are slowly eased out of you, one at a time, no need to think or worry about it, thinking just makes you worse, so just keep staring pet.

Just keep letting those thoughts drain away as you keep staring into those pretty spirals, just imagine all the noise in your mind quietening down, each long deep breath helping you to relax, sinking down into that warm, comfortable seat, its so much easier when your not thinking, when you can just let your body go, let your thoughts drain away into the pretty spiral, you can almost see them drifting away, swirling towards the centre and vanishing into that warm, white light, so warm, calm and relaxing, nice long deep breaths, sinking into the pretty light, no more fears or worries.

Calm and relaxed, empty and warm, letting the last of those thoughts swirl away, Thinking makes you worse, but being a blank mindless ditz makes you so much better doesn't it? it makes you smile, makes you blush, makes you shiver, letting your mind slip away and your body take control, being blank and mindless makes you feel so much better, so much warmer, surrendering to what your body wants, to what it needs, its alright pet, its perfectly natural, completely normal to be a horny, blank, mindless ditz.

You want to touch, stare and play, keep the bad thoughts away, isn't that a fun phrase pet? easy to remember, fun to follow, easy to repeat, so why don't you relax and repeat, touch and sink, stare and play, I'm going to show the pretty spiral one last time pet, and all your going to do is repeat that nice simple phrase while you rub yourself silly, ready pet?

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

[andre212131]

Feel free to fry my brain sending in my asks hypno and brainwashing gifs

[andre212131]

Feel free to fry my brain sending in my asks hypno and brainwashing gifs

[andre212131]

Feel free to fry my brain sending in my asks hypno and brainwashing gifs