This Is Why You REALLY Thought That He Liked You As Much As You Liked Him You thought he liked you, because he gave you every reason to feel that way. He touched you. He texted you. He told you that you were pretty. Maybe he even kissed you, made out with you, had sex with you. He didnāt tell you that he wasnāt looking for anything serious, because he knew you werenāt on the same page and didnāt want to break the illusion for you. He didnāt want to lose you by admitting that you wanted way more than he was willing to give you. He knew that the truth would ruin everything. That, as soon as you found out about his intentions, you would cut him out of his life. So he lied to you ā by saying nothing and letting his actions speak for him. He strung you along with compliments and kisses. He kept flirting. He kept teasing. He kept giving you reasons to believe he wanted to date you, but he never actually said the words. He never said that he liked you, that he missed you, that he wanted to become your boyfriend. Why? So, when he decided to date someone else or randomly stopped answering your texts, he could claim that he had no idea that you had feelings for him (he did). That he didnāt realize he was leading you on (he did). That you were never actually his girlfriend and have no right to be angry with him (you do). Heās acting clueless to save his own ass. He knew exactly what he was doing from the start. He knew that his actions would end up hurting you, but he didnāt care. He wanted you around. So he put his needs before yours. Thatās why you shouldnāt feel bad about falling for him. Donāt reprimand yourself for not seeing the signs earlier. For letting him string you along for weeks, months, years. For being blind to his truth. Youāre not an idiot for believing he had feelings for you. It wasnāt your fault. It was his. He tricked you. He knew how you felt, so he knew how to manipulate you. He played the game and played it well. But you canāt let one shitty snapshot of love ruin your perspective on it. One day, youāll find a guy that wears his heart on his sleeve. A guy that says what he means instead of turning his feelings into a guessing game. A guy that actually explains that he wants to take you on a date, not just that he wants to hang out, and admits that he loves your laugh and your lips, not just the shape of your body. That guy is out there. And youāll find him. One day, youāll find someone that holds your hand, looks you deep in the eyes, and admits that he wants to be your boyfriend. Your husband. Your forever. And then youāll forget all about the boy that broke you apart in 2017.
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