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[tantus]

QUESTION | Grab Bag Availability

To clarify: Those blue & brown Grab Bag beauties are not available yet, but we’ll announce when they are. The Echo Handles we have from the previous batch have a bit of softer silicone running through them, and those need to sell out first before changing styles.

Stay tuned!

[iamthebunnylove]

Oh my god, I need this in my life/vagina.

[tantus]

When ordering a grab bag toy, is it possible to make a request like "please not purple" or "I'd like a toy with more than one color if you have one available"?

Our most common requests are, as shown, "Anything but purple!" "Mixed/fun/happy if possible!" "PLEASE GOD NOT REALISTIC". We aim to fulfill any color requests that come our way, knowing that for some, visual appearance can play a significant role in comfort and arousal. We do not always have alternative color options available. However, we read EVERY note that comes with an order and the Tantus Elves are eager to please as much as we can! If you don’t receive a toy that matches your request, please know that we certainly saw it and could only do our best to look. Note: The reason why we have so many Grab Bag toys in Purple and Black is because the majority of our toys are in Purple and Black. Grab Bag toys are only made when our Production Team is switching colors in silicone; they pour Grab Bag toys with the mixed or changing colors so as not to waste it. And that means, lots of Purple toys.

[iamthebunnylove]

This is super fantastic to read! I <3 Tantus

[iamthebunnylove]

Dildo Sketchin'

I've begun sketching out ideas for dildos I'd like to make.

Of course, there are still the questions about materials and material safety, but first I'd just like to draw and sculpt some fun looking toys. Oh, then maybe work on some neat-o Magic Wand hacks with my favorite electrical engineer! We have several Hitachi Magic Wands that have been hacked apart after they've lost their oomph.

I need to start doing what I really want to do in life.

[lezpopmag]

Foto #vintage di coppie lesbiche #loveislove

[viktordevonne]

This is fabulous, but the first photo is Debi Mazar and Madonna in the early 90s. :)

[iamthebunnylove]

I've decided to start keeping sex toy logs and a sexy journal. I really need to get my hands on some quality erotica. I'm thinking a nice compilation would be a good starting point. Do I get a digital or print copy though?

[sexybbwliz]

A messy, crooked, sloppy first draft of the pattern I drew this morning. Still practicing, I have a ways to go skill wise before I feel confident enough in the finished product to actually expect someone to pay good money for it. I like this, though, lopsided and wonky as it is.

[iamthebunnylove]

SO CUTE!

[iamthebunnylove]

Buildin' Dildooosss, Near and FAR!

I've seriously been thinking about setting up a workshop to prototype dildo and other sex toy designs.

[sealpress]

Celebrate Pride Month 2014 with Seal Press!

From positive media representation of transgender people to 4 more US states legalizing same-sex marriage, 2014 has already taken some big steps towards equality. We’re all rooting for even more progress in the second half of 2014 and the continuing future!

To celebrate Pride Month, we’re excited to share 5 of our favorite LGBT ebook titles for only $1 each: • Bi, by Shiri Eisner • Gender Outlaws, edited by Kate Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman • Lesbian Couples, by D. Merilee Clunis, PhD, and G. Dorsey Green, PhD • Sexual Intimacy for Women, by Dr. Glenda Corwin • Whipping Girl, by Julia Serano Available wherever ebooks are sold! Promotional book sale is limited to US retailer sites only.

[submissivefeminist]

Seal Press is like my favourite publisher ever. Kate Bornstein is fucking amazing and Julia Serano’s “Whipping Girl” was majorly important to me when I was researching trans representation. Please check these out!

[jenniferlewis420]

[send-it-to-the-internet]

These Fabulous Swimsuits Are Designed Specifically for Breast Cancer Survivors

And they’re modelled by some seriously glam women.

[themanicpixiedreamgrrrl]

This is amazing.

[mylittlenestofvipers]

Thisssss!!!!!!!!

[elishaalexzander]

Lustrous.

A man in the grocery store line today approached me and said, “Sir, when I first saw you I was extremely attracted to you, but then I noticed that you are a boy. How… I mean, why do you dress so provocatively?”

I responded, “Well, in today’s world the majority of the straight male race view women as objects, or something that belongs to them. I dress provocatively because it attracts the attention of men in a sexual and OBJECTIVE way. However, when realized that I am actually male, they often become confused, disgusted, upset or all of the above. By inflicting this minor emotional damaged upon the ego of a man raised by twisted societal gender norms, maybe, just maybe the individual will think twice before viewing another woman with an objective attitude and sense of belonging. No woman, belongs to ANYONE. Male or female, the equality of human beings needs to be a priority. It is something worth dressing up for.”

I AM NOT KIDDING. The woman behind me, the female cashier, the old lady bagging groceries and the woman in front of me who was talking on the phone STOPPED, …. and proceeded to gasp and clap. The man shook my hand, told me to have a blessed day and then said, “excuse me ladies, I need to visit my daughter.”

…. I was shaking by the time I walked out of the store.

- Elliott Alexzander

[ezizzy]

I love the way you dress.

[submissivefeminist]

Apparently this isn’t clear to everyone, so I’ll go over it a little.

Lee is recently released from a mental hospital and struggles with self-harm. While Mr. Grey eventually gets her to stop, the root of these issues are never address in a serious context, leaving her “masochism” up for debate as self-harm.

Lee never explicitly consents to the office play—she merely takes it and Mr. Grey does not engage her in conversation and clearly defined consent. The spanking scene, specifically, is unwarranted. 

Mr. Grey’s self-hatred is quite alarming. “I’m sorry. This is disgusting. I don’t know why I’m like this.”

Lee kind of stalks Mr. Grey a little. And pushes after he rejects her. Another consent issue.

At the beginning of the movie, we see a secretary leaving Mr. Grey’s after quitting and she is in tears. After you see his folder of secretaries and hear the conversation with his ex-partner, it really makes you wonder if he was treating all his secretaries in this way—which really is abuse of power when you come down to it. 

Just my thoughts.

xx SF

Edit: For those replying—for the record, I really enjoy this movie. I just think anything that covers BDSM needs to be SUPER HEAVY on consent. I get that it’s not “sexy” to sell in a popular film, but it’s still problematic, nonetheless.

[iamthebunnylove]

THIS. This movie makes me mad.

[asanaambitions]

Friendly reminder to check your breasts while you’re just sitting there scrolling the internet, then reblog so your followers do the same. Two people I know were just diagnosed within the same week.

[insidiouspie]

boobie check!

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[iamthebunnylove]

imreallybad:

bisexual people passing as straight when they’re in a straight relationship is not “passing privilege.” it’s erasure. it’s assimilation.

that’s like saying that femme lesbians have privilege over butch lesbians. invisibility might keep people safer on a micro-level which is...

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[kateordie]

I can’t overstate the importance of this movie, and specifically this exchange.

[iamthebunnylove]

YES!

[lordelgay]

Reblog this if you've ever cried, had a panic attack or an anxiety attack because of school stress

I’m trying to prove a point to my mum and teachers

[ritz--rubble]

today actually