The woman I want to be with
They say when you write something down and visualize something, it will eventually materialize in your life. I’m not one to believe in mystical laws of attraction, but I do believe in setting a frame and adjusting your perspective to change how you actually interact with the world, which will influence the outcomes of your actions.
There needs to be a change.
The person that I’d like in my life is someone who is passionate about living. Not surviving, or making it to the next day, but really trying to make something of their time on earth. It doesn’t necessarily have to be any specific goal, be it in business, art, etc. just a true passion that they dedicate time towards. I don’t believe that finishing a TV show is a hobby. I do believe that writing, building something, and so on - so long as you are creating, I think that’s a hobby. It is progress forward with the time that we have. I think that’s the most salient thing that I am attracted to in people - that they understand the urgency and limited time that we have, and try to be passionate about living through the lives that we have.
Ultimately, the person I will end up with will want to impart good on the world. To leave a lasting, positive impression. Whether it’s through their intimate, one-to-one connections, or if they make waves in society or culture. The idea of leaving an impression is important to me, because if that is in what they do and how they act, they will think twice about what they do or say. This will bring a certain level of awareness that I’ve found to be awe-inspiring, beneficial, and fulfilling - I want them to experience the same. They could be kind and motherly, or they can help those in need, or they can simply uplift people and empower them. That’s what I feel in my heart, and so sharing that with someone would be fulfilling, and add another layer of our own passion and intimacy - it will show me they care, and if they choose to be with me, then we’ll share a deep caring for each other.
I will be with someone who is forward and confident. Not through insecurity, but through the above two items. Their direct and effective communication will allow them to mean what they say, and the more they say what they mean, the more honest experiences we can have together (and with others). Her confidence will allow her to push forward through any noise that will block out the above two. She will believe in herself and what she has to say, because what she has to say is important. The world needs more people like her.
And she will be intelligent, not to benefit her financially or in her career (though it will likely benefit) but through her curiosity of the things in the world and the things she is passionate about, she will be able to gather the understanding necessary to execute on what she wants in life. She will articulate (through her confidence) her desires, hopes, and dreams in a manner that people can be uplifted by, through the facts of the matter, and effectively displaying her emotions. It won’t just general intelligence, but more so emotional intelligence. She will connect with people in a way that the average person doesn’t usually experience - I want her to have deep and meaningful connections outside of just me. I want her to develop a network that empowers her and uplifts her, and I will be a strong part of that, but not the only part. She’ll cultivate this through the above.
My future partner will not be perfect - and she’ll know it. She’ll be confident with herself, but also crave discomfort in order to grow. She will be aware of her flaws, and may even meditate on them, but they will not consume her. She is strong. She understands that failure and fault is a part of life. She will be empowered by this through her confidence and intelligence around the matter to love herself through and adversity that life throws at her. She’s an all-star - and I’ll be there to support her to continue to uplift and help to continue unlock the power that is innately within her and all people.
She will inspire me through all of the above. Her existence will grab a hold of my emotional spine, shake it to the core, and have me take on a new perspective for life. Not that it is dependent on her, or that I’m relying on her, but that her internal beauty constantly reminds me of my own goals and where I am headed in life. She will empower me, as much as she empowers herself, and I will empower her as much as I empower myself.
Our energies will snowball into each other and roll together. The momentum that we both have will merge and continue to push forward at an even faster rate. We will not hinder each other, and that will be through our imperfection and willingness to care, to help, and to uplift one another.
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, she will not take all of it too seriously. When it’s time to get on the grind, we’ll do that. We’ll be in sync for when we have to get things done and really take life by the balls. And when she needs alone time she will let me know and I’ll provide her with it. She’ll know that just as important as progression is, taking time to slow down, enjoy the finer and simpler things, and to not take things personally are equally important. We’ll enjoy unfiltered comedy. We’ll enjoy art that isn’t critically acclaimed. We’ll eat food that’s not ‘good’ for us. We will bask in the glory of each other’s weirdness, fueling the socially awkward jokes and horrible (but somehow on-beat) dance moves, and become deeply, passionately engaged in witty banter that leads only to laughter. We’ll fully immerse ourselves in the very human nature that we hold and intertwine with all of our pleasures, be they through taste, sound, touch, sight, and intellectual and spiritual exploration. Most of all, we will just be. We will work to cut out the noise and be humans together. Knowing full well that this life is the only one we have and that it is our duty to make damn good use of our time through ENJOYING life together.
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