on happiness..
someone asked me earlier on how I find happiness.. I wasn't able to answer because that me wonder as well. It actually took at least half of my shift today to realize how my happiness is obtained. My answer??? Happiness is obtained everything. It's a matter of seeing things positively rather than seeing it inits counterpart. This actually made me happy most of the time. If problems occur, I try to make sure that I'm happy in facing it. How? By looking on other things that will set my mood on positivity. Anything to be exact. A paper, a person, a gesture, a sound or even a stone. Imagine how they will make you happy by doing something with it. Write on a paper, flirt with a person, mimic someones gesture or throw a stone to someone. As long as it makes you happy, go for it. Just make sure they wont catch you or else yo're a double dead meat.. lols.. Once your mood is set, face your problem and you'll see it differently. You'll understand what happened, what went wrong, what can be done and your take aways for the situation. Then, it will boil down to your decision making. Decide for yourself and not for anyone else. Decide for what makes you happy. Decide where your heart belongs. There's no right or wrong with decisions. It's how you stand for it despite the consequences. How you maneuver it from negative to positive and how to make the best out of it. Decide if you want to kill yourself, jump on a cliff or have a 3 some. If you want to be wasted, drink more, party harder and vomit even harder. If you want it, go push. If that's your happiness, go push! Just get ready with the consequences though and remember it's still you who is it so don't blame someone else. Not even your partner, your ex, you fubu, your friends with benefits, your enemy, your family, society or even the cat scratching its paws to your door. Simply put, happiness lies on the decision we make and on how we see things. Your happiness definitely lies on yourself.am At the palm of your hands and at the tip of your tongue.. hehe.. :p
