Hey Its Me

idk what I am even doing

[andyyswritings]

R U Mine?

warnings: smut, cheating

pairing: Jasper Hale x reader

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One thing you have always promised yourself was that you would never stay in an abusive relationship that includes, cheating, mental abuse or manipulative behavior but for some reason you broke that promise to yourself.

Dating Paul, must have been the worst decision that you have made in your life,  it started off with a meaningless hook up, that then turned into a few more until he continued showing up at your house, trying to woo you but you weren’t interested in him in that way, you had eyes for someone else, someone you couldn’t have, or at least that you thought you couldn’t have back then.

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[forgotten-princess]

I saw someone argue that childhood friends to lovers is just the gateway drug to sibling ships and I haven’t recovered since then.

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[marthaswiftie]

Coriolanus: My Lucy Gray. The love of my life. I wanna spend the rest of my life with her and live a free life.

Coriolanus being in the wild for half a day:

[idkanymoreitsjustme]

I hate everyone who is mean to Kol Mikaelson and that includes everyone but Davina

[idkanymoreitsjustme]

I love how generally in any crossover fan fiction, Percy Jackson is always seen as more powerful. Love it.

[dragoni]

Pope Francis Keeping His Distance and Smile

Pope Francis was always smiling and laughing with President Obama in 2014 and 2015.

[idkanymoreitsjustme]

headcanon that

Daughters of Aphrodite were taught how to use their stilettos as weapons when learning how to fight

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[scifikimmi]

Anti-Hero vs Anti-Villian

It has come to my attention that many people don’t seem to make the distinction between an Anti-Hero and an Anti-Villain anymore. This is something that has bothered me so I am here to set the record straight!

An Anti-Hero does things that are heroic for the wrong reasons.

An Anti-Villain does things that are villainous for the right reasons or for reasons that may be perceived by some to be righteous in nature (however misguided they may be). Think: Vigilantes. 

An anti-villain and a sympathetic villain typically have some crossover. A sympathetic villain is the reasons why a person does villainous things is understandable but not always justifiable or forgivable. Most anti-villains are sympathetic villains, but not all sympathetic villains are anti-villains. 

And, all of this is different from the Redeemed Villain. 

Here are some examples of Anti-Heroes: 

Severus Snape:

Snape only chose to swap sides to try to protect Lily (the love of his life) and when he failed, he kept working for the light side out of obligation and guilt. Some people may to sort him into the role of Anti-Villain and say “he was only mean to Harry so that he’d believe he was actually a death eater and he would be a more efficient spy”. Personally, I say, no. That was the reason he killed Voldemort. There is no reason why he should have acted that way towards an 11-year-old. Snape was a mean and selfish dude (fight me). The ONLY time he crosses over into Anti-Villain territory was when he when he kills Dumbledore when Dumbledore asks him to and in the process helps to keep Malfoy from having to do it. Though, he was bound to help Draco with an unbreakable vow so take that how you will.

Spike:

Up to the point at which Spike goes to get his soul back, Spike was a classic cut and dry Anti-Hero. He originally only joins up with Buffy to take out Angel and then later joins the gang when he is forced by a literal chip in his head to stop hurting people. It is a mutual arrangement and he’d gladly go back to being a bad guy. He eventually falls for Buffy and decides that he’ll fight the good fight no matter what, but this is ONLY done for selfish reasons - so that Buffy will like him more. After he gets his soul he transitions to a more traditional full-on hero. 

Here are some Anti-Villains:

The Punisher:

He is out for revenge and he does it in the form of cold hard murder. He does villainous things. But, he does it because so many shitty things happened to him. And, he only kills other bad people. He rides the line between hero-vigilante and villain.  So, for the purpose of this example, we aren’t looking at his stand alone series, but his role in Daredevil season 2 where he is in opposition to Daredevil. In this season his role is the villain, but he is still a sympathetic one who has his reasons some-what grounded in good intentions. 

Sasuke Uchicha: 

In his hunt for power Sasuke isolated himself from his friends and chose to follow a mad man and (nearly) killed anyone who got in his way. And at one point he was trying to take down a whole government I’m pretty sure (idk I haven’t watched all of Shippuden yet). But, his revenge and need for power was rooted in his wish to avenge his family and reclaim the power of the lost Uchiha clan. He was just a huge dick about it and was really misguided and angry. 

Examples of Sympathetic Villains who aren’t Anti-Villains:

Loki:

Loki has always been devious but his swap over to the side of villainy came when his discovered that his father had been lying to him all his life and that he was actually a monster which he and everyone else had been taught to hate and fear. Family betrayal is sucky and it helps us to understand why he went on a rampage, but it isn’t exactly enough to tip him into Anti-Villain territory. He is still really really selfish in his actions. Though hopefully after Thor 3 we may see a little bit of a change of heart, who knows what the future will hold.

Draco Malfoy:

Draco is a fan favorite for forgiving. Partially because he was just a teen when everything went down and partially because he was down right scared of ole voldy the whole time and also cause his family (father) sucks. I totally find these reasons (plus a few of his actions in the last book where he starts to show regret) to be enough to forgive him for his choice to become a death eater. But he is still a selfish spoiled brat and that hasn’t changed. But, while they were justifiable and perhaps forgivable reasons, they weren’t exactly righteous in the way that an anti-villain’s reasons are so he doesn’t make the cut.

Note: Both Sympathetic Villains and Anti-Villains frequently slip into the role of Anti-Hero when the need suits them. For example: Loki saving the day in Thor 3 (because you know that wasn’t ENTIRELY selfless of him).

An example of a character who frequently switches between Anti-Villain and Anti-Hero:

Klaus Mikaelson:

Klaus was introduced to the Vampire Diaries he was a villain, but he quickly became an Anti-Villain who, by his own reasoning, does everything that he does for the sake of his family and to prove to his father (who hates him) that he is stronger. But this comes of really badly and even the family he is trying to protect sometimes hates him for his actions. He will literally stab his sister and lock her in a box just so he knows she is safe. This is particularly true in the spin off series The Originals. But, he has Anti-Hero properties built into these goals. Every time he saves the day, it is for himself or his family, not because its the right thing to do. Everything he does is double layered in selfishness and perceived good intentions. In my opinion, because of this, he is one of the most complex characters on TV. Don’t even get me started on his relationships with Caroline (and Camille).

It should also be noted that just because a villain’s reasons for being bad are understandable, it does not always make them redeemable. They would have to have a serious change of heart and make up for their actions moving forward by proving they have changed and regret their previous actions. 

The best example of a Redeemed Villain:

Zuko:

One of the best character redemption arks of all time, Zuko goes from a selfish brat villain to a big goddamn hero. Zuko starts out as a Sympathetic Anti-Villain. He was cast out by his own father and banished until he returns with the Avatar (a believed fool’s errand) and all his actions are DIRECTLY related to his wish to regain his honor in his father’s eyes. But, he is an angry, spoiled, salty teen with very few redeeming qualities to begin with. Then, he goes through a period of questioning, and then he completely skips over the anti-hero stage (though he stuck his toe in it way early on when he was the blue spirit) and becomes a redeemed villain. He apologies to the heroes of the show, makes amends by helping them, becomes friends with them, and then helps to save the day. All his actions after his switch are unselfish and for truly good reasons. 

So, I hope that helps! I know that there can be a lot of overlap. And that’s ok! I’m not saying that a character can’t exist in all the categories, just I hope we can be able to recognize and tell a part the different labels. Just lumping all characters into the term Anti-Hero when it doesn’t always apply does a disservice to the layers that morally complex characters have.

Disagree with my examples or definitions? I’d love to have a conversation about it!

[moonkissed777]

it’s okay to be white. 

it’s okay to be black. 

it’s okay to be asian. 

it’s okay to be hispanic. 

it’s okay to be female. 

it’s okay to be male. 

it’s okay to be gay. 

it’s okay to be straight. 

it’s okay to be YOU. 

but it’s NEVER okay to choose klamille over klaroline.

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Part II · Part I

[lovesimonfilm]

Why is straight the default? #LOVESIMON is in theaters March 16th.

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[mothergriever]

“we’re all bloody inspired” - Newt 

[pitaparka]

Flower meanings I wanted to get out there. It seemed pretty cool to me but was a lot of work as I couldn’t copy and past my research from websites. Use it for a florist AU or somethin’ I dunno have fun Alstroemeria - Wealth, prosperity, fortune, friendship

Amaryllis - Splendid beauty, worth beyond beauty


Anemone - Fading hope, forsaken, anticipation


Anthurium - Hospitality, happiness, abundance


Aster - Patience, a love of variety, elegance, daintiness


Bird of Paradise - Joyfulness, magnificence, wonderful anticipation


Bouvardia Double - Enthusiasm, zest for life


Calla Lily - Magnificence, beauty, purity, innocence


Carnation - Pride, beauty


Red Carnation - Love, pride, admiration


Pink Carnation - Love of a woman or a mother


Purple Carnation - Capriciousness


Yellow Carnation - Disdain, rejection, disappointment


White Carnation - Innocence, pure love


Striped Carnation - Refusal


Chrysanthemum - Fidelity, optimism, joy, long life


Red Chrysanthemum - Love


White Chrysanthemum - Truth, loyal love


Yellow Chrysanthemum - Slighted love


Daffodil - regard, chivalry, rebirth, new beginnings, eternal life, unrequited love


Daffodil (Single) - Foretells a misfortune


Daffodil (Bunch) - Joy, happiness


Daisy - Innocence, purity, loyal love, “I will never tell.”


Gerbera Daisy- Cheerfulness


Delphinium - Big hearted, fun, lightness, levity, ardent attachment


Freesia - Innocence, thoughtfulness


Gardenia - Purity, sweetness, secret love, joy, conveys loneliness from the giver


Gerbera - Cheerfulness

Gladiolus - Strength of character, remembrance


Lavender Heather - Admiration, solitude, beauty


White Heather - Protection, wishes will come true


Hyacinth - Playfulness, sporty attitude, extreme rashness, constancy


Blue Hyacinth - Constancy


Purple Hyacinth - Sorrow


Red/Pink Hyacinth - Play


White Hyacinth - Loveliness


Yellow Hyacinth - Jealousy


Hydrangea - Heartfelt emotions, gratitude for being understood, frigidity, heartlessness


Iris - Eloquence


Purple Iris - Wisdom, compliments


Blue Iris - Faith, hope


Yellow Iris - Passion


White Iris - Purity


Larkspur - Levity, lightness, fickleness, haughtiness


Lilac - Youthful innocence, confidence


White Lilac - Humility, Innocence


Field Lilac - Charity


Purple Lilac - First love


Lily - Purity, refined beauty


White Lily - Modesty, virginity


Orange Lily - Passion


Yellow Lily - Gaiety


Lily of the Valley - Sweetness, purity of heart


Easter Lily - Virgin Mary


Orchid - Exotic beauty, refinement, thoughtfulness, mature charm, proud and glorious femininity


Peony - Bashfulness, compassion, indignation, shame, happy life, happy marriage, good health, prosperity


King Protea - Change, transformation, daring, resourcefulness, diversity, courage


Queen Anne - Haven, sanctuary, complexity, delicateness


Ranunculus - Radiant charm, attractiveness

Snapdragon - Graciousness, strenght, deception, presumption

Statice - Remembrance, sympathy, success 
Stock - Lasting beauty, happy life, bonds of affection, promptness 
Sunflower - Pure thoughts, adoration, dedication, dedicated love, haughtiness 
Sweet Pea - Delicate pleasure, bliss, departure after having a good time 
Tulip - Declaration of love, fame, perfect love

Rose - Love

Red Rose - Love, longing, desire, respect, admiration, devotion

Deep Red Rose - Regret, sorrow

White Rose - Purity, chastity, innocence, new beginnings, sympathy, humility, spirituality

Yellow Rose - Exuberance, joy, warmth, welcome, friendship, caring, purely platonic emotions

Pink Rose - Gentleness, admiration, joy, gratitude, appreciation, elegance, grace

Orange Rose - Passion, energy, desire, pride, fervor, fascination

Lavender Rose - Enchantment, love at first sight, majesty, splendor, fascination, adoration

Blue Rose - Elusive, unattainable, mysterious, desire, I can’t have you but I can’t stop thinking about you

Green Rose - Harmony, opulence, fertility, best wishes for a prosperous new life or wishes for recovery of good health

Black Rose - Death, farewell, elusive

Mixed Roses - Mixed feelings, I don’t know my feelings yet but I care about you enough to send roses

Moss Rosebud - Confession of love

Thorn-less Rose - Love at first sight, early attachment

Leaf Rose - You may hope

Hibiscus Rose - Delicate beauty

Burgundy Rose - Unconscious beauty

Christmas Rose - Relieve my anxiety

Dog Rose - Pleasure and pain

Damask Rose - Freshness, Persian ambassador of Love

Garden Rose - I am from Mars

Tea Rose - I will remember always

Rose of Sharon - Consumed by love

Carmine Rose - Deceitful desire

Cardinal Red Rose - Sublime desire

Amaranth Red Rose - Long standing desire

Wild Rose - Simplicity

Musk Rose - Capricious beauty 
Rosa Mundi - Variety 
Single Red Rose - “I love you” 
A Single White Rose - “My feelings are pure” 
A Single Yellow Rose - “You bring joy to my life” “Let’s be friends” 
A Single Pink Rose - “I like you” 
A Single Orange Rose - “I am proud of you” 
A Single Peach Rose - “Thank you” “I sympathise with you” 
A Single Lavender Rose - “I am enchanted by you” 
A Single Blue Rose - “You seem like an unattainable dream” 
A Crown Of Roses - Reward of virtue 
A Bouquet Of Roses - Gratitude 
A Rose In A Tuft Of Grass - There is everything to be gained by good company 
One Red Rose - “I love you” “You are the one for me” 
Two Red Roses - “Let us be together” 
Three Red Roses - “You and me and our love for company” 
Five Red Roses - “I am halfway in love with you” 
Twelve Red Roses - “Be mine” 
Twenty Five Red Roses - “Congratulations” 
Fifty Red Roses - “My love for you is limitless”

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