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i think i tend to forget how good boredom is for creativity because we're all so addicted to numbing ourselves with screens and stimulation. but standing in the shower or going for a walk with no music or just sitting in your bedroom without being allowed to touch any screens & all of a sudden i have multiple new projects to start, a solution to a months-long plot problem & 4 new original characters
Transgender History: The Roots of Today’s Revolution by Susan Stryker
Covering American transgender history from the mid-twentieth century to today, Transgender History takes a chronological approach to the subject of transgender history, with each chapter covering major movements, writings, and events. Chapters cover the transsexual and transvestite communities in the years following World War II; trans radicalism and social change, which spanned from 1966 with the publication of The Transsexual Phenomenon, and lasted through the early 1970s; the mid-‘70s to 1990, the era of identity politics and the changes witnessed in trans circles through these years; and the gender issues witnessed through the '90s and '00s.
Transgender History includes informative sidebars highlighting quotes from major texts and speeches in transgender history and brief biographies of key players, plus excerpts from transgender memoirs and discussion of treatments of transgenderism in popular culture.
the thing that bothers me with 7 deadly sin based characters is when they cant decide if they embody the sin by suffering from it or by drawing it out of others. ie. if your gluttony demon is a guy who loves eating then your lust demon should be a gooner sex pest. and if your lust demon is a seductive girlboss then your gluttony demon should be a 5 star chef. does this make sense.
One thing that has made me a much more well-adjusted person is a clip I once saw of Hank Green saying that anyone can be in amazing shape as long as being in amazing shape is one of their top three priorities.
(This is obviously a generalization that isn't true for everyone. But it is true for most people and I'm proceeding from there.)
This "top three priorities" framing has genuinely reduced my tendency toward jealousy and self-comparison a lot. Now when I feel envious of someone’s spotless, aesthetic home, I think to myself, “Having a spotless, aesthetic home is probably one of their top three priorities. It’s definitely not one of mine, so I shouldn’t expect my home to look like that.”
Or when I see an influencer with a body that takes a ton of work to maintain: “Maintaining that body is obviously one of her top three priorities, because it’s her livelihood. My livelihood is my brain, so I’m never going to prioritize my body like that.”
It also helps me to identify areas that I actually DO want to prioritize more. I realized in recent years that my envy for my friends who prioritized writing more than I did was NOT going away, so I started to prioritize writing more. (Not top three, but higher priority than it has been in the past.)
as an ace person who’s also damn near aro, it can be really frustrating trying to explain to allo queers that action =/= attraction. you can have sex with someone you’re not sexually attracted to. You can date someone you’re not romantically attracted to.
Even without the attraction, the action can still be pleasurable, fun, enjoyable, etc. Attraction does add enjoyment, for most it’s an instigating factor, but sex with someone you’re sexually indifferent to is still sex. And if you like sex, then it can still be good. And even if you’re not romantically attracted to a person, you can still have fun dating. You can enjoy the intimacy. You can enjoy being loved and cared for by another person - you can enjoy loving and caring for another person. Love doesn’t have to be romantic. There’s a reason we have queer platonic relationships - because a relationship can be distinct from friendship and romance and still be loving.
But where it gets frustrating to explain to allos is that they often seem to think this ONLY applies to ace and aro people. They seem to think that we can date or have sex without attraction because we don’t feel ANY attraction, so it’s the only way we’d be able to experience these things. And it seems rather pitying much of the time, but I digress.
Allos: you can date people you aren’t romantically attracted to. You can have sex with people you aren’t sexually attracted to. My advice is to communicate intentions and feelings such that no one gets hurt in the process, but as long as everyone is on the same page, you’re good.
You can be a gay man and have sex with a woman because you’re horny and she’s also into it. You can be a lesbian and have sex with your cis male friend because he’s good in bed.
You can go on dates and do things you consider romantic with people you would never be romantically attracted to. Going to see films and candlelit dinners and picnics in the park and cuddling and kissing can all be done with someone you aren’t romantically attracted to. And you can still enjoy them. Being extremely open and honest with someone can be wonderful, and you don’t have to be romantically attracted to them to do it. You can have queer platonic relationships if you’re allo.
If there are things you want to do but you feel that you don’t currently have the ‘correct’ relationship to do it, you can build a different relationship with a willing participant to allow you these experiences.
Sometimes, to simply do things, you have to look at the cross section between what you want in an ideal scenario and what is available to you. maybe you’d prefer to be fucking a girl, but if there are only guys available, considering it doesn’t get your lesbian card revoked.
You don’t have to fit into a perfect little box and only do things that are allowed within the confines of the box. Do things that you want to do, even if the relationship isn’t permanent.
Kissing the homies goodnight isn’t gay. By extension, cooking her favourite meal to surprise her when she gets home and taking her to the drive in to steal kisses in the truck bed doesn’t make a guy straight.
Don’t let yourself be defined by people who only want to categorise you.
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Some trans men/trans mascs can do, and will:
-Treat their packers like prosthetics
-treat their packers as an extension of their own body
-Buy packers in crazy colors because who doesn't want a blue dick I MEAN C'MON
-See their packers as a sometimes thing for special occasions
-wear them every day
-Buy a packer that is as realistic as possible
-buy a massive packer because why the hell not
Basically what I'm getting at with this is:
Packing is such an under-acknowledged part of trans masc culture and I think that's really sad because it's actually really heartwarming to see all the tutorials and stories and tips and tricks and different attitudes surrounding packing. I dunno I'm just spitballing but I love it and I think it deserves more attention
me, an hour ago: "fuck, the stove is on! what do we do?" [immediately does all the wrong things]
PSA: What NOT to do when you smell gas
In this situation, we got home to a smell of gas throughout the house and discovered our gas stove was on without a flame. it was only a tiny stream, and everything turned out fine, but here's a brief list of everything we did wrong:
NOTE: this is for if you smell significant amounts of gas, not a blanket list for all possible gas situations. (If you aren't aware, the methane**/natural gas used in houses smells vaguely like sulfer, or rotten eggs - this is an additive, since it has no natural smell. It's a very recognizable smell, once you've smelled it once. It's not the same smell as gasoline.)
1. If your stove has an electrical/spark ignition, do NOT turn it off.
Spark ignitions often spark when turning on *and* off. Spark + Gas = Boom. Boom is bad. Avoid boom.
Instead, turn off the gas at the source, i.e. the physical valve at the meter. There may be a smaller valve near the stove. If you don't know where the shutoff is, the fire department will find it.
2. Do NOT turn on (or off) vents or fans.
In fact, don't flip any electrical switches - that includes lights, plugging in or unplugging appliances, etc. These cause sparks. Spark + Gas = Boom.
Also, don't start your car. obviously.
3. Do NOT open windows
counterintuitive, I know. This is mostly because you want to prioritize your exit, but it's also to keep the fumes from spreading outside, where you should be waiting for the ~professionals~ to come handle it.
4. DO take all people and pets outside.
Do this very first!! (one thing we actually did right - go us!)
This is obviously because you don't want to go boom, but you also don't want to suffocate. Gas is poison!
NOTE: the gas from your stove is probably methane (natural gas); carbon monoxide is what you get when methane burns, which is why your kitchen needs to be well-ventilated and the stove shouldn't be left burning for long periods of time, but the natural gas itself is *also* potentially deadly. Carbon monoxide detectors dont detect natural gas, so that's what the odorous additive is for.
Inhaling natural gas causes nausea, headaches, dizziness, and makes you just generally woozy, and eventually causes you to lose consciousness and potentially suffocate, just like carbon monoxide does. We don't want that.
5. DO call the fire department/emergency line
They'll check for other leaks, shut gas off if needed, then test for air quality and eventually clear your house for reentry. It takes like 1-2 hours for the gas to dissipate, generally.
Yay, you survived! Congrats!!
NOTE: if you find the stove has been left on with a flame, or it's on with no flame but you don't smell gas, then you should be safe to just open windows and turn on vents and fans to air it out.
idk, this was actually pretty scary, especially when we realized how much of our immediate response was wrong and could have turned a dangerous situation into a real disaster.
tl;dr: If you smell gas when you shouldn't be smelling gas, just get all the people and animals outside, shut off the gas line, and call the fire department or gas company. don't fuck around with gas. you're not overreacting, you're taking the proper safety measures.
**CORRECTED FROM ORIGINAL VERSION. Original said propane, but it's very much not propane, it's methane. too much Hank Hill on the brain, clearly.
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Yes to all of this! Additionally, if you had the misfortune to be living in a shitty rental house in **redacted**, you might just evacuate the house with your roommates, only to have the gas company guy come back out and say, with haunted eyes: “did you know that raw sewage is being pumped into your basement.”
And we also DID have a gas leak.
As someone whose house almost exploded last year because of a leak in the line leading into my house, please pay attention to the above. This is very good information.
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came home drunk last night and got way too excited to see my cat
goodbye, tiger
If you're fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.
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