Soulties Why and how you should break negative ones!
What are soulties and how do they develop?
There are good and bad (ungodly) soul ties that form when having a close relationship or sex with someone. The best way to explain this, is seeing your soul as a piece of wood that is glued to another one. If you separate them, parts of the other one will remain on the wood.
Soulties formed with people you are no longer involved with should be cut, seeing as they can have a negative impact on your life. Random flashes of emotion that aren´t yours, a strange sense of attachment to a long gone partner, overall just things you don´t need in your life.
Breaking or cutting those ties will give you back the pieces of the soul that you left on the other person and vice versa, so it´s benefecial for both parts. It is possible to just cut off the negative energy and bad influence of soul ties, which comes in handy if it´s a bond with a person you want to keep close.
Soul ties feel different from person to person. Some will feel strong and heavy, others will feel like fine threads connecting you. Some ties are easier to cut then others, depending on the emotional attachment you have to said person and their impact on your life. For example: A relationship that has been over for years, but left you with a lot of emotions will feel like a fine string, that, despite it thickness, is hard to cut. A hookup from last night will be thick but really fragile.
There are many methods on how to cut them and I have two of the easiest ones for you:
1. With the help of your guardian
Cleanse yourself and your immediate environment with sage or something similar. You don´t want any more negative energy with you than you already have.
Take a piece of black kyanite or pure obsidian and move it along your aura and chakras. It helps opening you up to the process.
Now ask your guardian (animal or spririt or etc.) to help you cut the cords with anyone/anything bad or negative attached to you and to send their energy back to them with light and love. (Remember that you are seperating two souls, be as gentle as you can)
Imagine a thick rope comming from your heart, connecting you to something. Pull on it as far as you can and then snap it at the base (don´t feel stupid for acting this one out!).
Now take a selenite and heal the “cut” and thank your guardian for helping you.
Relax and close your eyes. Imagine yourself going through a forest (can be anywhere you feel comfortable).
Think about the person you want to cut your ties with and let them step out in front of you.
Say your intention out loud: “I am cutting my ties with you, to set us free and let you go with love, light and peace”. In case you only want to cut of negative things: “I am cutting off everything bad and negative, to set us free and let you go in peace, with love and light”.
Pull the cord out from your heart and snap it, you can take black kyanite or pure obsidian to cut the cord (again,feel free to act it out, as it helps to visualize).
I like to hold the snapped cord in my hand and “blow” it back to the person with good energy, like a kiss.
Now, after completing this process you can make it final by burning the name:
Write down the name of the person (or an emotion or thought you want to get rid off, it can be anything) on a piece of paper and burn it. Set the ashes free in the wind outside.
I hope this will help some of you! Please message me if you have any questions or something to add!!
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