Confusionite

I don't consider myself a witch yet, I'm still not quite sure if I want to go that path but I'm collecting and practicing some things! I am a level 1 reiki practitioner and am interested in spiritual and witchy stuff. I create sigil and can offer some Tipps and tricks for spiritual and soul work.

[the-hearth-witchery]

Por Amor

So there comes a time when we would like to give our own passion a little boost. Luckily, this recipe is a quickie ;)

What you’ll need:

1 glass of red wine

Some Hibiscus tea

What you do:

Steep the Hibiscus tea in your wine for a few minutes

Enjoy your night

Note: If you’re not a big drinker, swap out the wine for some sparkling red grape juice. One glass usually does the trick.

Also: Wine begs to be shared, but CONSENT is a thing.

[oak-moon-manor-deactivated20211]

Lust Oil

We crave it every now and again. Sexual intimacy and attraction. This oil recipe was given to me by a dear friend and I'm happy to share it with you. Be careful when using this though, this is very potent stuff.

6 drops of patchouli oil

6 drops of sandalwood oil

6 drops of rose oil

6 drops of clove oil

6 drops of nutmeg oil

6 drops of olive oil.

Mix together and wear as a perfume when you're around the person you want to attract.

Just. A. Dab.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

Something I think about from time to time is that a lot of people throughout my life have claimed I’m more uh…. “noticeable” (???) than other people. A lot of times as a kid I’d get in trouble for whispering too loudly backstage at plays and other kids and adults would rally around me and say “she was being just as quiet as everyone else” and the stage manager would say “well her voice is the only one I heard.”

Anyway it never really stuck out to me until I was living in Norway and the house was separated into the upstairs and downstairs with extremely insulated walls and a carefully sealed door because the upstairs bedrooms weren’t heated and everyone hung out downstairs in the living room by the wood stove.

And one day I came through the door and everyone in the entire living room was turned to look at me and I felt self conscious obviously and I was like “uh what….” and they looked a little confused and they all said “oh nothing” and went back to their business

But it went on like that all the time. Any time I came through a door, from upstairs or outside or the kitchen, everyone was always turned to look at me and I was always a little freaked out and they were definitely noticing it too and they’d always just sort of acknowledge it with a laugh then go back to whatever they were doing

and I started trying to walk super quietly and make no noise but it was always the same and one day one of them said

“Ok. I don’t know why, but I always know when you’re coming, even if I don’t hear you.”

He said it like it was weird, because it WAS, but then Everyone else laughed and started agreeing like “yes!!! Me too!! I know when she is coming!”

And I was obviously like hey uh what does that MEAN? Do you mean you hear me? Like distinct footsteps??

And they all said no, they just get some “sense” or “feeling” that I’m about to come through the door or come home, and they can’t explain it but they always just get the feeling to turn to look and I’ll be there and then I am. I was like hello???? But they all said I shouldn’t worry about it because ultimately it doesn’t matter and after a few more minutes they all just let it go.

But this HAUNTS me

[bishkebab]

I have the exact opposite problem where people (especially at work) won’t notice me entering a space and will get exaggeratedly startled when they see me or I speak to them. Every single time they’re like “you’re so quiet!! You snuck up on me!!” Even when I had made a deliberate effort to loudly stomp up the stairs and close the door firmly so they’d have some warning before I started talking, somehow my quiet energy overcame the actual noises I was making.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

We put too many stats into charisma and stealth respectively

[thestorytellersprotege]

Why Sun-Sign “Compatibility” Isn’t Enough: In Defense of Leo

There are three things I always check when I’m considering a new addition to my astrological library:

Do they tell me anything I don’t already know?

What do they say about Aquarius?

Is their only criterion for compatibility sun sign?

Any source that focuses too much on how sun signs play together without taking other aspects into account is immediately suspect. But most specifically, I flatly refuse to listen to any source that lists Leo as one of Aquarius’s least compatible signs.

I have never understood why so many sources seems to believe that the signs across from one another must necessarily be enemies. The assumption that “opposite = bad” is a terrible one. If two signs are on opposite sides of the zodiac, it means simply that the signs stand for ‘opposite’ things. For instance, Pisces is the sign of the metaphysical, while Virgo is firmly rooted in this plane of existence. Aquarius focuses on humanity as a whole, whereas Leo focuses on the self.

Hopefully, you’ll notice that these concepts are not mutually exclusive. I may be an Aquarius, but I’m still pretty selfish. My best friend may be a Leo, but damn it, he’s one of the most selfless people I’ve ever met. It’s frankly idiotic to say that just because our signs revolve around different things, it means we can’t get along by default or otherwise aren’t compatible.

What being on opposite sides of the zodiac does is give the two of you tension. That tension brings with it a tremendous amount of energy, and if tapped into and used for creativity rather than destruction, it leads to an incredible number and variety of opportunities. So yes, that tension can lead to enmity if it isn’t kept in check. But it can also lead to a perfectly balanced and complementary friendship, as long as you develop it properly. That’s the part no one seems to acknowledge.

Obviously, I can’t speak for other opposite-sign pairs, nor can I even speak for all Aquarians. Both Aquarius and Leo have pretty bad reputations in some parts, and I have no doubt that sometimes they’re deserved. Yes, I’ve known and/or heard about quite a few underdeveloped Leos in my day. And I’ve also met some awful Aquarians. But for every unhealthy example of any sign, there are also the healthy ones, and those are the ones I’ll mostly be talking about.

Regarding opposite signs, most sources nitpick the disadvantages and ignore the potential benefits. But this essay concerns my Aquarian experiences with various Leos, as well as an analysis of the Leo personality as a whole.

Weiterlesen

[zukostrology-blog]

Dating guide for leo

Aries x Leo: A hot and fiery fairy tale until it crashes for a period of time. If you can survive this crash then this might be the relationship you've always dreamed of.

Taurus x Leo: You'll both learn a lot from each other, but you're so friend-like with each other that this is likely to be VERY awkward.

Gemini x Leo: Intense, but in a fun and playful way. Could be either really good or really bad, but doubtfully anywhere in between.

Cancer x Leo: One word: YES!!!! You'll balance each other out perfectly and simply adore each other, forming a deep and personal relationship.

Leo x Leo: Maybe short term? Could make a pretty good learning experience for both of you.

Virgo x Leo: Provides balance at first, but gradually can decay if you don't put in a lot of effort to keep the relationship alive and well.

Libra x Leo: Cute, flirty, and probably quite sexy. The kind of romance that everyone ships in animes.

Scorpio x Leo: This could be so intense that it might even take the two of you of all people aback. Try to take things slowly at first and you’ll be fine.

Sagittarius x Leo: You’re two peas in a pot, but be careful not to let events get too far ahead of you and this could be an incredible fairy-tale romance that’s hot af at the same time.

Capricorn x Leo: Opposites attract…sometimes. This could either be really awkwardly cute or a total train wreak so good luck.

Aquarius x Leo: Yes please. It’s a bit unlikely to get started but could be so perfect if it works out.

Pisces x Leo: One of those relationships that the people in it love but everyone else doesn’t seem to understand why it’s working so well.

[stillgotnoideahowigothere]

I am confident

I made another sigil👏 feel free to use

[aeneasx]

Venus & Mars signs

When Venus or Mars is in Aries, sex is best when it’s spontaneous and unrestricted. These people melt when their partner gives themselves to them innocently and purely. Some of them look for trouble in love, and are addicted to the conquest. Their heads are erogenous zones —they love it when you mess up their hair and grab their face when they are making love. They can be rather selfish in bed, and quick. They can get impatient with too much foreplay, preferring to get right to the point. Sometimes aggressive, and generally fast, these lovers are sincere and enthusiastic in their sexual expression, but not always constant. Their desires are powerful indeed. While other signs may be most aroused by the romance of the moment,  both male and females with this position are especially aroused by their partner’s sexual organs, plain and simple. These people fall in and out of “crush” easily—they only feel alive when they have someone to desire.

When Venus or Mars is in Taurus, the sexual nature involves all of the senses. Touch and smell are supremely important to these lovers. These are the most physical of sexual partners. No frills sex is quite fine, as long as the mood is right and there is plenty of physical contact. These lovers don’t have a reputation for spontaneity or variety, but they are good at what they do nonetheless, simply because they are truly right there with you. Abstaining from sex is especially difficult for Taurus, so finding a regular sex partner is particularly important. Their sexual stamina during love-making is long-lasting and steady. Although generally patient, their style is natural and physical, and intellectualizing the sex act would only serve to baffle Taurus.

When Venus or Mars is in Gemini, use words in bed with them. Talk turns them on, and they love to kiss! Oral pleasures are extra special for these lovers. They love role-playing, as long as it is varied. They are generally fun in bed, if you can forgive their sudden bursts of speech during the act. To you, an intellectual conversation may interrupt lovemaking, but to them, it’s just extended foreplay. Sometimes given to trying too much in one session, these lovers are enthusiastic and curious about all kinds of sexual expression. Still, many people with this position are not wanton lovers. The Gemini tendency to over-think brings up all of the “buts” and “what ifs” surrounding sex. They are less driven by their desires than they are by their intellect.

When Venus or Mars is in Cancer, you’ll get one of the most sensitive and sweet lovers. When they’re not pouting, they are romantic and gooey with you. They are turned on by slave scenarios, and they may like it when you’re a little mean and aggressive in bed, as long as they know you love them. Some of them are turned on by the idea of making a baby, and others just love the idea of being all yours in bed. They are known as the sign most attracted to breasts, and they generally like their men rather masculine and their women feminine, at least in fantasy. They don’t always let you know what turns them on, and expect you to intuit their sexual needs. Their style in bed is protective and soothing; devoted and emotional. Romantic and sentimental touches add something special to the equation, especially for Venus in Cancer.

When Venus or Mars is in Leo, the fantasies often revolve around devotion and attention. These people are most turned on when their partner thinks they are gods or goddesses. Although they will take care of their partners in bed, their natural inclination is to get off themselves. Their pride in their lovemaking compels them to try to be the best in bed. While some want a mate they can show off, many prefer not to have two stars in the same household. They can be quite possessive and jealous, although they’ll often try to hide this fact. In fact, they may put their partners to the test every now and again, and the more insecure ones will demand the world from their partners, if only to have them prove their love. They are prone to fibbing when it comes to love and sex, as they are out to impress their mates. They are attracted to inequality in sexual scenarios. However, they won’t let you alwaysplay the knave—they are attracted to seeing you in the most regal of scenarios too. It is hard for these people to separate love and sex. Even their most erotic sexual fantasies are infused with love and affection. They can sometimes come on too strong, and get impatient when their needs are not met soon enough, but you may appreciate their direct sexual expression, and their openness in bed.

When Venus or Mars is in Virgo, there is generally a healthy attitude towards sex. Sex to them is a bodily function, necessary for health and general well-being. Everyday stresses and tensions are released in sex, whether it’s with others or with themselves. They are turned on by people who have largely gone unnoticed. Simple and sweet is the way they like their bed partners. They also get turned on by the idea that they are your slave. They love doing little things for you, and get worked up when they know you appreciate all the things they do. They can be a little insecure about their own bodies, and they make up for it by paying close attention to their methods of turning you on. They are very respectful of your likes and dislikes, and focus on the things that have had the most success. Virgo is the sign of the virgin, and this aspect gives others the idea that they are very selective. Don’t be entirely fooled by this, however. They are not as picky as they appear. In fact, they love imperfections and have the best time with a partner who needs care. They’ll make a project out of you, and you will likely never feel quite so attended to with anyone else. Their fantasies often feature the downtrodden and inexperienced. They are insatiably curious about sex, although many don’t take their curiosity much beyond fantasy. Voyeurism is especially appealing to these lovers. We are giving Virgo a little more attention than other signs simply because we feel this sign has been misunderstood on the topic of sex. They are generally not as picky and particular as their reputation says—and they are not as “virginal” either. In fact, they want to please and to be savvy in the lovemaking arena. They’ll generally “do” more than many other signs, and they’re not afraid of getting dirty either, within the confines of a healthy relationship.

When Venus or Mars is in Libra, extra care is taken to please the partner. These people can be provocative in a quiet way. Their need for balance and perfection in their relationships may manifest itself at all the wrong moments. In bed, these lovers want things to be balanced. They love working on getting things right, and are especially turned on by role-playing sex games. They have a strong need for change and growth in their sexual expression. They are givers in bed, but they fully expect you to give equally in return. Although they can be pushed around for a time, their lovers must be aware that the best way to keep Libra lovers happy is to keep everything fair. These lovers can be a little picky when it comes to mood and atmosphere while making love (Virgo is all too often assigned this trait, but our experience suggests that Libra is the pickiest of lovers). Make them happy, however, and you have a lover who is going to think about you and your needs. These lovers can charm the birds out of the trees when they want to.

When Venus or Mars is in Scorpio, the sexual nature can be quite complex. These lovers generally share a common intensity and depth in their sexual desires, but they vary in expression depending on their level of development. Some enjoy power and are attracted to breaking taboos. These lovers are willing to do almost anything, and they enjoy full-body pleasures. Others express their need for control by being unavailable and abstaining for long periods of time, giving in only when they feel their partner is deserving. Whatever their nature, they have a way that promises commitment and intensity in bed. They are provocative but private. Most will never kiss and tell. Sex is intimate and personal for Scorpio, but their fantasies are full-ranging.

When Venus or Mars is in Sagittarius, sex is treated rather like a sport. These lovers are direct and forthcoming with their desires and needs. They have an almost innocent frankness about them, and they love to have fun in bed. Laughing and roughhousing are huge turn-ons. They are actually a bit selfish in sex, and their need to “get off” will almost always be expressed. Games are acceptable for Sagittarius lovers, just as long as they are not too time-consuming or intricate. They have little patience with people playing hard to get or beating around the bush. The same goes for too much seriousness or romancing. The best way to approach sex with these people is to just do it, and then talk about it after the fact, if need be.

When Venus or Mars is in Capricorn, sex that is straightforward and simple is generally best. The reputation for Capricorn lovers is an attraction to experienced, and sometimes older, partners. They often prefer strong, powerful lovers who display some sort of authority or know-how. These lovers prefer a certain measure of discretion. Capricorn is an earth sign, and this earthiness shows up in love-making style—it’s generally no-frills that is most appealing to these lovers. They can be quite happy with consistency, as variety is less important to them than is security in sexual expression. However, their sexuality is deep and powerful. They are often quite private about what goes on in the bedroom. Although some will want others to know that they are on top of things in their sex life, they generally won’t get into messy details.

When Venus or Mars is in Aquarius, there is a “take it or leave it” style that can be sexy or maddening, depending on the audience. They don’t have a reputation for warmth in sex, although they may think the other way around because, at least in theory, they are open-minded. They give off an air of being savvy and cool in bed. Sex from a distance (when you are not actually there physically), or in theory, is often where they shine. That is why cyber or phone sex, or affairs that don’t break up marriages, can be especially attractive to these folks. They are most turned on when you are not, as detachment can be a real turn-on for them. And, again, the idea of sex is generally more exciting to these lovers than the actual act. Their fantasies often involve getting caught having sex, and they are attracted to people who are a little offbeat or odd.

When Venus or Mars is in Pisces, a subtle approach to flirting and sex is taken on. These lovers are generally open to all of the avenues of sexual expression, especially the nooks and crannies. They are forgiving and bending, and they are generally willing to please. At times romantic and gooey, these lovers are actually a bit like chameleons. It’s hard to pin them down to any one style. They may talk a lot one evening, and be withdrawn the next. In general, they prefer non-verbal expressions of love and are attracted to imbalance. Self-sacrifice, compassion, and even religion can be mixed into their sexual expression. They’re very sensitive but will almost always forgive you. They’ll even let you go if you so desire, and love you forever anyways. Although they can be shy and yielding, their lovers can sometimes find them maddeningly detached and spaced. Their fantasies are intricate and detailed, and they are attracted to the downtrodden or needy.

[libraloving]

missing elements

a missing element often symbolises something that was absent from a chart, discouraged, or ignored in the persons upbringing and therefor something we have to figure out ourselves. a lack of an element would be having two or less planets in an element. it is by no means a hard and fast rule, but when you discover a lacking element - check the descendant. this placement will often be the element you lack and/or qualities you search for and attract most in others/the world.

lack of fire? a lack of value placed on spontaneity, risk taking, passion and enthusiasm, backbone or the child’s individuality. you may attract.. people who are wild, loud and encourage you to stand up for yourself.

lack of earth? a lack of money, physical or emotional stability, motivation, connection to animals and nature or lack of instructions regarding life. you may attract… someone who displays a lot of stability, are grounded and easy to rely on.

lack of air? a lack of encouragement with learning, sympathy, interest or value placed on that child’s expression of personal views or ideas or interest in others. you may attract… people who are social and confident, who encourage you to express your intellect and those who encourage you to be open-minded.

lack of water? a lack of regard for child’s feelings, control over anger, empathy, close relationships or a family culture of devaluing or suppressing emotions. you may attract… someone who is sensitive, open and those who encourage you to express emotions gracefully.

personally i find this subject incredibly interesting as i lack water and throughout my life i have always found comfort in people who are water signs. my best friends have always, without fail, been a water sign.

[sigilseer]

“I am inspired and motivated”

[sigilseer]

A sigil to help one grow and flourish, even in difficult times. 

Commission for himawaricollection

Sigil commissions are currently open for $25 each, please message me if interested :)

[murmaiden-blog1]

The Elements and their correspondences

E A R T H

Earth represents strength, grounding, prosperity, the material, wealth, success, foundations, death and rebirth. Focus on this element if the goal of your spell is about fertility, prosperity, business or stability. Earth spells may take longer to work, but they’re also more firm and are good if you’re looking for long-term solutions.

GENDER: Feminine SEASON: Winter DIRECTION: North HOUR: Night

COLOURS: Green, Brown, Black ANIMALS: Bears, Deers, Wolves, Badgers HERBS/PLANTS: Ivy, Ash, Vetiver, Wheats, Oats INSTRUMENTS: Drums (Percussion instruments)

STAR SIGNS: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn STONES/GEMS: Jade, Onyx, Emerald, Salt RITUAL TOOLS: Stones, Dirt, Bones, Pentacle, Salt, Crystals  RITUAL FORMS: Burying, Planting, Imprinting to soil or sand TAROT SUIT: Pentacles

A I R

Air represents intellect and the mind, wisdom, knowledge; logic as well as abstract thought, intuition and higher consciousness. If you’re seeking freedom, travels, or to enhance your memory and focus - focus on Air spells! Air is whimsical and amiable, personally I haven’t found it useful for more serious spells, but it does wonders for my studies. 

GENDER: Masculine SEASON: Spring DIRECTION: East HOUR: Dawn

COLOURS: Yellow, White, Sky Blue, Pastels ANIMALS: Birds, Spiders, Butterflies HERBS/PLANTS: Lavender, Birch, Vervain, Dill, Aspen INSTRUMENTS: Flute (Wind instruments)

STAR SIGNS: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius STONES/GEMS: Amethyst, Opal, Alexandrite, Beryl RITUAL TOOLS: Incense, Wand RITUAL FORMS: Fanning, Tossing into air, Suspending in a high place  TAROT SUIT: Swords

F I R E

Fire represents energy, passion, purification, love, inspiration, desire, will, courage, power, leadership, sexuality. In spellcraft, focusing on Fire is good for purification, healing and love spells; it’s the best element for quick, strong spells. Although, Fire is fierce in essence, and Fire spells are susceptible - they should be well thought out.

GENDER: Masculine SEASON: Summer DIRECTION: South HOUR: Noon

COLOURS: Red, Orange, Gold ANIMALS: Snakes, Lions, Horses HERBS/PLANTS: Cacti, Cinnamon, Pepper, Basil INSTRUMENTS: Guitar (Stringed instruments)

STAR SIGNS: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius STONES/GEMS: Amber, Citrine, Ruby, Tiger’s Eye RITUAL TOOLS: Athame, Candles RITUAL FORMS: Burning, Smouldering, Heating TAROT SUIT: Wands

W A T E R

Water represents purification as well; though it’s focused more on the soul and the subconscious rather than the physical, material world. Water stands for emotion, intuition, wisdom, eternal movement, reflection, lunar energy. Focusing on the Water element is good for psychic abilities, getting in tune with your inner self, mysteries, friendships, love, dreams and sleep.

GENDER: Feminine SEASON: Autumn DIRECTION: West HOUR: Dusk

COLOURS: Blue, Indigo, Silver ANIMALS: Otters, Fish, Sea Mammals, Frogs HERBS/PLANTS: Lotus, Water Lilies, Aloe, Gardenia INSTRUMENTS: Cymbal, Bell (Resonant instruments)

STAR SIGNS: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces STONES/GEMS: Moonstone, Aquamarine, Pearl RITUAL TOOLS: Cauldrons, Chalices, Seashells RITUAL FORMS: Diluting, Placing into water, washing away, bathing TAROT SUIT: Cups

[spirarere]

yuletide new year spell

[ for banishing the bad from the current year and sending well wishes into the new year ♡]

— this december ive been adopting a more positive mindset and taking care of myself and my house more so i wanted to truly lock that into place with a spell for this yule!! (also because its discreet and simple enough that i can bring my friends into my craft this year!)

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what you will need:

❄ strips of paper to write on

❄ a red pen and a gold pen (or black and a silver one!) [black or red = banishment // silver or gold = wishes]

❄ a fireplace (or somewhere safe to burn the strips of paper!)

❄ a healing sigil (for more understanding check step four!!)

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step one: begin with the banishing; take your red or black pen and write out different things you wish to banish from your life going into the new year (i.e. pointless drama, negative energies, toxic relationships, self hate, etc.) (i personally would avoid using peoples names and such)

step two: crumple each of those strips of paper up (as if you were getting ready to discard of them in the trash –> you are throwing them out of your life)

step three: toss these pieces of paper into the fire and as you do so really focus and visualize them slowly burning the words off and those things leaving your life

step four: before you move onto wishing draw a healing sigil on another piece of paper with either silver or gold and gently put it into the fire (do not crumple it) visualize it changing the fires intent (like adding food coloring to water or adding an oil to a candle) [the sigils can mean things such as “move on from the past” or just “general healing” etc.]

step five: now we move onto wishing; now take your silver or gold pen and write down what you want to bring into the new year (i.e. more self love, rewarding friendships, new opportunities, etc.)

step six: once youre finished gently let the pieces of paper fall into fire, visualizing as they burn those concepts puffing up into the smoke and spreading into the air and into the world

☆ after step: when youre done wishing you may let the fireplace continue to burn but once its done, collect the ashes (carefully!) into a jar or a bag or however you can –> take them outside and let them out into the air and the wind (the wind will take the ashes of the bad and send them far, far away and the wishes you have into the air and the universe) [you do not have to send them high just so long as they are outside! please be careful to not get any in your eyes or on you!]

thank the universe and be done!! blessed yule and new year!!! ♡

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(special thanks to @in-her-broomcloset and @theclutteredbroomcupboard for helping me come up with a more solid idea for this spell!! i.e. the pen colors and the following through with the ashes!!!)

[stillgotnoideahowigothere]

Me after getting roasted by my astrology profile:

[awakenedchaos]

✨ Cleansing Masterpost ✨

🌟 [Visual Cleansing] 🌟 [Easy Cleansing Spray] 🌟 [Hekate Shower Cleansing] 🌟 [Cleansing Methods] 🌟 [When You Should Cleanse Yourself and/or Your Space] 🌟 [Cleansing in Witchcraft] 🌟 [Life Cleanse - What I did] 🌟 [Cleansing Chant] 🌟 [How To Cleanse Your Room of Bad Energy] 🌟 [Wind Cleansing] 🌟 [Energy Clearing and Infusing] 🌟 [Cleansing…] 🌟 [Cleansing Your Space Without Smoke]

Herb Correspondences

sage

lavender

myrrh

dragon’s blood

sandalwood

salt

lemon

rosemary

bay laurel

basil

rue

mugwort 

Crystal Correspondences

Quartz

Selenite

Black Tourmaline

Celestite

Moonstone

Lepidolite

Citrine

Obsidian

[leodrune]

spell to dull your feelings for someone

This spell is designed to quell (but not obliterate) romantic feelings you have toward someone. If this person is taking up too much of your heart’s and mind’s energy, this spell is for you. You will need:

♦  Bay leaf (healing, protection, purification and strength)

♦  Cinnamon stick (healing, success, power)

♦  Pink fabric (self-love, calming, personal harmony, matters of love)

♦  Black pen/paint and string or ribbon

1. Cut a small square of pink fabric and lay it on your workspace.

2. Write your name on one side of the bay leaf in large letters, and your chosen’s name on the other side in smaller letters. When finished, whisper to the leaf: “May my heart loosen its grasp on (name) and promote healthy feelings.”

3. Lie the bay leaf in the center of the fabric, and pick up the cinnamon stick. Whisper to it, “may your magic heal my heart and allow health in love.”

4. Place the cinnamon on top of the bay leaf and gently fold the fabric over it into a little envelope. Hold it in your hands for a moment; visualize you and your chosen holding hands, and then let go of their hand. Feel contentment in this thought.

5. Wrap the ribbon/thread around the envelope and hide it in a drawer.

[returntoeden]

✨ Types of Soulmates ✨

Hi everyone! When doing love readings for people, I tend to always mention the word ‘soulmate’ which is why I thought I’d actually make a post about the topic. The term can be a bit confusing due to the various connotations that it’s accumulated over time. Most people imagine that meeting their soulmate will unfold like a fairytale and instantly lead to happily ever after! But this isn’t always the case! You’ll meet several different soulmates in your lifetime, all of them serving different purposes. Soooo let’s get into this shit! (starting in no particular order!)

1. Platonic Soulmate: The platonic soulmate will manifest as your best friend and partner in crime! There’s a sense of effortlessness when you two meet. There’s no hesitation and you feel a sense of ease when you’re around. Your platonic soulmate is the person you know was destined to be your Maid of Honor or Best Man haha. The platonic soulmate is usually the simplest out of all the connections as they exist in your path to make life more enjoyable. Some people may mistake a platonic soulmate for a romantic/companion soulmate but they’ll usually both realize that they’re better off as friends. Someone who is asexual or aromantic will likely stay with their platonic soulmate as they don’t feel the need to connect with anyone else. This can be extremely fulfilling! 

2. Soul Family: Ahhhh soul families are a total fucking blessing! Members of a soul family all come from the same branch of consciousness and have similar life paths. Soul families can be literally anyone who has the same interests, beliefs, mindset, and energetic vibration as you! The key aspect of a soul family is that our souls were created in the same dimension/planet and we always incarnate together. Our soul family has travelled the same paths and have had to learn the same lessons. All members of a soul family are working towards the same mission. I say they’re a blessing because I find it extremely comforting to know that you have other people who feel and think in the same way that you do! Your actual family may be a part of your soul family but not always. There are definitely members of your soul family who you may not actually ever meet. Some soul groups have 2,000 people while others have 20. It simply depends on your mission! 

3. Past Life Soulmate: Our past life soulmate(s) are usually romantic and they’re someone who is returning from a past life. When you feel as though you instantly recognize someone, this is a clear sign that they’re a past life connection. Your past life soulmate can reincarnate with you every life time or only occasionally. Either way, this person is usually in your life to remind you of something you’ve forgotten about your own soul. They subconsciously bring back information from a past life in order to deepen your spirituality. This could be a long term or short term relationship! Past life soulmates are a part of your soul family!

4. Karmic Soulmates: Ohhh the lovely karmics… Karmic Soulmates are like fucked up past life soulmates. They’re from your past life but they show up in this life because there’s an unlearned lesson or unsettled business between you two. This karmic imbalance desperately needs to be resolved before you can progress. To be fair, karmics don’t always have to be horrible! They serve a very important purpose though. I’d even go as far as to say that they’re the most necessary. They present challenges and conflicts in order to make you stronger. Your first heartbreaks are usually a result of karmic relationships. They’re kind of like stepping stones to your twin flame or romantic soulmate! Karmics are almost always temporary and can be friends, family, or lovers.

5. Healing Soulmate: Healing soulmates usually emerge after a karmic relationship ends. Or after a defeating period in your life. They can come in the form of a friend, a parent, a teacher, a lover, or even a stranger. They offer you comfort and help set you back on your path. Healing soulmates are usually temporary as they mostly exist in our lives for a specific issues. Some healing soulmates may stick around and assist you with future conflict as well, though! 

6. New Soul: This one is pretty straight forward! Not everyone you meet will be from a past life. A new soul is someone we’ve never had contact with. They usually show upwhen we’ve completed all karmic trials or, for whatever reason, have rejected the romantic soulmate/twin flame partner. This person will spark intrigue, curiosity, and fascination in you. We’ll crave a connection with this person but things usually happen slower with a new soul because of the unfamiliarity. Most karmic relationships start off as a new soul that wasn’t originally in our Soul Contract. Which can be vv exciting! 

7. Romantic/Companion Soulmate:  Your romantic soulmate is often described as ‘The One’! They’re your perfect match in this lifetime and the person that your higher self decided to unite with. Of course, you can always stray from your soul contract but most people don’t! The romantic soulmate will offer you so much joy, happiness, and emotional depth. They’re the person you’re likely to marry and will help to move you along your path with an open heart. When we unite with a companion soulmate, we experience unconditional love and bliss. Every relationship will still have it’s problems but you’ll be able to work through these things in harmony. The romantic soulmate can be a new soul or past life connection!

8. The Twin Flame: Not everyone has a twin flame in this lifetime or a twin flame at all! But your twin flame is the perfect REFLECTION of you. You two are parts of the same consciousness. It’s still possible to be whole without your twin flame but, when you two come together, it creates something incredibly powerful. I made an entire post on twin flames so feel free to search for it on my page! 

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Keep in mind that you might have multiple types of each soulmate in your life & that’s okay! Alternatively, you might not have one of these relationships. Most people will experience 7/8, but nothing is guaranteed. I’d love to hear about your ow experiences with the 8 types of soulmates! Thank you so much for reading! ✨✨

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Made some sigils today🙌

From front to back:

I stay in shape

I will get this job

I am healthy

I am productive