Honestly, forgiving and letting go of pain is one of the hardest things to do. However, If you want to forgive this person do it. You might need to ask God to help you through it especially if it’s pain you’ve never felt before The only way to know if someone deserves forgiveness, is in their actions and who they are as people. You’re the only one that knows if the person deserves your forgiveness. I personally feel even if someone doesn’t deserve forgiveness, you should still forgive for your own health. I’ve learnt not forgiving and holding on to hurt and pain actually is more stressful than forgiving , because you constantly make yourself feel unhappy by holding on to the issue. You can forgive someone and let go of the pain and move on. They don’t even need to know they’ve been forgiven. You forgive for yourself first before anything else 💕