sup people

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[daily-spooky]

[tinagodiva]

Beautiful village view in Faroe islands 💚 🇫🇴

[hhfdyjn]

31/100

[seabeck]

85mm, 50mm

[boobookittenartblog]

Katherine Quinn - Out of the Blue

[konoko]

i cannot wait to financially afford who i really am

[sleepyberry]

[veryluckyclovers]

[idc0o]

some of yall didnt go insane at 15 and it shows

[veryluckyclovers]

[oneterabyteofkilobyteage]

original url http://www.geocities.com/Tokyo/Flats/2699/

archived on 2009-04-27 13:09:06

[phoenixdownacademy]

You do not need to have your entire future figured out today. You just need to keep walking in alignment long enough for the fog to thin.

“Stop trying to force the bloom. Water the roots.”

substack.com/@phoenixdownacademy

[nonbinaryjudean]

made you some graphics to help you remember

[cuddlycryptid]

we need to get waaaay normaler about sex Now!!!

[cuddlycryptid]

we need to break down both our discomfort around sex, and our beliefs that sex is somehow Uniquely Important. it's cool if you don't want to have sex personally- this isn't about that. it's about how we, culturally, need to accept that sex is literally just A Normal Activity That People Can Do. there is NO moral, spiritual, or otherwise unique Weight behind sex that makes it different from other activities- it can involve different parts of your body, but thats literally it. all other importance is purely cultural, and tbh that cultural weight it does waaay more harm than good

[cuddlycryptid]

just a few things that could change if we remove cultural significance and all accept that Sex is literally a Totally Normal Activity: - it becomes easier to establish and discuss boundaries, and you receive less pushback if you choose to abstain for whatever reason

-conservatives cant censor or attack entire groups of people just by creating an association between them and sexuality (ex. women, queer people and especially trans people, people of color and especially Black people)

-it becomes easier and normal to discuss sexuality, allowing for more information and resources to be shared and for victims of abuse to speak up

-countless people don't experience sex-shaming and judgement from others, and countless people have FAR less internalized guilt around the TOTALLY NORMAL experience of having sexual desire

-a lot of unnecessary weight is removed from the already-traumatizing experience of being a SA or CSA victim

-more people are free to fully embrace the sexuality aspect of their lives, in a way that is both healthy and fun!!

if you havent started the work to deconstruct your beliefs and discomfort around sex...you too can be free!! it starts with all of us!!

[cuddlycryptid]

if you dont know what i mean about "unnecessary weight" around SA-

my csa was ACTUALLY an assault on my physical body, a violation of my boundaries, and a betrayal of my trust in order to exert power over me

my csa FELT like all of that shit, PLUS: a shameful secret i could never talk about, a religious damnation, a stain on my morality, a physical "dirtying", a stealing of something that was spiritually paramount (but also irreplaceable), and much, MUCH more!!

kill the idea that sex is anything other than what it is. sex has NO moral, relational, spiritual, religious, ethical, (etc etc) Special Qualities that are inherent to it!!! we made all that all up!! take my hand we can escape it together!!

[pyrrhiccomedy]

We should go back to calling things wack. Shit's never been wacker

[achillesinhighheels]

[blackmodel]

Youve seen summer, now get ready for

9 months of crippling anxiety and stress