𓈒 ୭ৎ ihrtnies shiftalk ★ 📓 ۪ ݁ 𓈒 ( dating. )
𐔌 hi, I’m Anuera or as most call me, Nie! Today I wanna speak on the subject of dating in ur dr as someone whos shifted 44x. 𐦯
۪ 🎱 ꒰ disclaimer ꒱ ۪ ݁ this is coming from my experience, so please take what resonates! ݁ ۪ ୧
౿ ׂ ִ 01 ⁀ ˳ ⊹⠀liking someone .
when it comes to starting to like someone in a dr, especially a fame reality, I feel as though it can be hard cause a lot of people tend to suck and fuck on a lot of people and a lot of people don’t have true decency for people .. and sometimes, they LOW KEY just wanna sleep with others with no true feelings. Having such a busy life can be so much harder to fall in love to be truly honest. & as much as you want more with someone it can be very hard.
and when you do finally like someone, it can be hard to express your feelings cause a lot of people shut out true feelings or the idea of being with someone. . and when someone likes you back they can react very differently, they’d either be straight up, try to make fast advances, or won’t tell you at all but feel some type of way when you are in another relationship.
I will say this! ur options are always open, however a lot of idols have very strict types cause they’ve seen how their fans act .. and yeah, they hate ts!
౿ ׂ ִ 02 ⁀ ˳ ⊹⠀getting with someone .
actually getting with someone is like the part that pisses me off cause they be so quick to rush into things, weather it’s sleeping with eachother, or anything else that’s really couple like. They get so used to just doing those things they find “asking someone out” to be useless ..??? like girl we scissor. & sometimes a lot of peoples personalities be for their fans and sometimes they use that same personality to get with you ..
dating can get so fucking toxic as a idol / celebrity. Theres a lot of ruthless cheaters who don’t care about embarrassing you, esp in public. I will not say names when I say this .. but, I once saw a idol get embarrassed so bad by a male idol that she had to switch industries from idol to western & Everytime i think about it I scream! But please that honey moon stage will do you BAD. Like I swear so many male idols get female idols by that facade of a gentle man.
౿ ׂ ִ 03 ⁀ ˳ ⊹⠀jealousy .
jealousy in the industry is in fact something serious asf. Reassurance, is in fact not enough sometimes. Working with people for ambassadorships/ music shows, can infact tear away at your s/os feelings. it’s the fact that you spend more time with someone youre getting paid to work with rather than your s/o can definitely eat away at their feelings, and this can contribute to toxicity that lasts a WHILE!
౿ ׂ ִ 04 ⁀ ˳ ⊹⠀bitter exs .
bitter exs is the WORST! Thing to experience in the industry, they will go as far as to ruin your career to make themselves feel better at times. Sometimes they’re just bat shit crazy, and from my experience make a dis song about you!