IF YOU’RE NOT WILLING TO LOCK IN WITH SHIFTING FOREVER YOU WILL NEVER FREE YOURSELF FROM NEEDING THE 3D TO VALIDATE YOUR TRUST
i repeat.
IF YOU’RE NOT WILLING TO LOCK IN WITH SHIFTING FOREVER—IE UNDERSTAND THAT SHIFTING MIGHT JUST TAKE YOU A LIFETIME—YOU WILL NEVER FREE YOURSELF FROM NEEDING THE 3D TO VALIDATE YOUR TRUST
i know it fucking sucks to hear that shifting has no timeline. i know it sucks to be years in and not feel any closer. i know it sucks to feel like you’ve wasted your energy on something that may never come. but i can’t give you the assurance that you only have to persist for __ much longer until it’s “your turn”. i can’t. if you wanna shift, you have to lock in WITHOUT the assurance of how much time it will take. you have to trust yourself before the shift comes. and if you cannot do that, if you cannot help but turn against yourself and be self critical and self punishing, shifting is going to be detrimental to your mental well being.
everyone can shift, and shifting is inevitable but it doesn’t mean that everyone should label themselves a shifter. being a shifter comes with a toll. you get berated, by others and sometimes yourself. you experience the full scope of emotions for things you cannot prove. you go to awesome places, but sometimes there are terrible things in those places. you develop and evolve quicker than others because you can almost speed-run through life’s many obstacles and lessons. you will lose yourself only to gain 10 more of you. time stops being real. life here gets duller, less colorful, almost like a buffer for life there. you’ll experience more in one night than some people experience in 20 years. and all of this will exist only within your head.
it is PERFECTLY valid and reasonable if that toll is not something you can pay right now. or ever. please protect your peace. your peace is worth more than any DR. that, I PROMISE YOU, is the case for everyone.
Do you ever have random memories of other realities pop up in your head while in your current? Like I'll be doing homework and then bam, a random memory of me and my dr friends hanging out
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Yes! I do get memories whilst I’m in my cr, which is very common with people who are shifting realities. You are always connected to a reality. The only thing that shifts is ur awareness, so memories come and go like here!
Memories are just things youve experienced, so it feels the same from ur drs. Memories are great to motivate you & give urself intel about ur own realities.
What I recommend the most when getting dr memories is writing them down so when you read them later you connect the dots to dr drama you didn’t script, and other silly things!
In the dizzying whirlwind of our modern lives, with its notifications, deadlines, and endless to-do lists, it's easy to overlook the little things. Our quest for big achievements, exotic vacations, and grand celebrations often overshadows the understated moments that make up our daily lives. Yet, there's a profound beauty and solace in the mundane, waiting to be discovered.
The Magic of Morning Rituals
Consider the simple act of brewing your morning coffee or tea. The aromatic scent that wafts through your kitchen, the warmth of the mug against your palms, and that first invigorating sip – it's a ritual that beckons a new day, filled with possibilities. It's not just about the caffeine kick, but the quiet moments we grant ourselves before the day's chaos ensues.
Nature's Everyday Theater
Look out of your window. Even if you're in the heart of a bustling city, nature is putting on a daily show. The radiant hues of a sunrise, the gentle rustle of leaves in the breeze, or even the rhythmic patter of rain against the windowpane. These are nature's gentle reminders of its cyclic rhythm, urging us to pause and sync our own rhythms with the world around us.
The Joy of Daily Tasks
Believe it or not, there's a meditative quality in mundane chores. The rhythmic act of washing dishes, the soft hum of a vacuum cleaner, or the therapeutic act of decluttering can be grounding experiences. They tether us to the present moment, offering a break from the incessant noise in our heads.
Conversations and Connections
Everyday joy is also about connections. A brief chat with a neighbor, a spontaneous phone call to a friend, or even the simple act of greeting your local grocery store cashier can forge bonds. It's in these fleeting interactions that we find a shared human experience.
Rediscovering Your Space
Sometimes, joy is about rediscovery. Re-read a favorite book, revisit old photographs, or rearrange your furniture. Familiar spaces and objects can offer new perspectives and insights when looked at with fresh eyes.
Wrapping Up
The art of finding joy in the mundane is essentially about shifting our perspective. It's about appreciating life's quiet moments and finding depth in simplicity. It's recognizing that while milestones and grand celebrations are significant, there's immeasurable joy to be found in the spaces in between.
In the words of novelist Alice Walker, "Expect nothing. Live frugally on surprise." Life's everyday surprises, no matter how small, are the threads that weave the beautiful tapestry of our existence. So, let's cherish them.
So this is quite personal but it’s something that I want to post, because sadly I know that there will be many, many women out there who this is going to resonate with. It’s all about a realisation I’ve had which is helping me deal with /manage some not great behaviour which is just not ever going to change - and maybe it’ll help someone else out there. I feel like it’s personal growth for me to have reached this point, too, and it felt like a safe space to share.
TW: parental toxicity, talk about weight, food, body image.
My mum is a solid and reliable person. She is loyal to a fault and passionate about family and a very strong-willed woman. A force of nature. She is fierce. She’s gone through slightly more personal tragedies than the average human. One hundred percent, she would kill for me and my dad. All in all, we have a good relationship. But there is one aspect that has always been difficult to deal with.
I think we all know that it’s unwise for parents to comment on their children’s weight/body/diet. Even if there are genuine concerns, there are ways to tackle said concerns and ways not to. And this goes for any child/person, of any body type. But it’s something I have particularly struggled with as someone who has a very different build to my very petite mother. I am tall and athletic while my mother is absolutely tiny. There has been a lot of vigilance regarding my body, always. ‘That doesn’t look as good as you think it does’. ‘Are you sure you want to eat that.’ The ‘big-boned’ comments were meant as ‘compliments’ but were neverending. As was the focus on my posture, and how inelegant I was, and the emphasis on that I always needed to be active as if there was an undercurrent of concern as to what would happen to my body if I stopped exercising. All of this focus on my body which in turn made me hyperfocused on it. I’m that person obsessively watching myself in every reflective surface to make sure I’m standing normally. Because usually I don’t; I tend to shrink in on myself in an effort to seem physically smaller. I slouch in photos to make myself small, too.
I won’t go into detail about all of the comments I’ve received over the years, because they did get progressively worse. Some of them were extremely damaging - especially over the last two years. Me gaining 8kg over quarantine sparked endless debates.
Recently, though, I’ve come to the realisation that a lot of these comments might not actually come from a terrible place after all; and not in the way that all those Psychology Today articles suggest (’they do it because it’s their way of loving you, even though it’s flawed, unsolicited advice etc etc’). What they say goes some way when it comes to explaining it, but.. I simply have started to believe that sometimes, it’s as simple as this:
As a petite woman, my mum just can’t comprehend what it’s like to not be petite.
She has no frame of reference. Every woman on her side of the family is relatively small. She has been taught that petite is petite and that not-petite is big. That big can be negative. Needs someone to keep an eye on it. She does not understand what it is like to be the tallest in the class and how working out requires you to eat more to keep energy levels up. For her, good food and no bad food/less food + ‘moving your body’ (cardio only) = weight loss. No matter how much I try to explain that strength training combined with cardio is much more effective in getting leaner, she is horrified at the idea of me getting muscly because ‘that should not be your goal’. She is not a fan of tattoos but one big concern she has in relation to mine is ‘why would you want to show off your body?’. It is not said with disgust, more like a genuine question bred from genuine curiosity - she can’t fathom it. It isn’t out of spite that she feels these things but more because she a) has been taught certain things about how women should be and b) as a smaller woman her experience is completely different to mine.
I am trying to actively remember this as I go to visit my parents this weekend as undoubtedly, the fact that I posted a bikini holiday pic on instagram will be a pressing topic of conversation. I am trying to remember that she doesn’t know how tall/curvy women experience the world. I’m trying to see it as something that makes her really confused - because this is ultimately easier than seeing it as a constant slight against my physical appearance. It helps that I now think this is the genuine reason for her comments all these years. Just wish that it had taken me less than thirty years to figure it out.
Anyway, water off a duck’s back.
(I would like to add that this may not be the case for everyone experiencing a similar situation. Some people are just shitty to the core. But for others, the situation is much more complex. This is just my perspective on my own experience.)
Just realised I never clarified something about Shifting Perspective Scott
He was still legally a child when he was put on a throne and his brother abandoned him! He was not meant to be left alone, and he had just lost his parents.
He, a child, was surrounded by people who hated him and given the task of repairing a broken country.
And the current story takes place 14 years after his parents deaths, when he's 162.
That's the human equivalent of about 2 years after the event. Meaning he's still suffering from the impact of that!
(This was your fun fact for while I work on the next chapter!)
Life doesn’t really begin until we start living life for ourselves. For some that can take most if not all of their life. The most common recorded regret from people on their deathbeds is that they did what was expected of them, not what they truly wanted.
The problem with society is that it values conformity over innovation. The people who found the cure to cancer, developed a cigarette with non toxic chemicals and the man who invented a car that runs purely on renewable energy have all been found mysteriously dead. That is fact. We are told to find answers but once we find ones that don’t suit the elite we are punished for it. Society runs on the exploitation of the masses.
How can anyone be happy if the system is rigged in favour of the bastards who exploit children and the vulnerable?
Well, what they’re really scared of that they can’t control is the great awakening. More people are realising how fucked up this system is and how government’s all over the world have been corrupted. More people are waking up to the lie that we only have one life and that there’s only this plane of existence to experience. There is so much more than we can ever comprehend, but we can sure as hell try. They’re scared because they can’t control spirituality and all the opportunities that lay ahead of those who accept what’s beyond. Religion isn’t even scratching the surface of what is there.
And you may be thinking, who the hell is this 18 year old to tell us that society itself is a lie. But it is. And you don’t have to believe me but seek it out for yourself, there is no harm in that. All that can come of it is that you grow as a person.
I know there is more to life than most can see, I have lived there. It is my home. Most of my past lives transcend Earth and this weak dimension.
I don’t claim to be a saviour, a preacher or anything of the sort. I’m simply a soul, connecting my experiences and weaving it to form truth. I hope this post reaches those who need it. I hope one day I can help others awaken, I want to guide people. I want to help people find their truth and help us shift into the next dimension.
can someone explain to me why whenever someone talks about shifting in some context there’s always a commenter asking if they’ve actually done it and then when that shifter says “yes!!” the commenter replies with some question about how long?? because all it does is imply that your shift isn’t meaningful unless it was to their desired length of time and i think it’s so annoying. like babes, i hate to break it to you but you being so stuck on the length of a shift is probably why you aren’t seeing the results you want to. besides the fact that shifting is natural and we’re always doing it, there’s some part of you that can’t accept the simple answer so you go seeking if it was a “real enough” shift by your standards and that’s something that you have to overcome!! i want everyone to know that you’ve already shifted. just because you haven’t seen a physical change doesn’t mean you haven’t made it internally. and for those who did see a physical change, even if only for a second, you’ve shifted. period. you should never be made to feel smaller than or like your shift is less valuable.
stop putting so much emphasis on time. both here and in your dr. if you’re doing so because you want the work you put in to reflect in the outcome—drop the work! drop the load! you don’t need to change yourself to shift!! you can do the same thing every night and as long as you keep your eye on your dr and stop stressing the process, things will come together for you. but in order to drop that stress you must teach yourself trust. trust your inner self and not the outer world. build trust in yourself and time will stop consuming you.
and lastly, stop this !! refrain!! yes should be enough. stop trying to justify it by asking for time, time means nothing!!!
