okay so how do I meet this sweet teddy bear? you may ask
well let me explain this very simple thing to you
could be out on a run or in a gym (if you know you are the active type)
could be you just happened to be hanging out in a park
but just about anywhere else
but for the sake of this thing, let’s say you meet at the grocery store
you are walking around trying to avoid the sweets section because YOU ALREADY HAVE THE HOUSE FILLED OKAY
so you are just there checking out the ramyun because it is a cheap and delicious and does not require a lot of time to be made
and shownu is making his way towards the ramyun to add some to Wonhos already huge stack
enjoying his time away from the children
(he loves them okay!… he totally begged Kihyun to let him do the grocery instead…)
he just stops dead in his track
because holy shit is he watching an angel right now?
he might be… could be a demon too nobody knows
he slowly makes his way towards the ramyun, trying not to make any eye contact with you
you two just happened to reach out for the same pack
he lets go for you to take it instead, not breaking any eye contact with you
okay but he would not be able to ask for your number
so here is your chance to make a move first, because otherwise, you will never be able to see the cute stranger again
so you do and the both of you walk away after exchanging numbers
(OKAY, so I don’t remember if they have their phones yet? so for the sake of this, let’s just say he does okay)
NOW FINALLY TO THE JUICY STUFF
dating Shownu would make you feel like you’re a princess because he will not waste a moment spoiling you
not necessarily like buying you something all the time (because that can actually end up being annoying, especially since this is only the start of the relationship)
but more like he always makes sure that you’re okay and feeling alright
your first kiss will happen about 2 weeks - 1 month into the relationship
but this is because he just wants to get to know you first and make sure you both really are into each other
so he takes you out for a date… but yeah he’s an idol which means it has to be late and all secretly
and like the gentleman that he is, he would take you home afterward
omg you cuties, it is all shy and adorbs
so now the relationship really takes off
you two text, call and face times a lot because he really likes to hear about your day (liar, he just likes talking to you/ hearing you talk)
when he introduces you to the members he tells them all to behave
but they are a bunch of energetic sweeties so that is okay
you care for them all the time
all of sudden you have 5 new kids and an ex-wife glad to have some of the burden off him
Shownu likes seeing you interacting with the kids
but boy calm down, you haven’t even told them you like them yet
got the kids to help him set something romantic up at the dorm
and then kicked them all out
(honestly, they all left wanting to give their dad and stepmom some romantic time to themselves)
Wonho may or may not have left some condoms
if you ask he will deny it though
but yeah after you are done with the romantic candlelit dinner prepared by your boyfriend’s ex-wife
he just takes your hands in his and looks into your eyes
thank god the lights are dimmed
because his cheeks are burning up
but then he tells you he loves you
and his heart is just beating so fast holy damn
let’s be real shownu would be such a good boyfriend
and gives the best hugs, cuddles, and kisses
he trusts you so much, which means he only get jealous if there really is a reason to be jealous
but that also means you have to put the same amount of trust into him
he relies on you a lot because as the leader he probably has a lot of feelings he can’t really talk to a lot of people about
you know all of his worries
you also know the exact way to cheer him up
you are already acting like a married couple only like 6 months into the relationship
the honeymoon face never ending