Come to the dark side, we have cookies. (:

Miranda;21;4.26.94; Tennessee is where I call home; Mommy to the most amazing baby girl; Trying to figure out this crazy thing called life.

[nourrice]

tbh I am ugly but I’m also gorgeous it’s very complex

[iliveunderyourbead]

3 years ago… There’s three other people on this planet that fully understands what those status mean. Each of us have different feelings towards “Smith2”. For me it means the hardest descion I’ve ever made. It use to mean happiness and l love,but now I know that love and happiness wasn’t real. To me it means Lucy. There’s two good things that came from “pebbles & bam bam” and “Smith2” and that’s Lucy, and a friendship that I’d be lost without. Last year I would of had a lot of nasty and mean things to say, but I realize now that he’s not worth any of my energy. The only thing I’d say to him is thanks. Thanks for my daughter, and one of my best friends. Without you I wouldn’t have either.

lady-thc-lovelies

[iliveunderyourbead]

Every year when this comes up on my time line i have different reactions. Last year I was thankful, this year I’m hurt. Not hurt because of him, or anything that has to do with this relationshit, but hurt over where i am in my life. Lucy is 4 this year and i’m terrified that one day she’ll ask about her sperm donor, and I’ll have to think about how to explain who he is, and what he did. Explain that the “man” that made her was a pos. That he probably doesn’t even know she exists, and that its his own doing. I’m terrified that one day she’ll find someone like him and fall for his lies just like I did. I’m terrified that she wont get out when it turns to physical abuse. I’m terrified of everything about her future. I’m still thankful for my daughter, no matter what feelings i have for him he still gave me my daughter.

[psych-facts]

I haven’t posted a selfie in a while but I still am very cute just to keep you updated

via imrewritingmystory19 (via psych-facts)

[iliveunderyourbead]

You'll always be my weakness. We're no good for eachother but I can't stay away. You're my drug and oh baby am I addicted.

[meladoodle]

my granddad just called me to tell me how big his cauliflowers are growing and it was so cute theyre “TWICE as big as the ones you get in the shop”

[meladoodle]

[meladoodle]

i told my granddad this post has 3,500 notes and he said ‘who are they? do i know them?’ he wanted me to list everyone and see if he knew anyone

[auburngal]

If you don’t reblog cauliflower granddad, then you’re just a mean person.

[my-teen-quote]

[kushandwizdom]

I’m highkey tired of my phone. I want to go on road trips or get lost somewhere. And have wild sex.

Alyssa, @nomoreus_ (via kushandwizdom)

Good Vibes HERE

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♥ all things love ♥

(via crazykissing)

[gayteenss]

Things you SHOULD do when you kiss me:

Push me against the wall, the/a door

Gently grab my chin and make me look into your eyes

Grab my waist and pull my body against yours

Caress my cheek

Pull my hair

Put your hand in the back pocket of my jeans

Bite my lip

Put your arms around my neck

Tease me

Look at me with those eyes of yours, that naughty look of yours is irresistible

[mugglesofficial]

call out post to Nasa

why arent u exploring the ocean its literally right underneath us ?? u can send a robot a million miles into space looking for aliens but not into the giant void that takes up the majority of the earth we live on?? please i am scared

[thelovewhisperer]

It’s okay. It’s okay to want someone you can’t have. It’s okay to want something more. It’s okay to cry when you’re hurt, and it’s okay to stay mad at someone who hurt you. Believe it or not, it’s always going to be okay. That’s just how it works. Sometimes things don’t work out how you want them to, and most of the time, it seems like they never will. But eventually, everything is going to iron out some way or another. You just have to believe, keep your faith, and move on.

(via im-sad-lets-have-sex)

[nakedly]

I want you to drunk text me. I want you to think about me. Please fucking think about me sometimes because the only thing I do is think about you

(via nakedly)

[theinturnetexplorer]

well that neighbor feud took an amusing turn.

[ohcaptainmycaptain1918]

Imagine your OTP

[iliveunderyourbead]

I feel so defeated...I just want to curl up in my bed and cry.

[iliveunderyourbead]

I'm tired of feeling like the bad guy all the time. I'm busting my ass trying to support my child. but no matter how much I work, or how much I make its never good enough. I'm so tired of hearing people tell me I should have tried harder to make my marriage work. When I was the only one fighting for it to make it work. I'm tired of people standing behind him and supporting him and his decision to KICK HIS DAUGHTER OUT! I'm tired of hearing that I was wrong for being jealous over his female "friends", especially when they know that he was cheating with those so called friends. I'm so tired of having to be the bigger person. I'm tired of letting him call me names and spread lies about me without being able to defend myself. I'm tired of seeing my daughters heart break over and over again all because her father couldn't be bothered to answer her calls. Most of all I'm tired of dealing with this.

[brysheregrays-moved-deactivated]

any rich men follow me who want to buy me things and get nothing in return

[letterstomy2daughters]

It’s our choice, every day wake up and choose you. If for no other reason, do it for your children. Show them strength, courage, wisdom, & perseverance. Show them what it looks like to live in the light of yourself and not someone else’s opinion of you. Choose you every day!

[singlemumsentry-deactivated2018]

How to be a rocking single mom

This is a minimalist guide for rocking single motherhood.

1) Think that it’s temporary: No one is a single mom to the rest of their lives, because guess what, children grow! 

2) Don’t spend your time grieving about some alternate reality: instead, make the best of your current reality. This IS your life so make it a happy one. Laugh, cry, talk, dance. What could’ve been did not happen, but you have a whole future ahead of you and your children, and that story is yours to write.

3) In direct contrast with (2) above, cry: Cry when you’re tired, when you’re angry, when you’re frustrated, when you’re disappointed, when you’re sad, when you’re missing someone. Get it out of your system whenever you need to, because you don’t want that in your system. You want hope and love. Always.

4) No matter how you became a single mom, do not let people put you down for it, ever! People love to criticize and never look in the mirror. You and your children are a family. A happy family. Say that again: A happy family!

5) Spend a lot of quality time with your children: Always think about how they will remember their childhood. Are you making good memories for them now to take into their adulthood? Cuddle them, laugh with them, talk to them, cook for them, take them out, always. Even if it is your daily stroll around the block, do it. Find your happy routine and do it. 

6) Routine: Make sure it’s a good one. Even if you work until three in the morning, your children are smart and resilient. If they see a happy and present parent come home to them, they will accept your situation.

7) Have a paycheck: Always, you need that. Don’t ever spend money that you do not have. Oh, and don’t feel resentful of mothers who don’t have to work. Well, unless they’re awful nagging entitled leeches then it’s O.K. to feel that ;). But then you’d still hate these types of people even if you were not a single mom.  

8) Spend a lot of outdoors time with your children: the playground, the park, the lake, the river, the trails, the slopes or whatever it is that is outside. Children love it, it’s a great way to exhaust them, and you get to chat with other adults and meet future friends.  Win win always. 

9) Have close and supportive friends. Even if it’s only one friend, they’re great. Friends also have the extra advantage of talking sanity to you when you’re losing it.

10) Dream: that you and your children will be O.K., fine, great! Don’t ever stop dreaming, and working for your dreams. 

This is life and all of us have our trials. We’re lucky that our trial is a blessing, in the form of our healthy and happy children. Make sure that whatever it is you’re doing now, many years from now, you, and your children, can look back at it, and say, “We’ve done it!”.