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the three genders are girl, bestie, and king
people really need to stop making fun of young trans boys who go through the “im a soft plant boy uwu” phase, who dye their hair pastel colors, who go through the space prince phase, who dresses very feminine. realizing you’re trans can be pretty tough so staying “soft” can be a good middle ground for these young boys who were previously raised feminine. making fun of young trans men that call themselves soft/soft boys is so harmful. let them find themselves, grow out of it on their own. if you consider yourself an “elder” and make fun of these kids you’re a terrible role model.
if you’re cis you can rb this just don’t speak on the subject
also just. stop making fun of gnc trans men altogethor. its not something to grow out of for everyone and thats just as okay and acceptable as it is for boys who its just a phase for. how a trans man wants to present himself isnt anyones business but his and not a single one of them deserves to receive shit for it
u guys shame us for pretty much every masculine transition goal we have. getting body hair is ‘disgusting’, deep voices are ‘scary’, and growing a small penis on T makes you a ‘short dick man’. women look soooo much better in mens clothes than men do. not wanting to be seen as feminine is ‘toxic masculinity’, patchy facial hair makes you a ‘neckbeard’, more belly fat makes you a slobby gamer dude stereotype.
u make us well aware that the more we look like men, the less support we will get, because of the radfem rhetoric that seeps into every supposed feminist/lgbt friendly space. I’ve heard plenty of you joke that we should ‘stop making more men’. I added another man to this world when I came out, and I don’t think that was an evil, but I’m constantly supposed to act as though it was.
We can tell you’d prefer if we never came out. You’re happier if we stagnate, progress as little as possible with our transitions, be as non threatening to you as we can so we aren’t kicked out of the category of people you can stomach caring about.
I’m saying this as a transmasc who likes femininity, and is aware of the double standard that you also hate us when we’re not doing enough to prove we’re reeeaallly men, but for a lot of people? the soft boy thing is a survival tactic. You’re making guys balance on a knife’s edge trying to be comfortable in who they are when any progress they make with that will contribute to turning them into the bogeyman you tell them stories about.
use comic sans to write
i hate this so much but this knowledge is too powerful to keep from you all.
last night @phaltu discovered that setting your font to comic sans in google docs improves writing speed and creativity by an insane amount. “no” i said and “die” but then i tried it and god. i wish it wasn’t this way. i wish it wasn’t true. i wish i could protect you all from this but it’s real.
something about this font is so disarming. something about this font lets you look past the shape of the words and into their soul. i’ve never written so much as i did last night, on my phone, at 2am, in comic sans.
if you have writer’s block. if you lack inspiration. if you need this. don’t be afraid to use it. sometimes the things we find most horrifying are also the things we need the most. trust me. let comic sans into your life.
it’s true
update: this actually works. i’m so angry.
my friend told me about this and I laughingly suggested it to my wife (who had a good number of essays to write and less than a week to write them). She finished 3 essays in 2 days using comic sans.
She was livid.
Me: No.
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Me: No.
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Me: (tries it)
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Me: FUCK.
I REFUSE TO BELIEVE!
(writes a 11-page paper that’s been procrastinating for over a month in under three hours.)
GOD-FUCKING-DAMMIT.
Is nothing sacred in this world?
Hmmm.. I shall try the cursed font
My guess is it’s the same psychology as some great advice I got for manual writing years back: when you’re stuck, write on one of those ugly yellow legal pads. Using a font you can’t take seriously has a similar impact to using a notebook you can’t take seriously - it makes the entire process feel like it’s much lower stakes.
I’m graphic designer and I studied typography, when I was studying that part teachers and students hated comic sans and talked shit about it, but let me tell you something, the font is good, is not bad, you can do a lot of things with it if you know how to use it, yeah is not formal but you can do a lot of things, and it’s friendly so I understand why using it can helps to the creativity of a writer
Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.
People like to say how "we just learn through pain" but that's BULLSHIT. The truth is we learn through LOVE and being kind is the best way to evolve.
The DM asks what my character is. I reply that i'm a rogue named "Lock Robster" and the DM kicks me out.
Redditors design worst volume sliders possible
Some of these are genius! ( see reddit / via )
Well, this post went a bit nuts.
That last one honestly belongs in hell
ALL OF THESE HAVE ME WHEEZING AND CACKLING SO MUCH
All found in the comments but not found in master post, you’re welcome :).
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the phantom of the opera and the hunchback of notre dame? opposite ends of same spectrum
And beauty and beast falls somewhere in the middle
someone do a graph
you rang?
does this work
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my golden rule of gender is: the person you’re talking to knows more about their own experience of gender than you. they have questioned it more thoroughly, have known it more intimately, and have put more thought into it than you could have possibly done as someone who is not them. They are the most reliable account of what their gender is. Trust them.
i can’t believe i will have to keep getting older but not taller
sometimes the world gives it to you
Do you ever wonder how much you exist in other people’s lives? I’m always curious if people think of me when a certain song comes on, or when they pass through a certain town. I wonder how many stories I’ve been a part of that I may have forgotten. I wonder if I still I exist in the minds of people that I don’t speak to anymore. I wonder how many times a day I pass through someone’s head.
I’ve never seen this with the update and it makes it so much funnier
richie: what does he have that i don’t?
ben: personal hygiene
bev: clean underwear
stan: he’s probably never described fucking eddie’s mom in graphic detail
richie:
richie: perhaps points have been made
Richie: i have decided that i am, in fact, a snack. people just aren't hungry
Eddie, under his breath: i'm starving