Can I Have It Like That?

Leah - Oakland - Vegan - Queer sun in Virgo / moon in Pisces / Leo rising - Instagram: Leahsusanna

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you never posted any folsom pics =/

I did not go this year.

[turnmybraindown]

Okay: You should not wear a hijab ifyou don’t at least understand what it means to Muslim women.

Not Okay: WHITE PEOPLE SHOULD NEVER HAVE DREADS OR BINDIS OR ANYTHING MADE BY POC OMG RACIST TURDS

Okay: No race should have more privilege than another, equality around the globe is what we need.

Not Okay: Friendly (✿◕‿◕) reminder (◡‿◡✿) that [race] should (✿◕‿◕) all just (◡‿◡✿) die already (ʘ‿ʘ✿) uwu uwu uwu

Okay: Here is a list of multiple credible sources that prove my point/disprove your point.

Not Okay: NOEP YOU’RE WRONG I’M RIGHT BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME LOL

Okay:  Racism is a belief that one’s own racial or ethnic group is superior, or that other such groups represent a threat to one’s cultural identity, racial integrity, or economic well-being; (also) a belief that the members of different racial or ethnic groups possess specific characteristics, abilities, or qualities, which can be compared and evaluated. Hence: prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against people of other racial or ethnic groups (or, more widely, of other nationalities), esp. based on such beliefs. (Oxford English Dictionary)

Not Okay: Racism is a system built upon oppression and whites can’t be oppressed because they are in power!!!!

Okay: Empowering women

Not Okay: Degrading men to empower women

Okay: Empowering men

Not Okay: Degrading women to empower men

Okay: I did some research on the possible medical illnesses that I may have before my appointment with a therapist.

Not Okay: I 100% have autism because I have all the symptoms, you’re classist if you think I can’t diagnose as well as my doctor!

Okay: Feminists support equality of the sexes at its core, but some feminists have lost this idea and are now trying to do to men what men have done to women throughout history. We need to remind people of that and call out those who degrade men.

Not Okay: Man-haters are not feminists, feminists are always perfect, also if you aren’t a feminist you hate equality.

Okay: Vaccines are mostly safe. Adverse effects can happen, but they are uncommon and not nearly as dangerous as the diseases vaccines protect us from.

Not Okay: Vaccines are killing and sterilizing people and causing autism and Big Pharma is making a huge profit off of our dying children!

Okay: Circumcision of babies is a horrible thing.

Not Okay: Circumcision of babies is a horrible thing unless it’s a boy.

Okay: I’m an asexual trans man. I experience gender dysphoria and I am not aroused by sexual activity. I have always been like this but only recently realized it.

Not Okay: Yesterday I was a non-binary trans special boy grey-ace demiromantic sapiosexual, but today I feel like I’m more of a trigender heteroromantic pansexual. Tomorrow I will probably identify as a homoromantic cupiosexual genderfluid. I can choose these labels as I see fit.

Okay: I am bisexual. I am interested in both men and women.

Not Okay: I am bisexual, but I am only interested in the opposite sex. That still makes me bisexual, check your privilege!

Okay: I get uncomfortable when I see [trigger], and I should be careful about what I search on the Internet.

Not Okay: These are my triggers and if you don’t tag these I will report you for harassment because I get actual panic attacks from seeing ramen noodles!

Okay: I’ve got this mental illness where I have multiple personalities, and I’m doing everything I can to get rid of it.

Not Okay: Our kin types are God, Naruto, Liam Neeson, Markiplier, foxes, tampons and Obama. We are a multiple system and people are ableist because they tell us we are ill, but we’re normal!

from: http://thezombiequeen83.tumblr.com

[tyscheaven]

my skin feels so soft, thanks to My Tears ™

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Stephen Colbert

on pink slime “Yes, LFTB because our beef now has so many hormones it’s a member of the transgendered community.” (“So I just want to get out in front of this and say that I, Stephen Colbert, apologize to any of my transgender bovine viewers that may have been offended.”)

“That’s why, fellas, always look for the adams apple! That’s a pro tip. Then, look for the adam’s penis”

“Nation, President Elect, Obama is meeting every day with his transition team, or in beltway lingo, ‘tr***ies’.”

“But these days, chewing gum is as supple and flamboyant as a Saigon Ladyboy.”

“Oh, and the next time you’re waltzing with Matilda, you might wanna check out her adam’s apple, ‘cause she’s a dude!”

“I’m not talking tasteful private ceremonies, I’m talking parades with floats, throbbing disco music, and sh*m**es tying the knot on preschool playgrounds!”

“Now, I already an advance copy of the Deathly Hallows and Spoiler alert: Hermione’s a dude…”

“If you ask me, we can’t trust any of these tr***ies.”

“You see, I didn’t come here to criticize anyone. I came here to praise one man, one Her-man. Important note: a her-man is not the same as a sh*m**e.”

“Gee, I wonder how a man called “Hilary” became so obsessed with names… …but, what would this limey sh*m**e have us call the war on terror instead?”

“I believe that “the Man” is keeping the California republicans down. And, being from California, “the Man” is probably a tr***y.”

“So, was this just a simple case of a panda that was a female and all along was misidentified due to the breed’s ambiguous sexual characteristics, or is the simpler answer that we’ve got a tr***y panda? Now, I never thought I’d give advice to bears, but here you go. Chinese pandas, here’s how you can tell the difference: if you show up to your breeding pen and your lady’s got a an adam’s apple and big paws, get the hell out of there!”

“Left to their own devices, these brave young souls could fall prey to some very dangerous characters…” cuts to clips of Sex and the City “…by which I mean tr***ies.”

“Now, we’ve all been fooled by these tr***y reptiles before…You’re out in the desert with a few friends having a few drinks. You see a lizard sunning itself on a rock. You go over to strike up a conversation. The lizards plays it cool, doesn’t respond. So you drink more to fill the awkward pauses. Next thing you know, you’re back at her place and suddenly you realize what you’re caressing isn’t a cloaca, it’s an enlarged femoral pore! And you just get the hell out of there! Or so I have read.”

“C’mon democratic party. Play along! If your party does not implode, we’ll have to go with our backup scandal. Ed Rendell is a tr***y!” (screen shows photoshopped image of Ed Rendell) “Hello! I thought we were going to put up a picture of Ed Rendell, not this lovely lady right here.”

“To get this protection these fair-weather-females and fence-sitting-fellas will have to identify themselves. They will no longer shock and confuse young reporters on assignment in a new town who happen to appreciate ladies with big hands.”

“Oh, you mean the place of Queens…I thought maybe you were gonna reveal something! that perhaps we had a sh*m**e on our hands, here.”

This tweet

This facebook post

“But, here’s my biggest problem: this race was for female leatherback turtles. What kind of girl’s name is Billy? Ok. Know what I think, folks? Billy is a dude! A turtle tr***y! You can tell by the size of the flippers. And the adam’s apple. Trust me, I’ve been burned too many times. Evidently, I am not alone. They are a menace! Here’s my theory. While Stephanie and all of the other real gals were actually laying eggs on the beach in their nests, Billy fooled the judges by popping ping-ping balls out of his behind. And now he wants a trophy! Well, your little crying game is up, William! No no no, I demand that race officials verify the sex of this turtle, by checking the concavity of its plastron! Oh yeah, I’ve done my research. I do the same thing to all of my dates. And if that plastron is not concave, I am out of there.”

Colbert: Is there a difference between male-bodied and male, or female-bodied and female? Ketchup: Not all people with female bodies identify as women. Colbert: So, if I meet somebody down there who says they’re a woman— Ketchup: mmmhmm Colbert: —I could be in for a rude surprise? Because they may not be female-bodied?

Colbert: Like What? What? What kind of jobs?

Cartwright: Like transient farm working jobs. Colbert: I don’t care what sex they are, as long as the pick my vegetables.

[imaimaadiva-blog]

This is seriously reaching. All of these quotes were taken out of context and are DRIPPING with heavy satire and dry humor. Tumblr has become a fucking joke.

I'm gonna bounce

[educatingtheotherkin]

Why is it that people say “POC can’t be racist, only discriminatory” like that is better? That’s like saying Oh, I’m not a murderer, I just committed homicide. YOU AREN’T ANY BETTER. You are still a shit person for discriminating against something someone can’t control.

The same applies to people who say ‘hetero/cisphobia doesn’t exist’ and ‘girls can’t be sexist’. Just because there isn’t “a history of oppression” behind your hate doesn’t make it right. You are no better than the shitty people of other races/genders/sexualities if you judge someone based on their race/gender/sexuality. Discrimination isn’t okay because you don’t further categorize it.

[rbertsdowneyjr]

You know what I think we should do? I think we should just save the goodbyes for tomorrow. At lunch. And then tomorrow…

[andrewbreitel]

reblog if ur a fuckin piece of shit

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this is so funny

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When I was 13 years old and curious about sex and love, I asked my mom if she had had sex before marrying my father (of whom she is still married to, and has been since before I was born). She said that that wasn’t really a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ question. I said ‘sure it is, you’ve either had sex before him, or you haven’t’. She brought me onto the couch and sat me down and told me about the boy she liked when she was young and how one night she snuck into his house while his parents were gone and they were kissing and he said they should have sex and she said that she wanted to save sex for marriage and he laughed and basically took all her clothes off and he raped her and as my mom was telling the story she cried and this was the second time I had ever seen my mom cry. She was 12 when it happened.

In grade 8 I got a call from my friend in the middle of the night and she was drunk in the park crying and told me that she went out that night with some other friends and they drank a little and her guy “friend” starting flirting and yes she laughed at first but then he tried to pull her shirt over her head and she pulled away and he ripped her shirt and it was her favourite shirt and then he pushed her to her knees and HIS BEST FRIEND HELD HER JAW OPEN WHILE HE FACE FUCKED HER. And so I went to the park and picked her up and took her home and slept in her bed with her except we didn’t sleep because she just cried and her mouth bled and this was four years ago but I still have to be the one to bring her items to the till it the cashier is a man, and she still has anxiety attacks and she’ll get a rash all over her body and I just want to kill those boys but instead they are still walking around. And I’m in the bathroom with her, dabbing at her skin with a warm cloth until it returns to its regular colour.

And in grade 9 one of my closest friends was kinda seeing this boy and so they hung out one night and then she said that she really had to be getting back home and he said that she wasn’t going anywhere until she gave him what he wanted and he parked the car and took off her clothes and she said no and he ignored her and so she laid in the backseat totally limp and just cried and it wasn’t even sex, he just masterbated by using her body instead of his hand and she came to school the next day with vodka in her water bottle and she drank all day and I had to fight her to get the alcohol away from her and she just cried and threw up and I skipped class while I held her hair back and that same boy texted me a month later, asking if I ever wanted to hangout sometime.

And in that same year my very best friend who has never even kissed a boy, confessed to me that when she was 9 years old, her 12 year old cousin made her give him a hand job and he told her that was what cousins do and he gave her a chocolate bar afterwards and she told me that he probably doesn’t even remember it but that it’s something that she’ll never have the luxury of forgetting.

And in grade 10 I knew a girl who invited her best friend over to watch Disney movies and then he started to put his hands down her pants and she said no but she is 130lbs and he is 220lbs and he called her a tease while she tried to fight him but he used one hand to hold her down, and the other to put inside of her and i was the one to push her inside of a classroom and stand in front of her while calling the police when he showed up at our school looking for her and she was so damn scared.

And a few months later I skipped class and was in the car with a guy who i had had unprotected sex with in the past while under the influence of cocaine but this time I was sober and I insisted we use a condom but he told me he couldn’t feel anything while the condom was on so he ripped it off and I said I refused to have unprotected sex again and so he just grabbed me and forced himself into my mouth and I was crying and he pulled me onto him and I just came saying “stop” over and over like a broken record but he must’ve heard something different because he went until he came and I just sat naked in the backseat while he drove me back to the school and said “we should do this again sometime”. And I had five showers that night and I scratched at my skin so hard to try and rip his fingerprints off of me, I still have the scars.

And I found out soon afterwards that that same guy had raped a classmate of mine, 5 months earlier and she told me about how he brought her McDonald’s first, and how he said they could take things slow and she told me about how he didn’t listen to her either. And he goes to our school and so after she told me about her incident and I told her about mine, we decided to report it to the police and the trial is currently still going on and he told people about it, except in his version we are just “asking for attention” and all his friends talk about how bad they feel for him. As if HE is the one that still wakes up screaming. As if HE felt like his skin no longer was beautiful, no longer belonged to him. And I held her in my arms as she bawled after giving the police her statement. And she did the same for me.

And I met a woman a year ago in a paint store and she had a service dog and I asked what the dog was for and it turns out that she had been so brutally raped and abused in her life, that the dog is literally trained to keep men away from her.

And I’m so FUCKING SICK AND TIRED OF THIS WORLD WE ARE LIVING IN. How many rape victims eyes have I already looked into? How many more will I? And how many more friends will I hold while they shake? Because I don’t know how many more I can take. And who the fuck still has the nerve to make rape jokes? And… Something just has to change. Please, someone just start being that change.

-16 year old girl

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Did I reblog this already I dont care

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