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finally able to post this!! i hope u enjoy :D

#dead boy detectives #dead boy detective agency #charles rowland #edwin payne #crystal palace #noah kahan #stick season #the view between villages #Youtube

annabelle--cane

like as a feminist and an asexual if you ever imply that not having sex / not having "enough" of it is a conservative or reactionary trait I will be running you over with a bus pronto

annabelle--cane

you do not need to have sex ever. if you don't want to then you can just not do it. you don't need to have sex in order to mature as a person. you don't need to have sex to prove that you don't think it's immoral. you don't need to have sex to be a good partner. you don't need to have sex to be physically and/or mentally healthy. all of these goals can be achieved by hundreds of means other than sex. you can chose to do it for any reason you want, but you can also chose not to do it for any reason you want, including just not really feeling like it at any given time in any situation. the only thing not having sex says about your life and character is that you decided not to have sex. you can really really just not do it and that will be 1000x better for you in every conceivable way than making yourself do it when you don't want to.

drmelking

The Pitt + Text Posts (6/?): Season 2 Edition

#HIS NAME IS WET LITTLE BITCH #these are all so accurate #the pitt #the pitt hbo

tweetsongs

does anybody else get emotional about chimney earnestly calling buck an exceptional firefighter after jokingly teasing him the rest of the season. that's his goofy little brother that he dunks on for fun but when the chips are down he will be the first to tell everybody in the face of impossible odds that this kid, this kid that he's seen grow from an irreverent probie to a steadfast mentor and a reliable partner a brilliant rescuer, that's seen him go from an insecure jokester to a husband and father and captain, is one of the best firefighters you'll ever meet. that he deserves a chance, and you'll stake your life on his strength without any doubt that he'll be able to live up to it.

reduxed-lux

everything about the framing of this moment makes me feel crazy and ive been sitting on this post for two days i can't make it any more coherent im too overwhelmed.

like, this is just after they say i love you for the first time! this is them at their most honest and vulnerable with each other! and how is that communicated visually?

Shanes whole body is covered from view! he looks small, and safe, and held, and private.

(also Shane fully pressed into the mattress, skin to skin contact, fucking incredible deep pressure. its making my brain twitch just looking at it my man is AUTISTIC)

but its not just a sex thing. its more than that.

hockey is a hypermasculine sport and it expects hypermasculinity from its participants. we all know Shane invented kink with nothing but his beautiful mind but from the jump it is established that despite his best efforts at being what hockey expects of him, he struggles against his own sexual desires.

We know Shane likes to Feel Safe, but he doesn’t have any people in his life that he can fully express that to, and Ilya does that! he makes Shane feel safe and protected and held, free to express his vulnerability and in their shared space. theres no pressure to present as a super tough masculine dude. he is Allowed to Feel Small. and thats a kink thing for him! but its also an integral part of their love story!

(i mean don't get me wrong its absolutely also a sex thing and they deserve to have all the D/S sex they want)

in the books shane is pretty short for a hockey player! and kinda short for a dude generally. at least some of his initial fixation on Ilya is that Ilya is just a big dude! Shane is a gay man who is terrified of being perceived as feminine or weak or god forbid GAY, and isn’t able to express his kinks because he is terrified of being Found Out. But in this moment he finally gets to just be. To be safe and protected and fully lean into not just Ilya’s physical body, but also their emotional connection.

and I just think the show does a really beautiful job of making this dynamic visually clear, even with actors that are the same height. H and C are super similar heights, and even though Shane tends to hunch his shoulders, it is pretty clear that they’re on semi-equal physical footing.

But here Ilya looks just MASSIVE in comparison (hot).

Its framed so carefully and so intentionally to make their kinky dynamic clear, and it does so in such a moment of LOVE. Their relationship is based on kink, and their love is kinky, and at no point does that detract from or lessen the story in fact they EMPHASIZE IT. I cant think of many other shows (especially queer shows) that are so comfortable showing and expressing queer love like that.

#heated rivalry #hollanov #shane hollander #ilya rozanov