I will miss you and your blog quite a lot, but I think you should absolutely make the decision that feels safest and healthiest for you! This website can be so emotionally draining, and it really sneaks up on a person. You don't deserve any of that nastiness. But yeah, I just wanted to stop by and tell you that you've been an inspiration to me and many other people, and you've been incredibly brave with the info you've shared, and the things you've said. Thank you. <3
thanks for your kind words. i dont recognize your url (is it a sideblog?) but ive definitely grown fond of many of my followers, especially those of you who have sent me nice and/or helpful and/or supportive messages.
this blog and the people who interact with it have helped me deal with a lot of shit in my life, but ultimately im finding that tumblr doesnt foster the conversations that i want to be having. the way this site kills nuance and context makes the discourse that happens here toxic and often completely counterproductive.
i will miss you guys, and im glad to hear ive had a positive impact in some small way, but i think its going to be a lot healthier and less stressful for me to interact with people in other ways.
this seems like a nice message to leave at the top of this blog, so im going to. take care of yourselves, friends.