⋆˙⟡☽ IndecisiveMeee ☾⟡˙⋆

Late 20s ☼ She/her ᥫ᭡𓂃 Taken 𓂃ᥫ᭡ Not Interested

[indecisivemee]

Heyhey! 💕

This blog is a non-judgemental space where I share thoughts, reblogs, and whatever’s on my mind hoping it can make people feel a little less alone!

🌈 This is a safe space for anyone who is LGBTQIA+, NDs, disabled folks, and anyone who needs support 💜

DNI: homophobes, transphobes, misogynists, racists, sexists, ableists, trolls or bigots.

✨A little about me: ✨

I’m ND (if you couldn’t tell by my posts 😂) & my thoughts are constantly coming in at 350km/h. I hyper focus on some foods until I can’t stand them, I love intellectual debates, I’m super clumsy & a little awkward sometimes (juuuust a little). I know & love random fun facts. I’m lowkey obsessed with Australian wildlife & marine life 🇦🇺, and yes-🐙 Octopuses are seriously underrated.

I love TV shows (no srsly- I’ve somehow seen them all), I’m a horrible dancer, love nature, adventures & spontaneity, terrible at math but good with languages, & if you’re the person waiting for someone to tie their shoe while no one waits for you, I gotchuuuu 🩵

You won’t be left behind here.

Thanks for stopping by, I hope you feel comfortable here! 🫶

— indecisivemee𓂃ᥫ᭡

[marchosias-shrugged]

The frantic part of a depressive phase where I don't wanna be in my head but I'm too burnt the fuck out to do anything and I keep...Running around in stupid little circles mentally trying to figure something out to do when I don't even have the energy to find something to read.

That shit is hitting like a train rn.

[s1ck-pup]

it’s such a weird feeling when something doesn’t sound right but you can’t prove it wrong either. you end up stuck in this loop of “maybe i’m overthinking” vs “no this genuinely doesn’t add up”

and the worst part isn’t even the situation itself, it’s how fast your brain turns on you. suddenly you’re questioning your intuition, your perception, your ability to read people at all. you don’t want to accuse, you don’t want to seem paranoid but, you also don’t want to ignore that feeling that something’s off and you’re just stuck there trying to figure out if you’re being intuitive or just spiraling..

[shoelace4-48]

im never going to be enough for any of them

[the-mcgrath-index]

It's giving very demi 💅🏻

[indecisivemee]

Getting triggered by something someone else did and having to sit in the chaos of it all until it passes… actually sucks.

[babymorte]

it do be mad fuckin lonely sitting with your own thoughts at 2am but here we are

[thelatestkate]

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[indecisivemee]

I keep forgetting to eat and only remember when the nausea & faintness kick in 💀🫠

[landsccape]

[vegancottagecore]

i need!!! to be in the forest. run my hand through a little stream. climb over a fallen tree…maybe sit down on a stone and forget about society for a bit

[free-my-mindd]

[indecisivemee]

I think the worst part of it all is knowing you’ll never be loved the same way you love someone.

[palmcigarettes]

who would i be without constantly making fake scenarios and daydreaming about my dream life instead of actually trying to achieve it

[evocaitart]

Happy Ace Week 💜 Here's your regularly scheduled reminder that asexual people belong in the queer community because WE. ARE. QUEER!

If you like my lil ace bunnies, I have them as stickers in my shop!

Being Ace is Not a Choice Asexuality ≠ Celibacy! Many Aces TRY to feel attraction despite being unable. This can make them feel broken, wrong, and confused. It can take young Aces many years of suffering before they finally figure out that their sexuality just works differently from others. Being Ace is Not Just Low Libido Aces have a range of libidos. Many have a low libido and abstain from sex, but others have high libidos and enjoy sex for a number of reasons. Libido is your sex drive; the urge to partake in sexual activities. This urge is separate from attraction, which is WHO you feel sexual desire for. Aces are Not Heterosexual Heterosexuality = “attraction to the opposite sex”. Since Aces do not feel attraction to ANY gender or sex, they don’t fall under this definition. This point requires some nuance because many Ace sub-labels (such as Demisexual) CAN experience attraction in a limited or fluctuating capacity. However, the way that these labels experience sexuality still falls outside of what heterosexual society deems as “normal” attraction and can cause compatibility issues in relationships with non-Aces. That being said, some Aces still choose to identify with the Heterosexual label if it resonates with them. You can be both Heterosexual AND Ace, but being Ace is not the same as being Heterosexual! Discrimination/Struggle Happens Many people claim that Aces do not experience any discrimination and thus they don't belong in the queer community. This couldn't be further from the truth. Corrective assault, “it’s just a phase,” getting called mentally/physically ill, “you haven’t met the right person yet” are just a few examples. On top of the blatant discrimination listed above, Aces also deal with other struggles in our very sexual society, particularly when seeking romantic relationships. Aces who are sex-repulsed struggle to keep their partners satisfied in bed. Likewise, non-Ace partners often feel rejected and uncomfortable with the notion that Aces don't find them attractive. This disappointment from their partners can weigh heavily on Aces and make them feel broken/wrong.

Thank you for coming to my Ace talk hehehe. If you're Ace I hope you feel validated. If you're not, I hope you learned something!

[thoughtcascades]

want to be wanted with the same intensity i feel everything else

[thelatestkate]

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