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dakota johnson. american actress. (( not really dakota johnson, for roleplay only. ))

[gongyoc]

i'll admit, it feels slightly counter productive that you and i have travelled to bora bora to celebrate you moving to korea with me. but it is beautiful here and you're absolutely radiant, so i can't really fault it. there is so much to do around here, what do you say that tomorrow, we wake before everyone and sneak into the ocean before the world wakes up? you and i both know we will have more fun by ourselves. @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

I love that we're in paradise celebrating my moving in with you, though, because Bora Bora is so gorgeous. But you calling me so radiant is going to get you lucky tonight. Not that you don't get lucky every night, but I'll come up with something special. I loved your idea of waking up before everyone else and going into the ocean, it was so much fun. Especially because it was just the two of us, and we had a world of fun in the water. How about tonight you take me dancing, though? What do you say? I'll put on my best dress that I brought that's not for the ball, and you'll dress up all sexy as usual, and we'll go dancing.

[rebrosnahan]

I'm hoping that since we're in the same place at the same time, that means you and I can get some drinks together? I've been a big fan of yours for a while, and I would love to get to know you better. How about we meet at the beach bar and have some drinks later? My treat! / @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

Of course we can get some drinks together! I would love that, and you're so sweet to say you're a big fan of mine, because I'm a fan of yours. You killed it in Superman! And I'd love to get to know you better too, and yes, I'll meet you later, and we'll have the best time having drinks and chatting.

[haleyatwell]

DAKOTA JOHNSON Valentino Cruise 2026

[gongyco]

of course i know that. it took us a long time to get here, but i'm so happy that we eventually did. well... what about if you don't go back to america? i mean, i want you here with me. i know it's a huge ask and maybe selfish on my behalf, but would you maybe consider staying in korea? i hate saying goodbye to you, my love. i know you do a lot of work back in america and when you do have to go and film, i will gladly come with you. i just hate the thought of us being apart for so long. if you do decide to stay, you can spend all your time with my cats, they'd be yours too. you can steal my entire closet space and i'd build more for you. steal all my clothes if that's what makes you happy. all i want is you here with me. everyday i keep thinking about the looming knowledge of you leaving, knowing it's slowly creeping up on the both or us and it's killing me inside. i've grown so comfortable with having you around that i can't even imagine waking up and not finding you next to me. this house isn't a home without you here, dakota. it's at empty shell without your laughter echoing around the halls. i know how sudden this is so you can think about it. don't be hasty with a decision like this. the last thing i want is for you to regret it.

[infamousdakota]

It did take us a long time to get here, didn't it? And we had some ups and downs, but it was all worth it in the end. Not go back to America? You really want me here with you? It's a bit of a huge ask, but I don't think it's you being selfish, baby, so don't think that at all. I've been thinking about what it would be like to stay in Korea, I just didn't think you'd want to ask me, I guess? I hate saying goodbye to you too, it gets harder each time. But wait, you'll come with me when I have to film in America, for real? I don't like the idea of us being apart for so long either, and you throwing in getting to spend all my time with your cats is pretty much settling the deal because you know I love them so much. Plus, I love that you're willing to let me steal your closet space and build more for me, you're so sweet to me. I do like stealing your clothing as well, I can't help it, your sweatshirts fit so nicely on me. I want to be there with you, there's no doubt about that. I've been dreading knowing that I'd probably have to leave soon, and I hated the idea of it too, it was killing me inside as well, and I was finding excuses not to leave. You're going to make me cry when you say things like that, though, Jicheol, because I'm glad I make your house feel like a home. I'm not being hasty at all, and I won't regret this I know I won't. I love you, and I want to be with you, so yes, I'll stay here in Korea with you. We'll start making plans to move some more of my stuff here, okay? Though what about my dog? She's been with my mom while I've been here, and I miss her, but I don't know how she'd get along with the cats.

[ppascalofinfamy]

my darling Dakota. i've been in Europe for the last couple of months and i've really missed seeing you. life has been so busy lately but that is really no excuse to check up on you sooner. how're you doing, darling? i must steal you away for dinner one night in Bora Bora, i simply can't go on further without catching up with you. / @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

Pedro! It's alright though, as I've been in Korea for the longest time, and I've missed you as well. I'm not shocked that life has been busy for you, as you always seem to be on the go. I'm doing good though, better than good, honestly. I'm dating the most amazing man, and while he lives in Korea and it's a bit crazy, we're making it work. How are you doing? How is life for you? And yes to stealing me away for dinner one night in Bora Bora, I feel like we need to catch up on a lot of things.

[dailymarvelqueens]

DAKOTA JOHNSON photographed for VOGUE Germany (november 2025)

[gongyco]

yes, and i also know how lucky that makes me. don't for a single moment think that i take this for granted, it means a lot to me, dakota. wow, you little thief. can't believe you would try and take my beloved cats away from me. i'll have to alert the security at the airport to be on the look out for some felines in your suitcase when you have to head home. but serious, i love how much you enjoy it here. you embrace this country like it's your home and that's really special. would you like me to lie to you? when we agreed to make things official, did i mot promise to always tell you the truth? well then, if you do want some white lies then i guess you're a magnificent cook. everyone should try at least one of your dishes. let's not dwell on you leaving just yet. you're here and that's what matters. you're welcome to stay anytime, you know that. this place only really feels complete when you're here anyway. seeing you're comfortable enough to steal my space is actually pretty great. besides, you're far more fashion forward than i could ever be. you deserve an area to store everything. maybe i should have a walk in wardrobe built just for you.

[infamousdakota]

I don't think you take any of this for granted, honey, and I hope you know that I don't either, right? Hey, I love those cats like they are my own, I can't help but want to steal them when I go back home because you know I'll be missing them so much. I don't want to head back home anytime soon, but I know I have to. I'm happy that I love it here so much too, because it would be awful if I were miserable here, right? But it gives me hope for our future, you know? I'm happy that I can embrace this country like it's my own home, because it feels like home here now. Maybe that's what we agreed to when we made things official you did promise to always tell me the truth. But I should have made a stipulation that you must lie to me about my cooking! But yes, thank you, I'm the best cook ever, I knew it! I know I shouldn't dwell on leaving just yet, but I keep thinking about it getting closer, and I don't want to leave you. But you're right, I'm here, and we should focus on that right now. Plus, it makes me happy to hear that you feel like the place is complete when I'm here. I'm glad you don't mind me stealing your space or the fact that I've taken to stealing your clothing as well. I know that my clothing has taken over your wardrobe, and it makes me smile that you would have something built just for me, but you don't have to do that! I'll just keep squeezing my stuff in with yours and steal your clothing instead. How does that sound?

[cstkes]

i always forget you were in the office until i do my millionth rewatch and then it's a nice surprise there in the end. was that your first acting experience? @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

It's okay, a lot of people forget about it, honestly. But I love that you rewatch The Office so much. I do too, it's one of my favorite shows! And my first acting experience was when I was 9, honestly. I was in a movie my stepdad directed and my mom starred in called Crazy in Alabama.

[zmclk]

i guess considering all the asks going around, now is as best of time as ever to ask but how'd you actually like doing those 50 shades movies? i only got through the first one but there were 3 or so, yeah? @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

I didn't mind doing the 50 Shades movies, as someone that's a little on the kinky side, I couldn't help but find the fun in it, you know? Though, I did get hurt while filming it, so that wasn't all that fun. Got whiplash, which I can laugh about now, but it hurt then. And yeah, there were 3, though I think the first one was the only good one. I probably shouldn't say that out loud, though.

[gongyco]

you know, i'm surprised you found time in your ever busy schedule to actually come back to korea with me. it's nice having you around my place, seeing you interact with my cats and causing trouble in the kitchen. you truly are a terrible cook. but i love it and i love having you here. it's going to be hell for me when you eventually have to go back home and get on with your own life. you know i'll miss you, don't you? part of me feels like you belong here now, and you clearly have no problem in making yourself feel at home. i think all the clothes in my closet are actually yours now. who knew you could pack so much stuff in two suitcases? @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

I'll always find time for you, you should know that. And I've been so happy to be in Korea with you, I really do love it here. It's been so nice to be in your place, and I love your cats so much, I might try to steal them, just letting you know. Also, it's rude of you to call me a terrible cook, babe. I mean, I know that I am, but I'm your girlfriend now, and you should at least lie and say I'm good. I'm going to hate when I have to go back home too, I don't want to leave, but I know I'll have to sooner or later. And yeah, I know you'll miss me. And you know I'll miss you too, right? I feel like I belong here too, which should be a little scary of a feeling, right? Also, you've made it easy to make myself feel at home. I'm laughing a little about me overtaking your closet, and I feel like I should apologize, but I'm not very sorry. You know I need a lot of different outfits, just in case.

[brunettessource]

DAKOTA JOHNSON. Zurich Film Festival.

[gongyco]

and to think, i almost booked a job at the same time as this cruise. that would have been a terrible mistake. now i get to share a room with the most desirable women i've ever known and we get to visit these amazing places together? suddenly, the world makes sense again. how much are you going to drink during this trip? i just need to know if i'll need to keep an eye on you so you don't hurt yourself. you know i love being around you and your lightweight tendencies. you're adorable when you're tipsy. @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

I'm glad you didn't book a job at the same time as this cruise, because you're right, it would have been the worst mistake. I'm glad you're so happy to be sharing a room with me and calling me the most desirable woman you've ever known? Winning you so many points right now, sexy. I'm looking forward to visiting all these places with you as well. As for my drinking, I'll try and behave? But you know, sometimes I like to let loose. I might go bar hopping tonight though, okay? So tipsy Dakota is probably going to happen, if you want to be on the lookout for her. But also remember that tipsy Dakota likes to get handsy.

[chrisewans]

So, this cruise, be honest, are you actually excited about it, or are you secretly dreading being stuck on a boat with all of us for days? I keep going back and forth. Part of me's like, 'yeah, sun, ocean, drinks, great,' (even if I prefer cold weather) and the other part's like, 'what if I run out of snacks or get stuck in an awkward shuffleboard tournament?' I feel like you've probably got a better plan for how to survive it than I do. ( @infamousdakota )

[infamousdakota]

I'm very excited about being on this cruise, and I'm pretty excited about being stuck on a boat with some people for a couple of days. There are some people I could do without, not going to mention any names or anything, but for the most part I'm excited to see friends and maybe make some new ones! You're crazy if you prefer cold weather, you know that, right? And I'm sure if you run out of snacks there's a store on board, I feel like they've got everything else on here, so they have to have like a general store. But now I want to play you in shuffleboard, so we should make that happen. I do have a better plan to survive, I feel like, but I'm not surprised that I'm set to survive better than you, Chris.

[dakotaj-updates]

11.09 - Dakota Johnson at the Kering Foundation's Caring for Women dinner in New York City.

[gongyco]

private: don't say things like that, i'll never want to leave and then who's going to star in all these k-dramas i have coming up? but seriously, i do want to fly out and visit. you've been out of my arms for way too long. come on, you must be studying some kind of sorcery to have me so hopeless right now. can't say i'm pleased with the way things started, i know we must've hurt chris, but staying away from you would've killed me. i can't stop myself when it comes to you. how about this, i'll fly out to la, spend a few days with you then we can go on the cruise and maybe, if you're still sure you want to spend more time with me, you can come back to korea with me? that way we can spend even longer together.

[infamousdakota]

Private: You say you'd never want to leave like that's a bad thing. Though, I suppose people would miss you in those K-dramas, and we can't have that! I was thinking the same thing about being out of your arms for way too long. If I were studying some kind of sorcery, like I would spill my secrets? Maybe I like you a little hopeless? Even though I'm a little hopeless too. I know how we started wasn't the best way, and we probably did hurt Chris with our actions, but know that staying away from you just wasn't possible for me. I was addicted from the moment I met you, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. When do you get to LA then? I can't wait to spend a few days with you before we have to go on the cruise, and I have a feeling I'll be heading back to Korea with you, because there's no way I'm not going to want to spend more time with you. And you know I love Korea.

[gongyco]

private: you know how difficult i find it to be away from you. the idea of getting on a plane and heading straight for la is looking more and more tempting by the minute. are you a witch? because you must have me under some kind of magic spell. any other explanation doesn't make complete sense. either way, i know we don't exactly have an easy time with this thing between us, but please tell me you're free sometime soon. there's a cruise coming up, but i'm not entirely sure i can last that long without seeing you. @infamousdakota

[infamousdakota]

Private: I'd be lying if I said I didn't love hearing that you find it so hard to be away from me, especially when I find it hard to be away from you too. You know you're welcome to LA at any time, and that I'd be happy to have you here. But you calling me a witch is making me laugh just a little, especially when I believe we're both under some kind of spell, babe. I know things haven't been easy going for us as well, and that was a lot of my fault because of Chris, but I miss you and want to see you. So can you come to LA this week? Or I can come to you, as I'm not doing anything, and a trip to Korea sounds like something I'd really enjoy right now. Because I know I couldn't wait until the cruise to see you either.

[rebeccasundstrom]

Dakota Johnson

Hollywood Authentic, August 2025 || 📷: Greg Williams