underlying successful chastity play is an essential illusion. you have to build an illusion and maintain it at all costs. This illusion has to be built and maintained by both of you equally. It only takes one off sentence, one off day, one instance to completely shatter the illusion and therefore ruin the game for a long time.
As the keyholder you have to uphold the illusion that:
you may never unlock him again and you couldn't care less if you ever do. their penis is unnecessary.
not only is their penis unnecessary but it is inadequate. it cums too quickly, it is too small, and it cannot compare to his tongue and doesn't even come close to matching his strap-on (which you should remind him, never cums too early and is much bigger and better)!
you prefer them locked in chastity bc they are a better man (more caring, more affectionate, more compliant) while their worthless small cock is locked away. unlocking them will only unleash their ego and ruin all the benefits of chastity that have taken so long to build.
as a locked husband, he has to uphold the illusion that:
he is being forced to remain locked and will not ever be unlocked until (or IF) his keyholder allows it and there is nothing he can do about it.
he must obey her EVERY command no matter what.
he will comply with all of these things in order to earn an unlock (even though he probably really prefers to remained locked longer!).
It might be hard to understand, but for someone who wants to play this game, they don’t want to be unlocked. They want to be teased and denied relentlessly. That is the goal. The game that will be played is that you will constantly ask and beg and do things to become unlocked in hopes that the keyholder will not unlock you, and instead be mean tease and deny you. they get sexual gratification from this in and of itself. it sexually charges them and keeps the running at 110%.
he now derives his sexual gratification and pleasure from providing YOU with sexual gratification and pleasure.
it is important for you BOTH to play the game properly because you will both feed off of each other. a weak and inconsistent keyholder will breed an obstinate and defiant locked partner; a defiant and obstinate locked partner will undercut and demoralize a keyholder.
so BOTH of you must uphold the underlying rules of chastity or it will all fall apart and no one will get what they want from it.
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