shark vs the universe
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
h
macklin celebrini has autism
Not today Justin
if i look back, i am lost
titsay
Xuebing Du
official daine visual archive
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
Claire Keane
Game Changer & Make Some Noise
almost home
Today's Document
No title available
Cookie Run:Kingdom Official!
Fai_Ryy
d e v o n
Misplaced Lens Cap
No title available
seen from Germany
seen from United States
seen from Colombia
seen from Germany
seen from Bangladesh
seen from Greece
seen from Bangladesh
seen from Bangladesh
seen from United States
seen from Türkiye
seen from Brazil
seen from Hungary
seen from Germany
seen from Canada
seen from Bangladesh
seen from Singapore
seen from Timor-Leste
seen from Indonesia
seen from Vietnam
seen from Netherlands
@mrs--edge
Yes, I am that Mrs Edge. Married, monogamous, and Goddess to my husband @that-tom-allen. Yes, I really do keep him permanently and strictly locked in stainless steel 24/7/365.
See our captions at:
🔒https://Denial-Permanente.tumblr.com 🔒
This blog is mainly for me to answer questions, and write a little about our relationship and how we got started in this.
Question and Answers:
https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/post/669949473478295552/questions-and-answers
I wouldn't want my darling husband to regret anything designed to make our marriage and sex lives better, I want all the best of things to my dearest.
I agree, I don't go easy on him, I can be strict, I push his limits and challenge his boundaries, but it is all and he knows it, to better him, to set higher standards for the both of us and to fulfill his ultimate goal, please me and making me happy.
We choose this. That's a fair observation. We BOTH chose this. He led us into it, and I played along, albeit with a lot of reluctance, guilt, and refusal at time.
But here is the fun of the game. He choose this. He made the decision to pursue submission, service and suffering to me. He WANTS to be locked.
And yet... now it's MY CHOICE. You see, even if he wanted out, and I decided NO, you are staying in, that's the WAY IT IS NOW... I know he would agree.
(Short of some big life emergency or something like that, so that's the caveat).
But now he really is losing the choice, even though he always had it... but right now, it's safe to say he's addicted to serving me this way, he enjoys it, and I enjoy it, so even when he has momentary times when wants out, truly feels cramped, hurting, and wants out... just wants to FUCK ME...
The answer is NO. He doesn't get to do that anymore. Maybe permanently, who knows. And that is a degree of POWER I didn't know I would arrive and honestly not sure I want or will stick with.
I'm notorious for suddenly feeling guilty about the whole thing, yanking him out of chastity, bringing him to orgasm (which he regrets) and then we go back to vanilla and yet I'm unhappy and he's unhappy on some level.
I think the THOUGHT that kills me the most is this: Does he REALLY need the CAGE and my Domination to submit, serve, and suffer for me?
The answer is WHO CARES. If it works, enjoy the hell out of it. But you know me... I'm gonna worry about it!
It may take time but eventually you will see him differently.
Guys like chastity and they like to be teases. Win / Win.
@that-tom-allen The idea of this really gets to you, doesn't it? Now you know that it's true! 💙😈💙🔐
Perhaps the most popular kink blog on Tumblr, and it's not all that kinky. So why? Because it's about woman exercising authority over their lives, starting with their sex life. And it's a testament to the men who want the same thing. Dominant, empowered women are sexy as hell 🔥 😈 💘.
I’ve Thought About It…
You sit quietly across from me. You haven’t said a word since I started speaking.
But your body tells me everything.
The way your breath slowed, then caught when I said I’d been thinking. The subtle shift in your hips, the way you tried to adjust the pressure without drawing attention to yourself. The way your eyes dropped to my lips… then to the key. Still right there, where it always is.
I wanted to take my time with this. I didn’t want to rush a decision, not with something this important.
You gave me the key. You gave me control. And you said—so sweetly—that you trusted me to decide when. If.
And I’ve decided.
Because everything since you slipped into that cage has changed. Softened. Deepened.
You focus. I relax. The weight I didn’t realize I was carrying—the pressure, the performance—it just… disappeared.
And you? You’ve been softer in all the right ways. Kissing slower. Listening closer. Touching me like you know I’m the center of everything. Like nothing matters more than how I breathe beneath your lips.
And honestly… the sex? It's never been this good.
Even though you haven’t been inside me. Especially because you haven’t.
There’s something about the way you ache that makes every moan you draw from me feel earned. Worshipped.
And now… look at you. Legs pressed together just a little tighter. Hands gripping the cushion, thumb circling your palm—your subtle little tell when your cage gets too tight. I can see you throbbing through your clothes.
All from my voice. All from my words.
Are you aroused by the thought of staying locked forever? Does it turn you on to hear that I don’t even want to unlock you anymore? That I’ve tasted this power, this peace, this pleasure… and I don’t want to give it up?
Wouldn’t you agree things have been better like this?
You’re not confused anymore. You know exactly where your attention belongs. And I’ve never felt more desired.
I watch you swallow. Tense. Still. Waiting.
You’re taking the news beautifully. That soft whimper in your throat? That’s the sound of surrender.
So tonight, I’ll let you love me the way you love best. With your mouth. No expectations. No promises. Just your lips, your tongue, your focus, your ache.
Each moan you pull from me will remind you why we don’t need to change a thing. Why this is working. Why you are thriving right where you are.
Locked. Devoted. Mine.
I Want You to Feel This Forever
I can see it in your eyes—the way you look at me when I move, when I speak, when I brush against you without a second thought. You’re always aware of me, always waiting, always aching.
And that’s exactly how I want you.
Every throb, every ache, every pulse of need that courses through your body—that is devotion. That is your love for me, locked inside you, growing stronger with every passing day. And the longer you stay locked, the deeper that feeling becomes, doesn’t it?
You don’t need release. Not really.
You need this. You need to wake up hard and caged, knowing I did this to you. You need to spend your day distracted, my presence in your mind, my control in your body. You need to feel the ache when I tease you, the frustration when I press against your cage, whispering the things you’ll never get to have.
Because that feeling—that longing—isn’t suffering. It’s worship. It’s love.
And I want you to feel this forever.
I want you to crave me the way the ocean craves the shore—constant, relentless, inevitable. I want you to know that no matter how badly you ache, how deep the need goes, it will never be enough to change my mind.
Because this? This is where you belong.
Locked. Devoted. Longing.
Forever mine. 🐝
Tom, if your wife offered you 24 hours of unlimited release and PIV , would you take it?
This is an interesting variation on the question that @mrs--edge often gets, about how she would feel if I wanted to stop being locked. And I'm sure that regular readers wouldn't be surprised to know that I've already had a chance to think about it.
No.
Yeah, I know how it sounds, but this is not an extended LOctober situation for us. It's not an endurance test. We did not set out to do this permanently, it just evolved organically.
We have more than seven years invested into this. There has been a lot of soul searching, navel gazing, and emotional growth that has gone into this. Mostly on my end, but some on her side as well.
My wife would never make such an offer because it would break something that we have both been committed to: a long running fantasy that became real.
And I would never take her up on such an offer because it would ruin how her denial makes me feel about her mentally and emotionally.
And look, there's the side issue that this is a seven year long streak - how do you just break that so randomly? 😂
Every year that I am denied, I learn something new about myself, or have some new insight, or spend some time in emotional growth. It wasn't easy to accept the idea of "never inside again," hot as the idea sounded in the moment. And later, for me to cap that off by suggesting switching up to the Ranger, knowing that she would likely not want to go backwards. And later, dealing with the idea that if I ever were unlocked, my stamina would never be what it once was. And then the orgasms - first learning how to enjoy caged ones and now having even those reduced, or possibly eliminated. These, and more, are themes that you see in my captions as I work through the emotions and thoughts.
And more, the benefits. I can't explain why, but over the last couple of years I have found myself thankful and appreciative that Mrs Edge has allowed this to continue. I find myself more and more loving and devoted to her. Lovemaking is always a pleasure because I have learned how to take intense enjoyment without orgasm.
You know that expression, "if it ain't broke don't fix it" ? That's how I feel about the idea of a day or week or whatever kind of a holiday. When you are already living in a paradise, you don't need a holiday somewhere else. 🔏
@that-tom-allen And so do I! 😈❤️🔐
@mrs--edge And so do I! 🔥🔒💖
waikikimed
I hope you can offer some guidance and experienced wisdom. My GF and I have been together for about 6 years. Shebloves dominating me. Loves to spank me and see me with Blue Balls. She is not good at the tease part of tease and denial. Denial is no problem for her. I have asked her to give more attention to me but so far, it only lasts a day and then basically no more teasing. 😥 I don't mind the spanking and denial but without the tease it is significantly more difficult to get into the kinky mindset of Femdom and submission. I just hope she starts to tease and then take over with beatings, denial and kink. If she started with edging my morning wood and allowing me to rub against her butt to get Blue Balls and shaking in just, I would willingly submit and follow her lead. Any suggestions on how to encourage or inspire a woman to tease as well as Femdom and denial?
First, jump over to our main blog and read this post:
It's not about her.
Done? Okay, now read it again. To me, it's pretty obvious that you do not want to turn over control. You do not want actual female domination, you want a fetishized sexual fantasy. And don't get me wrong, so do most guys, including me. But the problem is that you are asking her to put a lot of work into catering to your fantasy, without any clear sense of what benefits her. No, getting the dishes washed is not a benefit to her.
Asking for frequent teasing sessions is not her control. It is another chore that she has to worry about in order to keep your interest.
And what you said outlines the biggest issue that most guys have:
I don't mind the spanking and denial but without the tease it is significantly more difficult to get into the kinky mindset
Yes! Being difficult is entirely the point! Most guys treat being locked as just an alternative way to masturbate, and completely miss the point that when you turn over that control, you no longer get to say how it goes.
Simply put: You do not want to give up control; you just want your partner to give you more sexy time in a different way.
I can't tell you how to stop doing this, but I can tell you that if you can manage to just let go of your desire for more dopamine hits from teasing, then maybe your relationship can move to a place in which being caged will become a more fulfilling situation for the both of you.
Tom, I've never been caged, but as a submissive male, I do find it kinky. When I read the two blogs for you and your wife, I get the impression that the hunger for kink is much stronger within you than within the Mrs. Maybe I'm mistaken, but I get the impression that you would welcome more teasing and more "intense" play with your wife (in whatever form desires take). 1. If I'm correct in my impression, how do you bridge that gap for yourself and maintain your continued arousal/interest in the play that you do have together?
2. For years, I've had this self-judgement that I'm "just not submissive enough" for my female partners. But, I've come to feel recently that there may be some truth to those dom/sub percentage sliders (e.g. 80/20 Sub/Dom); and that regardless of a couple's respective positions on those scales, sexy feels must travel in both directions for the sexual connection to continue to flourish. I think most of us subs need at least some pleasure/stimulation coming back our way from these types of relationships. Do you have any tips for how to accomplish that when you're with a Domme who may not flow back to you all that you crave or hope for?
This is a pretty involved question, and one that could be discussed at length. For us, as I would imagine with a lot of couples, I probably have more of an appetite for kinky play than does Mrs Edge. This did cause some friction back when we were first married; ironically, it was chastity & denial play that helped to even things out for us.
I have come to regard this kind of imbalance as similar to those couples who have mis-matched libidos. When one's partner is not giving what you want, it's easy to see that as a rejection on one's self. That leads to depression and resentment. This is why that it's so important to keep up communicating without nagging; sometimes just talking about the issue helps to maintain the intimacy in the relationship, even if you aren't compromising on how to meet both of your needs.
For me, I "bridge the gap" by taking cold showers, thinking about sports, and eating graham crackers. Then I party like it's 1899. 😅
Seriously, at some point I decided that if locking and denying me was the only kink that my wife really enjoyed, then I would lean into it and make it as enjoyable as possible for the both of us.
What to do when your domme isn't flowing back the kind of energy you'd like? Try to keep in mind that there isn't a school that churns out dommes; instead, remember that they are women who happen to be sexually dominant. That means that what you have is a relationship problem; again, talking with your partner will at least surface the issues - but the both of you need to commit enough to the relationship in order to find some agreement, if not compromise.
If you feel like you aren't getting the kind of sexy feels flowing back to you that you would like, you may both not be communicating what you each are hoping to get from the relationship. Are you interested in service, or are you after sexual fetishes? Is she a soft, mommy domme, or is she into emotional or physical sadism?
Do you see what I'm getting at? You will get far better results communicating with your partner about your needs, and learning to compromise.
