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| he/him | 20s | mostly reblogging | turns out Im aroace? |

[intheirwingsintheirtrees]

DEATH TO MY OLD LAYOUT TURNS OUT I'M TRANS AND AROACE

names are hard i'll update this at some point

25

i don't know why tumblr randomly made the 25 so big but it's so goddamn funny i'm not going to fix it. i'm not just 25 i'm TWENTY-FIVE

he/him. they is fine if you don't know idgaf.

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I like;

yaoi

The Hunt (see: yaoi)

Dragon Age

Baldur's Gate 3

Drakengard

Fields of Mistria

Nier

Deltarune

Hundred Line

dark academia (closest I'll get to studying is dressing like I study)

whimsigoth

shitty poetry

Itoki Hana

Harumaki Gohan

Mili

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mdni. 18+ only.

fuck AI. hate all governments love all people

[transgeoffrickly-deactivated202]

every time someone talks about someone "faking disability to live on welfare" or anything to that effect i think about how my mom worked in law and directly knew of a case of a guy who had terminal brain cancer with an estimated few months to live and got rejected the first time he applied for disability income. like, he was 100% going to die and that wasn't disabled enough to not have to jump through a million hoops and get lawyers involved. non-disabled people "living off of welfare" is such a non issue because i cannot bring myself to care about the like, 3 people who maybe successfully do it compared to the thousands of people rejected who need aid

[nadjasnandor]

consuming media like

[penumbralwoods]

"we need more amab nonbinary characters" "we need more afab nonbinary characters" i think we need more nonbinary characters y'all dont immediately scramble to shove into the socially-acceptable binary of your choice. personally.

[hoodiedeer]

Reminder, if you ever pay someone for a commission on Paypal (NSFW OR NOT) you SHUT THE FUCK UP in any text box it gives you.

(No this does not mean try to be a snarky comedian and say it was "bomb materials" or "fuck u" or whatever. Don't play with people's livelihoods, just shut the fuck up and don't type anything at all, it's not that hard.)

[hoodiedeer]

Reminder, if you ever pay someone for a commission on Paypal (NSFW OR NOT) you SHUT THE FUCK UP in any text box it gives you.

(No this does not mean try to be a snarky comedian and say it was "bomb materials" or "fuck u" or whatever. Don't play with people's livelihoods, just shut the fuck up and don't type anything at all, it's not that hard.)

[transcarcinization]

that one post that’s like ‘all new internet slang is nazis or aave’ is good except that it implies nazis created -maxxing. that is a gaming term that has been around forever before incels got their grubby little hands around it. i’m not saying there is not serious overlap between nazis and gamers but gaming just also produces a lot of slang by itself and i don’t think we should hand it over. there is a third place slang comes from and it’s Sports

[cock-holliday]

reinstalled shinigami eyes to take a look at the damage and it's so much worse than a year or so ago when i deleted it. virtually every intersex blog i know of regardless of how they feel about tme/tma is marked red unless they are especially vocal about liking it, countless trans men are marked red regardless of whether they are vocally inclusive, most who are marked green are either famous guys or are (somewhat) infamous for their transphobia and exorsexism if not also racism.

Plenty of transphobic cis folks are green. Virtually every trans-positivity account is red except for the ones who are unapologetically transphobic to at least part of the community. Countless trans women who vocally uses the term transandrophobia are marked red. Several trans women who dont even use the term but have at least on one occasion defended or sympathized with trans men are red. Several trans women who are bigender/NB/Etc with inclusion of any "male" or masc terms are red regardless of whether they seem to have anything to say about trans men.

It is BLEAK. I've been trying to remove reds and greens as I assess, but it is really really gross that it was a pretty well-known soft rule a decade plus ago that you didn't mark trans people red at all even if they were shitheads, unless they were actual proud terfs, because the flagging was guaranteed to isolate them from community.

Inability to assess risk and a total aversion to narratives that contradict what you assume to be the case for others is getting people into a lot of trouble.

Shinigami eyes is completely dead and less than useless, but since so many people still seem to trust it, I do not want people to keep getting flagged as violent evil transphobes cause they started identifying as genderqueer.

[yellow-cat]

(voice of a person spiralling) its embarrassing but i still havent figured out if its ok for me to be alive

[whyenn-reader]

you are not immune to inventing an arbitrary set of rules that only you have to adhere to

[iamanewvagina101]

what r ur kinks

I'm consumed by grief

[puppygirllaika]

at some point in your life you are going to do or say something racist, sexist, or otherwise bigoted. Your goal is not perfection, your goal is to be the kind of person that the people you've hurt feel safe being honest with when that happens.

[i-like-eyes]

pls stop calling your art “slop” its just another way of saying its “cringe” and look. I understand being young and feeling self conscious about your artwork, but your drawing of a kids next door au for an obscure plants vs zombies character that’s basically your own oc at this point wearing an outfit you wish you owned is so unique and so you and therefore so human. Dont you dare conflate it with slop and dont you dare stop making your art

[valtsv]

i need to [remembers suicide is a permanent solution to temporary states of intolerable existence] change my art style

[valtsv]

i need to create something so beautiful that i'm forgiven for everything

[writingdose]

(me with fanfics except I keep writing them)

[tennesseewillams]

whatever tho. not like i really care that much because im cool and easy going

[whimsical-laboratory-tragedy]