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isthatyourmain

lost in moments

werewolvesnearyou

crazy 4-some

auramgold

transfem t4t aftercare protip

a lot of transfems because of general societal transmisogyny get a pernicious brainworm that their sexuality is inherently predatory and abusive, and this can be made significantly worse after a scene where they're acting as the domme, especially after the emotional crash when it all finishes

so once you're in a mental state to do so (i personally know whenever i sub i take a good 5-10 minutes to be coherent enough to speak again), please please please reassure your domme that you wanted what she did to you and you enjoyed it all, and that your plays at resistance or stopping her were part of the moment and you would have safeworded if it did go wrong. seriously, it helps a lot to be able to hear that directly from the horse's mouth

and even if you do need to call a safeword, once you're emotionally recovered from whatever triggered you enough to need that, your domme is likely panicking that she hurt you permanently and you're going to abandon her and it is always worth reassuring that no, you still love her, accidents happen, things aren't always perfect.

dommes aren't kink dispensers, and transfem dommes are very likely to feel guilty for wanting to express that dominance at all. care for your dommes, y'all, it hurts when we're not cared for.

small-good-wolf

sucking dick is not the act of a penis penetrating a mouth it is an act you partake in with your lips, your tongue, your teeth, and your mouth. it is so far beyond just another hole being penetrated and is so much more an act of full engagement of every part of the mouth and the second you start doing that you are essentially guaranteed to be giving better head

small-good-wolf

you should be licking— small, flicking licks; full licks along the raphe line; slow licks along the length and full-tongued licks across the tip. you should be engaging your teeth— just enough, and you should be learning exactly what your partner likes. you should be using your lips to tease and mouth at and massage the entire thing. you should be sucking your cheeks in and blowing air out and rubbing it against the edges of your inner cheeks and rotating between the roof of your mouth and base of your tongue. the balls are important and if you’re not doing things like licking them base to top or gently sucking on them you’re leaving a crucial part out. rubbing the tip on your lips is underrated amd you can engage the exterior of your cheeks as well. it often feels good to stop your throat using your tongue and only let the penis penetrate up to the wall your tongue has made. using the underside of your tongue is prime real estate. get a tongue piercing

small-good-wolf

you really should be rimming people

small-good-wolf

you really should be rimming people

small-good-wolf

finding that nice spot around suckling on the end of the raphe line while holding the entirety of the head in your mouth can be a game changer. involve your hands at all times possible is important. the more you can involve actions like licking or sucking parts that normally get looked over (base of the shaft, balls, the line of nerves right at the edge of the groin underneath the tummy) the better

small-good-wolf

that “V line” you think only exists on thin bodies exists on every body and almost always feels wonderful when licked or stroked. rotating between wrapping your mouth around the base (not taking the whole thing in, literally just the base) and jerking the spot between the head and the shaft/sucking the spot between the head and the shaft while jerking the base can do wonders. licking the very tip while running your fingers along the shaft and V line (left hand, right hand, alternate) can elicit a wonderful response