I BLOCK: blank blogs, "transandrophobia" birthday boys, liberally and frequently based on vibes, if you blorbo-reblog my stuff or reblog it to apply it to men. fuck you make your own posts. i have little to no interest in playing with cis people and/or men.
FLOWER ☆ you can call me mommy or mama on this blog. it/its white tme, fat agender asexual puppy badger angel mommy, nonhuman. i hate skinny people and men. asks loved, returning anons welcome. dms ok, but don't expect a response unless you're a mutual. throne here. i like to bitch about my problems. fun stuff + full taglist under the cut
TAGS ☆ #mama says is the general tag, #mama answers for asks, #mommy knows best for the content of substance. i tag the very rare discussion of weight with #weight cw, filter #book of pressed flowers if you don't want to see bitching about my problems
#my mama series for cute animal mama pics. please tag me in them if you see new ones!
#mommy knows best for content of substance
#head maidposting for head maidposting
#book of pressed flowers for journaling/etc
#bad dog for the self-indulgent abusive towards myself moments
#puppymode for posts i engage with on a submissive level
#mommy and daddy for the sleaze daddy fantasy. important: the hypothetical daddy is not a man.
#mama's dolly for dollification
#mama pics for, you guessed it, pics of mama
#mama fav for mama faves
how do i refer to mama?
you may call me mommy, mama, or iris. ask to call me anything else, and assume i do not like feminine terms. you can neither refer to me as a woman nor as a man (please do not call me ma'am, a lady, etc.) i am definitely not a woman and i am not a person either.
i have a notable preference for women and fems. i fantasize about men, but am not interested them in reality.
some of my favorite kinks are petplay, breeding & impreg, kidnapping, marriage, being a housewife, pregnancy (sometimes), and dollification. i like a lot of things that i can't remember to list! i also love to be a gentle mama, but i can be a little meaner, if you'd like. ♡
what does mama dislike?
i'm usually pretty down for anything, but i don't personally like handling brats. there are lots of talented doms out there that can handle you all! i'm not one of them.
what are mama's limits?
scat, emeto, diapers/diaper play, sibling incest, feederism/gaining, raceplay, gagging, being called a bitch ("getting bitched" is awesome though)
to expand upon my limit of sibling incest: i simply do not want to be a sibling/participate in it. i can 'supervise' other people playing with it, but i am personally uncomfortable with being in that dynamic.
i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users
would be remiss not to mention that the rainbow notably straight up just removed the trans flag colors from it. like they’re gone. it’s the progress flag minus the trans flag colors.
most of my market value has been all my old posts from when i actually used to write anyway. i dont do much of anything right now because i just have no interest in any of my hobbies at all
a lot of you are more offended at being told trans women make less money than you than you are at naked discrimination against trans women in your own communities
oh and they do get very mad when we exclude them from our spaces. and by "spaces" I mean "the category we created to discuss being the type of woman who faces transmisogyny, such as--just pulling a random example here--being categorically excluded from 'afab only' spaces"
it is kind of crazy that so many things are specifically designed for right-handedness in a way that does not account for the possibility of left-handedness. its a minor issue most of the time but i have encountered real problems in situations due to being left-handed and there not being a real solution to the problem, because there's no way around the very intentional structures based entirely on right-handedness being not only the default but assumed to be such a majority that left-handedness need not even be a consideration. i think the most notable part is how entirely invisible it is to 90% of people.
i get weird looks when I am handed a pair of scissors and asked to cut something with them, because i have to explain that right-handed scissors do not work properly if used left-handedly because a) i cant see what im cutting and b) the paper will just do that awful fuckin folding thing instead of cutting because its not made to be used in that orientation. people just *assume* that scissors are not chiral and "just work". dont believe me? go grab a pair of scissors and use them with your left hand. try to cut a piece of paper into a circle. even better, find some left-handed scissors and use them with your right hand.
and on that note LEFT-HANDED THINGS SHOULD NOT BE MORE EXPENSIVE. this one proper pisses me off. left handed scissors and other office supplies shouldnt be sold at a premium. left-handed instruments should not be considered rare, and *definitely* should not be custom-order-only items.
every day it just concerns me how little compassion people have. no compassion for those living in the global south. no compassion for immigrants. no compassion for disabled ppl. no compassion for addicts. no compassion for prisoners. no compassion for children. like holy shit ...
i made a separate post about this but actually there are plenty of people cough white people who care about animals more than they ever do human people . not what i'm talking about make your own post
once you realize how much everyone fucking loves age- and incest-play you'll go even more insane when they tell you to join their campaign to run transgender woman #487324 off the internet (where she gets her income) for her incest kink or whatever
it really is Our Righteous "pouting and throwing a cute tantrum at my partner to get what i want", "daddy/mommy", "old man yaoi", and a long etc v. their villainous "calling her partner 'little sis'" to encourage sexual abuse of children or smth
TMEs calling themselves femboys and other transfemme-focused slurs is the gender equivalent of whites calling themselves nigga but if you point it out they’ll try to say that it can’t be comparable because only crackers can be trans women. Which is, you know, just rehashing the trope of “Black women are actually all men”.
It really is fascinating how oppressors just Do This constantly with any slurs/terms that “belong” to us whether we want them or not
