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poolfur

Hup... Hufff... It's okay if I just rest my belly on your car window for sec? I'm exhausted! That 10 k calorie feast was a workout! Oof- *BHOOOOOOUUURP*

bigdoughball

Come lay down your head sweetheart... use my arm rolls and moob as your pillow.

hamasumo

pixeljade

more than anything i want a world where a trans girl realizing she is a trans girl faces zero fear from that realization and subsequent coming out. Where she can say "Oh sweet, I can just be a girl? Sign me up!", no worrying if shes girl enough, no worrying if society will accept her, no worrying if she'll be an attractive girl as she transitions, no worrying at all in any way shape or form.

manlyster

Muscle fat boy gettin thicker!

all things considered i am doing bad. if i only consider some of the things, also bad.

strawberry-crocodile

i feel like the addition of Blue to Deltarune chapter 5 serves as a deliberate counterpoint to "you just think ralsei is trans because hes feminine". here is a man who is incredibly confident and mature, and he spends his entire appearance literally wearing a tutu that is also a flower.

its such a strong example. yes, here is a feminine man. ralsei is also feminine and has spent four chapters going by he/him and identifying as a prince. but there are also key differences in the ways Blue and Ralsei view their self and their identity. and while Ralsei is more transfem than ever, I've seen no one insisting that Blue is a transgender woman.

(to be clear I do think that Blue being a GNC black-coded man is incredibly cool in and of itself, i just also think him specifically being in the chapter where Ralsei gets to be a princess and stares longingly at a blue and pink drink is also signifigant)

(i also have full support of people who do choose to read/headcanon Blue as a trans woman who's maybe hiding insecurities or just continues to use he/him, i just think its a different situation than Ralsei is in)

#you know what actually #blue reminds me a little bit of when i was skinny #very openly and confidently presenting as a feminine man #quietly bottling up the gender crisis or just not realizing that there is one

there's a person on that reddit thread claiming i got rejected from applying to a furry art collab and for some reason that's the one i'm confused by the most. no? what collab? i've never collaborated with other furry artists besides patricia taxxon i think

pocket-deer-belly

it's fun to me that "pocket deer belly claims to have tboy swag but hates trans men" thing still keeps going around. no, when i was an egg a bunch of trans men said i have tboy swag. if they choose to interpret my beliefs of "trans men have male privilege because they are men and benefit from transmisogyny towards transfems" as hatred of trans men then like that's on you

pocket-deer-belly

my stance has pretty much always been that holding marginalized men on account of their misogyny results in a lot of them getting really fucking mad at you and also doing some "oh so you don't think i'm oppressed?" shenanigans and trans men are not in any way immune to this

pocket-deer-belly

it's like i'm some kind of cartoon villain to these people

pocket-deer-belly

it's fun to me that "pocket deer belly claims to have tboy swag but hates trans men" thing still keeps going around. no, when i was an egg a bunch of trans men said i have tboy swag. if they choose to interpret my beliefs of "trans men have male privilege because they are men and benefit from transmisogyny towards transfems" as hatred of trans men then like that's on you

pocket-deer-belly

my stance has pretty much always been that holding marginalized men on account of their misogyny results in a lot of them getting really fucking mad at you and also doing some "oh so you don't think i'm oppressed?" shenanigans and trans men are not in any way immune to this

it's fun to me that "pocket deer belly claims to have tboy swag but hates trans men" thing still keeps going around. no, when i was an egg a bunch of trans men said i have tboy swag. if they choose to interpret my beliefs of "trans men have male privilege because they are men and benefit from transmisogyny towards transfems" as hatred of trans men then like that's on you

bonetrousled

i can't bring myself to work on this anymore take this. now

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poolfur

worstgirleva

Male socialization is such an evil rhetoric. Yeah I guess not transitioning at the age of 5 is my fault and I'm evil for it. Yeah I guess not having the childhood I wish I did means I'm a danger and I should perpetually apologize for it

zedogica

"The fact that socialization is a specious argument became obvious to me during an exchange I had with a trans-woman-exclusionist who insisted that my being raised male was the sole reason in her mind for me to be disqualified from entering women-only spaces. So I asked her if she was open to allowing trans women who are anatomically male but who have been socialized female — something that’s not all that uncommon for MTF children these days. She admitted to having concerns about their attending. Then, I asked how she would feel about a person who was born female yet raised male against her will, and who, after a lifetime of pretending to be male in order to survive, finally reclaimed her female identity upon reaching adulthood. After being confronted with this scenario, the woman conceded that she would be inclined to let this person enter women-only space, thus demonstrating that her argument about male socialization was really an argument about biology after all. In fact, after being pressed a bit further, she admitted that the scenario of a young girl who was forced against her will into boyhood made her realize how traumatic and dehumanizing male socialization could be for someone who was female-identified. This, of course, is exactly how many trans women experience their own childhoods."

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Julia Serano, "Whipping Girl"

pg. 184

maidslime

men are harassing me today and misgendering me on purpose to try and get an EPIC LOL reaction outta me. you should show me your love and send me grocery money. my cashapp is $thecatgirlprincess

maidslime

I have been harassed every single day this week by transmisogynists! Sunday through most of the week I had terfs (the real kind) misgendering me, mocking my disabilities, telling me to kill myself, and endlessly mocking me. Yesterday I had a man misgendering me and mocking me for caring about being misgendered. And today I have some presumably nonbinary person telling me to kill myself because I made a post about how men inflict transphobia on women.

Why do these people that get to freely get off to the torture and violence towards trans women get to live comfortably? Why do the bigots get to be happy while I can't afford to have food in my fridge?

If you can, please donate money so I can continue to have food and a roof.

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