Iona's Life

Trying to adapt to a trans life, anxieties and depression.... And gaming, lots and lots of gaming

[ionadeltaslife]

Cyberdog = cute broad shoulders though :/

[aurora900]

Finally got to wear this dress today. Had to dress up nice for a new client who’s coming in to visit. Turns out they’re coming tomorrow instead because of some family emergency. Oh well…

You people are lucky, lots of selfies this week lol

[ionadeltaslife]

Love the dress it goes well with your hair colour

[ionadeltaslife]

Bored spam. Nothing to do :(

[ionadeltaslife]

[-hope-for-the-hopeless-]

[reblog-thisif]

Reblog this if its okay for your followers to introduce themselves to you.

[jamausis]

Just come to my ask box and tell me stuff about yourself. Your pets. Your favorite music. What you had for breakfast this morning. Literally anything you want, I love making new friends

[taylorswiftville]

I MADE ACTUAL FRIENDS DOING THIS BEFORE

[a-little-bit-of-lizerature]

Please please please do I want to meet you.

[ionadeltaslife]

I would like to talk to new people

[ionadeltaslife]

If you are going to clean you may as well do it feeling good :)

[ionadeltaslife]

If you are going to clean you may as well do it feeling good :)

[heckifiknowcomics]

[heckifiknowcomics]

Reblogging because this film is about me

[ionadeltaslife]

Current mood. Slightly sexy, slightly fatty very gamery lol

[eruhamster]

[baldgonia]

phoenixcollective:

eruhamster:

this show is so quality 

i fucking love gumball

“one criticism I have is that there’s no female characters but there’s no male characters either, so it’s okay I guess”

[jessi-draws]

[primal-littleprincess-deactivat]

This is so fucking cute

[sendmetoyourroom]

THIS IS HOW ITS SUPPOSED TO GO. OKAY. NOT HOW FIFTY SHADES DOES IT. ITS. THISSSSSS. CARE & CONSENT. CARE. CARE. CARE. OKAY. CARE FOR YOUR PARTNER AFTERWARD. THATS HOW IT WORKS. OKAY? OKAY.

[critterpaws]

THIS IS SO FUCKING IMPORTANT DON’T YOU DARE SCROLL PAST IT. IF YOU SKIPPED IT BECAUSE IT WAS A BIT NSFW, YOU SCROLL BACK UP RIGHT NOW

[actorsallusionpresents]

Oh my god this is so cute

[neluakgyorun]

WHAT THE FUCK, I’M FUCKING DAMN CONFUSED, IS HE THE FUCKING CAPTOR, THE FUCKING HERO, OR ARE THEY ACTUALLY FUCKING INTO THAT SORT OF FUCKING DAMN SHITE*CRIES*!?

[actorsallusionpresents]

Okay to explain.  This depicts the aftermath of a BDSM session, which seems to have involved at least some bondage as well as sensory deprivation in the form of the blindfold, among other things.  Right away he is “dropping character” from Dom mode to ensure that there is nothing wrong with her and that nothing he’s done during the session has caused any lasting harm.   The cuddling and blanketing and everything he says is what’s called “Aftercare”.  It’s the most important thing about any good BDSM relationship.  It’s essentially decompression after the occasionally intense experiences, and is where the dom makes the sub feel comfortable and loved and generally pampers the holy hell out of them.   

The thing to always remember about BDSM is that when done properly it should follow three little words.  Safe.  Sane.  And Consensual.  It is the Sub’s job to let the Dom know (either by safewords or other signals) when they are becoming uncomfortable.  It is the Dom’s job to know both their and their Sub’s limits, to listen to both their body and their Sub’s to make sure no one is being hurt, and to listen and pay attention to their Sub’s signals to know whether or not to stop. Despite there being a Dominant and a Submissive involved in BDSM, it’s actually still a very equal partnership, and one built on trust at that.  The Dom cannot do anything that the Sub does not explicitly want, and the Sub is perfectly able to stop anything that is happening if they feel uncomfortable.   ALSO ORIGINAL POSTER OF THIS LOVELY COMIC.  I AM SORRY FOR THIS RANT.  KEEP DOING AMAZING WORK.  <3

[pharaohofthesymbiotes]

Category: Always Reblog

[littlepacipup]

this is important even though I’m SFW I’m reblogging this

[coolddlgdaddy-blog]

Every real dom should reblog this

[marshmallloow]

The art is amazing by the way!

[bisexualloveaffair]

Simply perfect

[daddy-icebear-deactivated201908]

forever reblog

[bdsmtodolist]

Simply:  this.

[lunalovesthestar]

@sinnerwinnerchickendinner @mitzusins

[mitzusins]

THESE LOOK SO MUCH LIKE FLOWER AND DOM H O W

[crusaderquinn]

I’ve only ever done anything like this once and it was so amazing. It went just like this for us and the love and comfort after was so helpful.

[ionadeltaslife]

Reblogging this again

[transpolarized-deactivated20240]

Hey! I just followed you and I think you are super cute! My wife is trans and I'm just wondering if you could maybe give me some advice? She has kind of a big forehead and she gets really self conscious about it, though I think she is always adorable. I just wondered if you ever had trouble with receding hair and trying to style it femininely or maybe if you could post this so another trans girl could offer advice??

Well I’ve never had problems with receding hair or something like that, but I do hate showing my forehead in general. ^^ My solution as you can see in my pictures were cutting bangs, that gets incredibly girly straight away.

I think I’ve read some place that HRT will make hair regrow in receding and balled areas though, but again, no experience there. Sorry I could not be of so much help, hopefully someone can add to this. :)

[ionadeltaslife]

I have also read HRT can grow hair back. I only have a small bit of receding hairline but when I started reading about it, it said that it helps

[wasthatnotsideblog]

just gonna say this: if someone has social anxiety and they ask you something akin to ‘are you mad at me’ or ‘do you hate me’, it isn’t because they don’t trust you, it’s because their brain literally tells them that all the time

it’s not a personal slight, it’s insecurity caused by mental illness

thanks

[ionadeltaslife]

Tights, waist high jeans butterfly top with pink jumper and dolly shoes. I'm ready for London :) first day out as a girl

[ionadeltaslife]

London

Tomorrow I am off to London with my other half!!! It is the first day out I'm dressing up as myself instead of the guy I have been for too long!! So excited!!

[03stripes]

[ionadeltaslife]

I would love my hair to flow like this