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3000 terabytes of trans gay thoughts applied directly from my forehead to yours. my name is paw and this is where i post my adult art please behave!

[ipawzinhe]

hi this blog is getting deleted and content is getting moved soon

for personal reasons im moving my art from here to my personal blog @lesbopata :3 and i wont be needing this blog anymore since i wont be professional anymore, just casual blogging with porn in the middle

not a lot of people follow this but in case you do and wonder where the blog has gone, thats where! see you :3

[lanableed]

Engaging in kink is a form of being vulnerable—regardless of your role—and vulnerability should always be treated with a certain amount of reverence. It’s an honor and a privilege to be able to play with people, not a right or a given.

[innumerable-voices]

The other version of this going around is a twerf and a radfem and anti kink so here's one you can reblog ethically because this is still an important PSA

[plaidos]

girlies, if you’re gonna do maidplay you’re gonna need to talk about or at the very least understand the racialised nature of maids.

[plaidos]

i know it’s boring to some of you to constantly be asking “what are the politics of this kink?” about literally everything but unfortunately we do in fact live in a society and pretending racism doesn’t exist encourages it rather than preventing it.

[storyweavingspider]

Being fully serious, racialized people have to consider this with basically every kink we interact with constantly, and the fact that whites don’t is a facet of white privilege.

For example, personally, I’m technically a switch but in reality I’m a Domme 99% of the time, NOT BECAUSE IM A TRANS WOMAN (for once), but because so many kink spaces in the US are so overwhelmingly white that finding a Dominant of Color that there’s mutual attraction with AND is normal about trans women is hell.

“Well what’s wrong with white Dominants-“ I’m a Black woman with significant racialized trauma, I will die before I willingly and genuinely call a white person Master or many other Dominant titles as a submissive, or allow them to perform like 75% of common dominant acts/behavior for any reason beyond education. A lot of other Black folks in kink feel similarly, although not all.

What this means is that a lot of racialized folks are CONSTANTLY having to dance around our kinks/desires in a way that the vast majority of whites simply.. don’t. I may like impact play but you will NEVER see me being the Black woman in the kink club getting whipped by a white man, or woman or enby either. You may be able to get off on being a partner’s “slave” but for a lot of Black folks, either side of that equation will be de-facto race play. Other races got other hangups or concerns too.

Part of kink is being aware of the potential harms that can come of any kink. It doesn’t mean you can never do it, but it does mean you have to think a bit more about your shit than “oooo hot” or going “well I’ll only ever fuck white people so I don’t have to worry” because that’s ALSO racist lmfao.

[crazysodomite]

[ipawzinhe]

days 15 and 16 distraction and prisoner, what a good kitty

[ipawzinhe]

I am healthy and home again so here is day 14 of kinktober: Seize! For when you roll a nat 1 after seeing your gf take off her clothes and can't control yourself

[ipawzinhe]

another sketch cus im still sick, but had to get this out of my system for day 8: inspect, collect samples from your gf today!!!!!!

[ipawzinhe]

im really sick, but i cant call myself a toy/plushfucker if i wont draw a bit of toy/plush getting cummed on for today's prompt: soft

[thestuffieguardian]

Aftercare means both participants feel safe. Not just one

[ipawzinhe]

Todays prompt is bicker, perhaps they took it a bit too far though?

[cnc-pet]

I think it's really important to realize how much of a vulnerable position sadists are putting themselves in when they participate in pain play. This is particularly important in established relationships, as opposed to casual settings, but important in both nonetheless. Also, this post is strictly addressing participants of kink who practice it responsibly and care about their partners.

When sadists do pain play they are having to grapple with the fact that they get pleasure out of causing pain to someone who has put their trust in them. This can be devastating if they feel as though they have in any way compromised that trust. Especially since even people who know about aftercare and try to do it, often overlook the aftercare that sadists, or even dominants as a whole, need. I imagine this happens a lot with pain play scenes, as so much emphasis is placed on taking care of the masochist. Obviously, that's important, but it should not be one or the other. The point I'm trying to get at is this:

Masochists/subs, please remember to give your sadists/doms aftercare. The biological and psychological functions that cause subspace and subdrop can have the same effect on doms. Doms are just as capable of experiencing that rush of adrenaline and endorphins, and just as capable of crashing, once the scene is done. Tell your sadist that you still trust them and feel safe with them. They need to hear it.

Sadists/doms, please remember that there is nothing wrong with having sadistic thoughts and feelings if you're acting them out in risk-aware and consensual settings/dynamics. I think I speak for all masochists when I say that we are so thankful for sadists who participate in responsible kink. Remember that there's more to aftercare than just caring for and comforting the sub. You deserve to be reassured and to receive the care that you need.

[ipawzinhe]

day 3 of kinktober is memory, heres an experimental masturbation doodle

[ipawzinhe]

Today I'm not feeling very well so drawung some aftercare for today's prompt, "wistful" really helped! I hope I depicted well the feeling of magic healing I was going for :] I imagine it must feel nice

[ipawzinhe]

Hiii I'm back and doing kinktober, except I'm using regular prompts by bittykimmy13 instead, this one is unleash!

[muzzlesbian]

actually making this a post on its own because im tired and pissed. stop treating Fucking Trans Women like it’s the holy bible of transfem sex. i do not want to be treated like a vaginaless sub bottom and i DEFINITELY do not want my balls shoved around and fingered carelessly. that zine is great for lots of reasons but many of you have simply traded one narrow and incomplete view of transfeminine sex for another.

[muzzlesbian]

many trans women have bottom dysphoria so bad they cannot even get naked. many trans women do not want their genitals acknowledged At All. many trans women are post-op, whether that’s one of multiple kinds of vaginoplasty, or nullification. many more trans women do not like bottoming, or anal at all, or subbing, or perineum play, or aren’t on HRT and lack the estrogen-induced nerve reformatting that you seem to assume of every trans woman. you simply CANNOT condense sex with us into a few narrow views, whether it’s transmisogynistic comptop or muffing mania. i am sick and tired of seeing people treat us as sexual monoliths no matter what.

“penetrate her anally!” “no, finger her taint and call her equipment a clit!” SHUT UP. YOU ARE GOING TO ASK THE GIRL DIRECTLY WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO AND HOW SHE WANTS TO FUCK. IF SHE CANNOT GIVE YOU A DEFINITIVE ANSWER DUE TO LACK OF EXPERIENCE, YOU WILL BE ASKING HER AT EVERY. FUCKING. TURN. WHETHER OR NOT SHE LIKES WHAT YOU ARE DOING. AND IF SHE DOES NOT LIKE IT? YOU STOP. FUCK ALL OF YOU.

[ipawzinhe]

Since queer porn is illegal in gringoland now, here is naked pix trans girl to celebrate brazillian banks protecting us from this