𝔏𝔞𝔫𝔞 𝔅𝔩𝔢𝔢𝔡

🔞 • 25 • she/they • succubus • pan switch • 🏳️‍⚧️

[lanableed]

You can call me Lana.

Perhaps ‘Mistress’ or ‘Good Girl’ depending on the day, but we’ll stick with Lana for now.

She/they, switch werewolf succubus, incredibly pansexual. I live to fuck and be fucked. My brain does not care what your gender or genitals are. I’m here to have fun and that’s all I really care about.

I use this blog to express my sexuality, to document how my sexuality and my identity interact, and to present similar sentiments from others.

Original posts & additive reblogs are tagged #lanatext for easy filtering.

DNI if you’re a minor, please. TERFs, transmeds, and any other shitheads, you already know you’re not welcome here. Everyone else: be kind and reasonable.

Fuck @photomatt 🚗🔨⚒️💥

This pinned post will be updated over time. Please be patient with my AuDHD ass.

[svdcvnt]

Tasty 🫦

[ashes2caches]

i said i’m a WOLF girl not a puppygirl but i also wouldn’t mind taking some treats if you just happen to have them. and maybe i can snuggle against your thigh a little. as colleagues.

[werewolfstepdad]

I'm not a trans role model or a queer mom or whatever. I'm a dirtbag burnout commie hedonist who's gonna tell you to stop trying to please people when you're still fuckin miserable and then strongly suggest you go drop acid or suck some dick in a bathroom until you stop caring about laws and social norms. Trans liberation begins with self liberation, stop hoping for an easy guide to being trans and instead tread the path of mutilation until you've carved out everything false within yourself

[champagnemoon]

body positivity has largely failed because people started arguing for attractiveness and romantic prospects instead of respect and dignity

[carewitchproject]

this is truly the best summary of what all of this SHOULD be about

[j0celynh0rr0r]

Ritual

[jadedfadedalmostgone]

[archivedbylrc]

@nonalimmen

[spyr00]

[waaavictim]

the amount of subs i’m getting in my dm’s asking for aftercare from a stranger because none of their doms do it is so fucking shameful. aftercare is not something done for brownie points or something that is reserved for a monogamous partner, aftercare is basic human decency toward someone you literally fucked and roughed up. if you don’t do aftercare then don’t dom, at all. at all at all at all. in fact remain celibate and leave the community and give the rest of the world a break, it’s actually such a selfish act to dom somebody and then not give them aftercare. a serious psa because a lot of doms follow me too and i had a sub dm me asking for aftercare because his dom who i KNOW and have SPOKEN TO did not give him aftercare. and at that point it is a choice because if you’re on this platform, then aftercare and proper bdsm practice is all over and blaring across the dash. i haven’t followed a single blog that hadn’t, at one point or another, reposted about the safety of bdsm and the importance of aftercare so if you’re not giving your sub aftercare and you’re here of all places? you are actively choosing to be a horrible horrible piece of shit

[lanableed]

I know it’s because I’ve never been in this situation myself, but I really don’t get doms who don’t do aftercare??

Like…it’s almost always the best part, if not second best at least. It’s not just a responsibility, it fucking feels good and is legitimately joyful. Many scenes I’ve done, the aftercare is the part I enjoy most and is most memorable. Subs who don’t get aftercare from their doms aren’t just being disrespected, but are missing out on (imo) like one of the best parts of BDSM by far, and something that is meant to underscore the entire experience.

Case study: I have deep cuts along my back from metal talons clawing into me, and they’ve been stinging for days now. I’ve done this plenty of times, but never quite that deep and that plentiful. That experience already relies on a lot of earned trust between me and the dom that did it to me (including trusting me as a sub to use safe words properly and immediately, and to signal where I’m at and what’s working well as much as I’m able), but also that experience simply isn’t complete without aftercare. It doesn’t settle the ‘violent’ and ‘painful’ act as something I engaged willingly with someone that I trust, and it doesn’t build the association between the feeling of those cuts on my back and the care that partner has for me. I ENJOY FEELING THE STINGING FOR DAYS AFTERWARD, CONSTANTLY, BECAUSE THE MEMORY OF THAT AFTERCARE HELPS REMIND MY BRAIN THAT THIS IS A GOOD THING AND AN ACT DONE OUT OF LOVE.

Obviously, not every situation is going to be the same as this—not all doms are partners and not all people experience romantic attraction—but aftercare is still what creates the soft padded play area that is BDSM. That reaffirmation of safety and care is vital to harnessing BDSM as a space to explore yourself and engage things that would otherwise scare you. My therapist knows all the freaky shit I get up to and supports it, because we both know that when engaged properly—and supported by aftercare in ALL situations (even the small ones)—it provides a space to disarm trauma and abuse, and re-contextualize it as something positive.

[lanableed]

Also, aftercare can scale with the scene and those involved! Maybe you don’t need a whole cuddle session and candlelit dinner afterward, that’s fine!! But even just a solid hug and some verbal praise can be nice for everyone involved.

Also, go over your scenes afterward if you’re doing stuff with partners or people you engage in scenes with frequently! Talk about what worked and what didn’t! This is also part of aftercare!!!

[voraciousvampyricvoidling]

This was an extremely fun scene and I'm immensely happy you feel *this* joyful about the sensation, the bond between us, and the loving aftercare after so brutal a scene. The fact you cherish it so much means I did my part as a dom well as far as I'm concerned, and I'm delighted you feel the same. I love you so dearly, Lana.

Anyhow, if you're a dom and you do shit like this without any sense of aftercare, it's basically abuse. Sorry not fucking sorry. Care for your goddamn sub physically, emotionally, and mentally before, during, and after ANY scene. My heart goes out to every sub who deals with doms so callous as to not give any regard to aftercare.

[lanableed]

🖤

[waaavictim]

the amount of subs i’m getting in my dm’s asking for aftercare from a stranger because none of their doms do it is so fucking shameful. aftercare is not something done for brownie points or something that is reserved for a monogamous partner, aftercare is basic human decency toward someone you literally fucked and roughed up. if you don’t do aftercare then don’t dom, at all. at all at all at all. in fact remain celibate and leave the community and give the rest of the world a break, it’s actually such a selfish act to dom somebody and then not give them aftercare. a serious psa because a lot of doms follow me too and i had a sub dm me asking for aftercare because his dom who i KNOW and have SPOKEN TO did not give him aftercare. and at that point it is a choice because if you’re on this platform, then aftercare and proper bdsm practice is all over and blaring across the dash. i haven’t followed a single blog that hadn’t, at one point or another, reposted about the safety of bdsm and the importance of aftercare so if you’re not giving your sub aftercare and you’re here of all places? you are actively choosing to be a horrible horrible piece of shit

[lanableed]

I know it’s because I’ve never been in this situation myself, but I really don’t get doms who don’t do aftercare??

Like…it’s almost always the best part, if not second best at least. It’s not just a responsibility, it fucking feels good and is legitimately joyful. Many scenes I’ve done, the aftercare is the part I enjoy most and is most memorable. Subs who don’t get aftercare from their doms aren’t just being disrespected, but are missing out on (imo) like one of the best parts of BDSM by far, and something that is meant to underscore the entire experience.

Case study: I have deep cuts along my back from metal talons clawing into me, and they’ve been stinging for days now. I’ve done this plenty of times, but never quite that deep and that plentiful. That experience already relies on a lot of earned trust between me and the dom that did it to me (including trusting me as a sub to use safe words properly and immediately, and to signal where I’m at and what’s working well as much as I’m able), but also that experience simply isn’t complete without aftercare. It doesn’t settle the ‘violent’ and ‘painful’ act as something I engaged willingly with someone that I trust, and it doesn’t build the association between the feeling of those cuts on my back and the care that partner has for me. I ENJOY FEELING THE STINGING FOR DAYS AFTERWARD, CONSTANTLY, BECAUSE THE MEMORY OF THAT AFTERCARE HELPS REMIND MY BRAIN THAT THIS IS A GOOD THING AND AN ACT DONE OUT OF LOVE.

Obviously, not every situation is going to be the same as this—not all doms are partners and not all people experience romantic attraction—but aftercare is still what creates the soft padded play area that is BDSM. That reaffirmation of safety and care is vital to harnessing BDSM as a space to explore yourself and engage things that would otherwise scare you. My therapist knows all the freaky shit I get up to and supports it, because we both know that when engaged properly—and supported by aftercare in ALL situations (even the small ones)—it provides a space to disarm trauma and abuse, and re-contextualize it as something positive.

[lanableed]

Also, aftercare can scale with the scene and those involved! Maybe you don’t need a whole cuddle session and candlelit dinner afterward, that’s fine!! But even just a solid hug and some verbal praise can be nice for everyone involved.

Also, go over your scenes afterward if you’re doing stuff with partners or people you engage in scenes with frequently! Talk about what worked and what didn’t! This is also part of aftercare!!!

[waaavictim]

the amount of subs i’m getting in my dm’s asking for aftercare from a stranger because none of their doms do it is so fucking shameful. aftercare is not something done for brownie points or something that is reserved for a monogamous partner, aftercare is basic human decency toward someone you literally fucked and roughed up. if you don’t do aftercare then don’t dom, at all. at all at all at all. in fact remain celibate and leave the community and give the rest of the world a break, it’s actually such a selfish act to dom somebody and then not give them aftercare. a serious psa because a lot of doms follow me too and i had a sub dm me asking for aftercare because his dom who i KNOW and have SPOKEN TO did not give him aftercare. and at that point it is a choice because if you’re on this platform, then aftercare and proper bdsm practice is all over and blaring across the dash. i haven’t followed a single blog that hadn’t, at one point or another, reposted about the safety of bdsm and the importance of aftercare so if you’re not giving your sub aftercare and you’re here of all places? you are actively choosing to be a horrible horrible piece of shit

[lanableed]

I know it’s because I’ve never been in this situation myself, but I really don’t get doms who don’t do aftercare??

Like…it’s almost always the best part, if not second best at least. It’s not just a responsibility, it fucking feels good and is legitimately joyful. Many scenes I’ve done, the aftercare is the part I enjoy most and is most memorable. Subs who don’t get aftercare from their doms aren’t just being disrespected, but are missing out on (imo) like one of the best parts of BDSM by far, and something that is meant to underscore the entire experience.

Case study: I have deep cuts along my back from metal talons clawing into me, and they’ve been stinging for days now. I’ve done this plenty of times, but never quite that deep and that plentiful. That experience already relies on a lot of earned trust between me and the dom that did it to me (including trusting me as a sub to use safe words properly and immediately, and to signal where I’m at and what’s working well as much as I’m able), but also that experience simply isn’t complete without aftercare. It doesn’t settle the ‘violent’ and ‘painful’ act as something I engaged willingly with someone that I trust, and it doesn’t build the association between the feeling of those cuts on my back and the care that partner has for me. I ENJOY FEELING THE STINGING FOR DAYS AFTERWARD, CONSTANTLY, BECAUSE THE MEMORY OF THAT AFTERCARE HELPS REMIND MY BRAIN THAT THIS IS A GOOD THING AND AN ACT DONE OUT OF LOVE.

Obviously, not every situation is going to be the same as this—not all doms are partners and not all people experience romantic attraction—but aftercare is still what creates the soft padded play area that is BDSM. That reaffirmation of safety and care is vital to harnessing BDSM as a space to explore yourself and engage things that would otherwise scare you. My therapist knows all the freaky shit I get up to and supports it, because we both know that when engaged properly—and supported by aftercare in ALL situations (even the small ones)—it provides a space to disarm trauma and abuse, and re-contextualize it as something positive.

[lesbianalism]

Do you think you could take a werewolf?

Yes

No

Voting ended onJan 3, 2025

[lesbianalism]

In a fight?

Yes

No

Voting ended onJan 3, 2025

[yesornopolls]

Were you ever spanked as a child AND do you think that spanking is ok?

Were you ever spanked as a child AND do you think that spanking is ok?

Yes, Yes

Yes, No

No, Yes

No. No

Voting ended onDec 30, 2024

[wheelie-sick]

spanking produces brain changes that indicate a heightened threat response similar to those found in children who experienced sexual abuse

spanking: does not reduce defiant behavior; negatively affects social, emotional, cognitive, and behavioral development; and has similar outcomes to other forms of physical abuse

physical punishment is linked to antisocial behavior in adults

spanking has been linked by many studies to depression, personality disorders, suicidal ideation & attempts, self injurious behavior, and substance abuse

there is no evidence that spanking is effective

Stop. Hitting. Your. Fucking. Kids.

[lanableed]

A h h h, I s e e. G o o d t o k n o w.

[this user was spanked as a child]

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

rating different responses to telling someone i’m polyamorous / dating multiple people

“oh… but how does that work?” a little annoying but usually comes from a place of genuine confusion or curiosity. 6/10

“but isnt that cheating?” no. 2/10

“so who’s your favourite partner?” believe it or not i dont have one, and even if i did have a fave it’d be shitty to say it out loud. 3/10

“oh sweet me too” FUCK YEAH 10/10

“can i join” well i barely know you so no. ranges from 2/10 to 4/10 depending on who’s asking

“woah so you’re like, an ot3 in real life” fuck your fandom shit. touch grass. 1/10

“i could never do polyamory” you’d think this is a perfectly fine thing to hear until you get it from EVERY FUCKING PERSON. 3/10

“thats cool” hell yeah it is. 9/10

“you'll get married and find the one eventually” fuck you ive already found the several and amatonormativity can go give birth to a cactus out of its asshole. 0/10

“so how do you guys break up” and we’re back with another well meaning question. if you are familiar with among us then that’s your answer. 5/10

“like sister wives” absolutely not. wildly different. 1/10

“rent must be way easier” monogamy? in this economy? yeah you have a point. 7/10

“huh i never thought of that, maybe i should become poly/open up my relationship” go nuts!! but be cautious as it could fuck up any present monogamous relationship you have, make sure to communicate clearly & respect boundaries. 6/10

“damn you must have so many threesomes/orgies” i mean yeah but also thats not how you start a conversation. 3/10

“oh that must be nice, having so many people who love you and you care about” awww thank you. it really, really is. 10/10

“like mormons” die. -10000/10

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

the thrilling sequel, based on other responses people have mentioned in the notes

"do you have three weed smoking girlfriends?" a little overdone but it shows you're chill and it's a classic tumblr meme. 7/10

"so how's the bathroom/sleeping situation?" polite and thoughtful. ranges from 3/10 to 6/10 depending on polycule size and living situation.

"damn, save some for the rest of us" only really funny the first few times. 2/10

"so which one of you is the [monogamous relationship role]?" it does not work like that. 1/10

"so which one of you is the [joke role]?" you gotta be creative with this one for it to really land. 6/10

"do they know about each other?" polyamory. is. not. cheating. 1/10

"ok do you want a cracker" only incidentally funny, but if you have at least one partner who is white you have the chance for an absolutely KILLER response. 3/10

"[any joke about the greater seattle polycule]" a bit stale. inverse relationship between distance from seattle and funniness level. 5/10

"you should love whoever you choose love" one of the kindest things you can ever say about polyamory. 10/10

"scheduling must be a nightmare" this can be either the least correct thing or the realest thing ever said. 6/10

"like swingers" a bit but don't make that generalization. 2/10

"i wish i could have a partner on the side" sighhhhh. 1/10

"cuddles must be nice" yeahhhhh :3... 7/10

"dnd night has to be fun" tbh i've never actually played a ttrpg with my partners but we do play minecraft occasionally and it's great. 6/10

"you should unionize" SOLIDARITY FOREVER 10/10

[lanableed]

Amazed that I’ve heard like at least 2/3rds of these at some point irl. Also love that “weed smoking girlfriends” is that ubiquitous.

[armoredlizards]

Anipunks - Wolfpunk

So I have this series of characters called Anipunks... I think this was the first I ever made for it

[barladera]