Nothing wrong with a little fantasy

~Hello, I'm Iris♥ ~NSFW ~Feminist, body positive ~Pretty porn with a bit of kink ~I like to share personal stuff sometimes about my lady and how she makes me swoon♡

[irisdelights]

Long shot

Anyone use Telegram?

[irisdelights]

I’m not happy with the way I look, but I’m going to work on it. I owe myself that much.

[lesbianwaves-deactivated2022021]

finally some good fucking news

[irisdelights]

A #look

[aaitwo-deactivated20250816]

emotionally im doing the laminated paper wobbling sound

[valtsv]

since october is also lgbt history month i officially declare halloween to be Pride 2

[valtsv]

[irregularcollapse]

Wicked Women (2011-2014) - Rosemary Valadon

[rhaenyras-alicent]

same gay energy

[sandersstudies]

Hey kids, not to be a party pooping adult, but if you start noticing signs of having an addictive personality/tendencies at a young age, be really careful when experimenting with alcohol, marijuana, or nicotine (and other illegal drugs, which I would encourage you to avoid entirely; and medicinal drugs like opioids acquired after a surgery).

Like, if you can't tear yourself away from a video game, even to make it to an important event on time? Addictive tendencies.

If you keep spending your allowance money on those funny collectibles or new shoes even when you promise yourself you're going to save it? Addictive tendencies.

If you find yourself unable to resist and manage food cravings, or frequently overeating even when it makes you feel bad? Addictive tendencies.

Be aware of yourself, kids. Be cautious and don't be anybody's fool. I love you, be safe!

[feministism]

[valtsv]

offering someone your jacket is like an indirect hug

[valtsv]

okay but i’m not done. offering someone your jacket is a gesture that contains multitudes because it can be an expression of concern (“you look cold - here, take this”) or a comforting gesture (placing your jacket around the shoulders of someone experiencing shock, offering them the reassuring warmth of your body heat in a way that doesn’t violate their personal space during a time when they might not be in the right mental state to give consent to physical contact) or an attempt at flirting (offering your crush a part of you that simulates physical contact without overstepping any boundaries) or an expression of affection (sharing something that belongs to you and is uniquely yours with someone you love, an understated way of offering yourself to them, letting them know that you consider yourself a part of them and them a part of you). sometimes it’s all of them at once. it’s a way of saying “i care about you, you and your wellbeing are important to me” without words.

[valtsv]

fucking hell i was so touchstarved last night its just a jacket bro calm down

[irisdelights]

[gaypeopletwitter]

[memes-r-memes]

[poetry-protest-pornography]

TW: Eating disorders

Eating disorders are fun, because you have to confront them every day. No matter how many years you have of a reasonable relationship with food, all it takes is one bad day, and you’re right back in the middle of the unhealthy thoughts and the mean self talk and hating yourself for having a body.

And that’s… Really it? It’s all wrapped up in resenting that you’re a person with a body that requires you to feed it.

It’s so aggravating that I know, on a real and acknowledged level, that what I used to do to myself was Bad and Dangerous. I know that all the shitty things my brain is whispering are wrong and stupid and harmful. I know that my body, with all it’s faults and broken bits that hurt when it rains (or really just all the time), is a good body. It’s allowed me to have two amazing children, and lets me play with them and hug them and teach them things. It dances with varying degrees of silliness and absurdity and finesse.

I know I’m more than my physical appearance.

But it’s still so hard to ignore that stupid little voice somedays. To listen to Smart Rachael, who knows my body is fine and that I don’t need to be a size 6 again to be a worthwhile person, instead of Sick Rachael, who is pretty sure if I could get into 2015’s jeans, all the world’s problems would be solved.

So! If you need a pep-talk from Smart Rachael like I do:

Your body is a good body. It houses your sexy brain and your beautiful heart.

Your dress size is irrelevant to your worth.

You are lovely and amazing.

Your butt looks great today.

[skarchomp]

me when i see a dog: pubby!

me when i see a service dog: MISTER pubby…

[xhba]

third base is when he sees u cry for the first time